Do You Remember

As a senior fujoshi, I have been a fujoshi for many years and have always had a tolerant attitude towards gays, whether they are gay or lesbian. As a fujoshi who has been diving in JJ all year round, I like your article very much, but after reading this essay, your words made me a little angry. Find a random woman to marry and then divorce? So can ladies just find a man to marry and then get divorced? Maybe you don't know that "gaywives" are a group of women who marry gay men. Putting aside some financial relationships, there are many gay wives who are suffering because their husbands have entered into deceptive marriages with them for one reason or another. Among gay wives, there are even some who endure domestic violence for a long time and make sacrifices for the sake of their children. In this society that is not tolerant of homosexuality, gay men easily pull in an innocent woman to be their shield for reasons such as face, inheritance and so on. While sacrificing others, they also feel sorry for themselves, saying that it is all about social pressure, parents' expectations and so on. Did the unlucky woman who married you use a knife to force you to marry her? In order to prevent the family members from getting hurt, they let the women outside get hurt? "Then you go find a woman to get married, and then find any reason to get divorced. A divorced man's marriage should be much less stressful than an unmarried man's." Please don't say such irresponsible and willful words again. I wrote this comment out of anger, not to get at odds with the author, but to remind the author that as a writer with many readers, please be responsible for your words and don't easily write words that will have a negative effect. If my words make you unhappy, I'm sorry, just think I'm farting.

It's exactly what I thought... When I was reading the novel, I was thinking that the author must be a cute boy. I don't know if your mood is still the same, but I still want to say that it is really lonely to love because of loneliness. It makes people sigh but doesn't want to stop you. When we grow up, we will leave our soft hearts in the soil and ravage them, allowing them to slowly harden and become stronger, and we are always growing, no matter in which direction. In the past, I couldn't accept many small sorrows in life, but now they are normal. This does not mean that they cannot move me, but I have the basic ability to accept them. I say so much because I want to express how deeply you feel about your words. I don't know if you are well now, but I hope so. I love you.

I followed the two completed novels of Red Mansion and Zong Qiongyao, and then fell into the pit of Yitian. It turns out that Aaron is such a young boy. When I was reading the article, I always felt that the author could not be a boy. Well, if he was gay, it would explain the female perspective and way of thinking. . . I also have good friends who are gay. Generally speaking, love life is more difficult than heterosexual relationships. But if you are still so young, let's fall in love! Being young means having endless possibilities. Never marry someone you don't love. No matter whether the other person is a boy or a girl, this is immoral and will not make you happy.

Well, I'm not gay, but I have liked girls. I want to kiss her, hold her, pamper her, and give her everything I can, but I can't tell her. Maybe you are too lonely, but it doesn't look like you are a brave person.

The author is so sensitive... It seems that he is in a world that I can't understand. Best wishes.

For boys to love boys, simply expressing approval is still too pale. But I still want to say that I really hope you can be happier like this, with less struggles and less pain. I used to randomly match up boys, just for fun, fantasizing about all kinds of sadomasochism and affection. But when friends around me go through this, I feel so heartbroken. I can't make him give up the one he loves, nor can I persuade him to confess to his family. I can only watch...