People often say, "No filial son will stay by a sick parent's bed for long." But who knows what cruel words are spoken while the sick lie in peaceful slumber?
When people talk about raising children to care for you in old age, they say there are many unfilial children. But who knows what made them that way?
Come see how three daughters and one son care for their mother after she suffers a stroke. Come see a modern-day version of The Hardships of Old Age.
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The Heir is a saved-draft story about raising a son, coming soon.
He was irritable and quick-tempered, all because he had no son.
He was overjoyed, all because he had a son.
He spent half his life striving for one son.
Only Sons, a completed novel
Only sons.
A son carries on the family line; without one, you have no roots.
A son is so important. In this age of favoring boys over girls, it has condemned countless women to struggle desperately in the wave of "valuing sons."
Theme: For thousands of years, sons have been valued over daughters. Are sons really worth valuing so much?
Alas, men are shrewd. When inheriting the family property, he said that he should get the lion's share because he was a man. When it came time to support his parents, he started saying that the law stipulates that all children must be supported. Therefore, I would like to advise you not to think about raising a son to protect yourself in old age. This son is the old man's biological son, and is supposed to be closer to him than his daughter-in-law, but he is not as patient with his mother as his daughter-in-law. Really speechless?
By the way, are we going to update it? Expect
Raise children for old age, treat children as investments, give resources to children who are most likely to have returns, and not give resources to other children. This thing is like buying a lottery ticket. How can you win the jackpot?
Treat all children equally, provide them with resources and love, show no favoritism, and ask for nothing in return. Instead, they will enjoy their long life. The father is kind and the son is filial. Children watch adults grow up. Although Jin Bao has two sons, he leaves everything to his wife. He feels it is shameful to help his mother bathe and wipe her body. He knows that his wife is thin and weak, but he never thinks of doing more things and taking on more responsibilities. He only thinks that since he makes money, it is his wife's turn to do everything. But isn't his mother his mother? When he gets old, his life will probably be even worse than that of his mother. What can a child learn from growing up in this kind of environment? Although I graduated from a prestigious university, I have always said that knowledge cannot be exchanged for morality. Not only is he immoral towards his wife, he also fails to fulfill his obligations towards his children and mother. Is this difficult to handle? The third child is unwilling to pay, so he can pay more for the third child, and each person pays two shares to let the mother go to a nursing home. The two sisters have this share, and it is impossible to say anything. He is deadlocked and unwilling to solve the problem. What does it mean? I tried hard, but the third child is obstructing it and cannot solve it. Wife, you still have to do your best to accept the punishment. He always acted like he had done everything he needed to do, but in fact he didn't solve anything and left all the problems to others. Even if he couldn't send his mother to a nursing home, he could hire a part-time worker for his wife to do laborious tasks like moving and scrubbing her, but he never had this idea. From his nickname, Jinbao, it can be seen that this man has enjoyed the best treatment in the family since he was a child. Now it is time for him to be the pillar and take responsibility, but he has given it all to his wife. This kind of person is as selfish as his mother, and will become even more domineering than his mother when he gets older.
The reality is very sad, and everyone can be forgiven for looking at it from another perspective. The third sister looks like a "villain", but you don't know what kind of injustice she has suffered in a family that values boys over girls.
The anxious Li Chengfei also ate up all the family dividends. Although he could not buy a house, the family's decades of love and the biggest money were given to him.
The most innocent, pitiful and cute one is only Xiao Xiao. I hate that she is trapped at home after graduating from a prestigious university and is too kind-hearted. Every character is three-dimensional
Rights and obligations are relative. Why do you think that the son has the most responsibility? That's because he enjoys most of the benefits, while daughters have been treated differently since childhood. It's unrealistic if you insist on equal responsibilities. Of course, if you want to be legally consistent, then if you follow the law, it will only be a few hundred a month. The rest can only be based on past relationships and your own conscience.
I have read the author's "Chapter 1", which almost describes real life, but I dare not read this book because I am afraid that I will become more afraid of marriage and childbirth.
Can't you go to court?
How is your wife's health? More updates?
It's very well written, I look forward to the update and wish you a speedy recovery.
Alas, men are shrewd. When inheriting the family property, he said that he should get the lion's share because he was a man. When it came time to support his parents, he started saying that the law stipulates that all children must be supported. Therefore, I would like to advise you not to think about raising a son to protect yourself in old age. This son is the old man's biological son, and is supposed to be closer to him than his daughter-in-law, but he is not as patient with his mother as his daughter-in-law. Really speechless?
By the way, are we going to update it? Expect
Raise children for old age, treat children as investments, give resources to children who are most likely to have returns, and not give resources to other children. This thing is like buying a lottery ticket. How can you win the jackpot? Treat all children equally, provide them with resources and love, show no favoritism, and ask for nothing in return. Instead, they will enjoy their long life. The father is kind and the son is filial. Children watch adults grow up. Although Jin Bao has two sons, he leaves everything to his wife. He feels it is shameful to help his mother bathe and wipe her body. He knows that his wife is thin and weak, but he never thinks of doing more things and taking on more responsibilities. He only thinks that since he makes money, it is his wife's turn to do everything. But isn't his mother his mother? When he gets old, his life will probably be even worse than that of his mother. What can a child learn from growing up in this kind of environment? Although I graduated from a prestigious university, I have always said that knowledge cannot be exchanged for morality. Not only is he immoral towards his wife, he also fails to fulfill his obligations towards his children and mother. Is this difficult to handle? The third child is unwilling to pay, so he can pay more for the third child, and each person pays two shares to let the mother go to a nursing home. The two sisters have this share, and it is impossible to say anything. He is deadlocked and unwilling to solve the problem. What does it mean? I tried hard, but the third child is obstructing it and cannot solve it. Wife, you still have to do your best to accept the punishment. He always acted like he had done everything he needed to do, but in fact he didn't solve anything and left all the problems to others. Even if he couldn't send his mother to a nursing home, he could hire a part-time worker for his wife to do laborious tasks like moving and scrubbing her, but he never had this idea. From his nickname, Jinbao, it can be seen that this man has enjoyed the best treatment in the family since he was a child. Now it is time for him to be the pillar and take responsibility, but he has given it all to his wife. This kind of person is as selfish as his mother, and will become even more domineering than his mother when he gets older.
The reality is very sad, and everyone can be forgiven for looking at it from another perspective. The third sister looks like a "villain", but you don't know what kind of injustice she has suffered in a family that values boys over girls. The anxious Li Chengfei also ate up all the family dividends. Although he could not buy a house, the family's decades of love and the biggest money were given to him. The most innocent, pitiful and cute one is only Xiao Xiao. I hate that she is trapped at home after graduating from a prestigious university and is too kind-hearted. Every character is three-dimensional
Rights and obligations are relative. Why do you think that the son has the most responsibility? That's because he enjoys most of the benefits, while daughters have been treated differently since childhood. It's unrealistic if you insist on equal responsibilities. Of course, if you want to be legally consistent, then if you follow the law, it will only be a few hundred a month. The rest can only be based on past relationships and your own conscience.
I have read the author's "Chapter 1", which almost describes real life, but I dare not read this book because I am afraid that I will become more afraid of marriage and childbirth.
Can't you go to court?
How is your wife's health? More updates?
It's very well written, I look forward to the update and wish you a speedy recovery.
How about updating today? Damn, you gave up? QAQ