Lend Me Ten Years

I admire your sister very much, but I am not surprised by the final result. Even with the current development of society, few families with boys would really accept not having children. Love it, but really inappropriate.

Maybe we will feel sad, but this is the best result after their efforts. They don't want to do this, but they can only do this.

I don't know if I've really read it, but I still feel sorry for what the author wrote: "My ex-brother-in-law got a new girlfriend."

It is true that divorce is inevitable. How to put it, although the male protagonist has no very vicious faults, his career is a career, and the female protagonist's career is not a career... When preparing for pregnancy, she is required to be a full-time housewife at home... Not to mention being pregnant and raising children for the next ten or twenty years or even longer. What sane adult doesn't know what impact being a full-time housewife will have on women?

In this society, I feel that it is mostly women who can't let go. Men say nice things but in fact they still want children and prefer their mothers. They don't care about the woman's career and can always find the next one. They are the most heartless.

After reading it, I thought a lot. No one is wrong, they just have different pursuits. Having children does have a greater impact on women, and the meaning of a woman is not just having children. Life is only a few decades, and the most important thing is to be happy and be yourself. Living for others will be very tiring. In real life, there are also many couples who agree with DINK at the beginning. When they are in their forties, it is difficult for the girl to have children, and the guy starts to regret it and cheat on him with a mistress. I just hope that all girls have the ability to deal with all the variables in life and don't force themselves.

So this is part of the reason why women in today's society don't want to get married and have children. I can live the life I want by myself without being restricted by anyone. Isn't it good to do a good job and live in another way?

It's understandable. This problem is too common. The best outcome is that everyone is fine.

I have a house, a car, two dogs, and my career is booming. It's pretty good. No one is the only one.

Men are very realistic, so whether it is the choice of the heroine or the author's sister, they are all right. You must first learn to love yourself.