I have been to many cities and always use my intuition to judge whether I like it or not. When deciding which city to settle in, sometimes the reason is very simple; just to make a living.
Life is always annoying. The city is not as reassuring as you imagine. There are too many places where you are not satisfied with your choices, and you may even long for the next city to be better.
But when you start to miss it, maybe it's just because of a certain person.
Later you said, this is my city.