Extras

I can't accept this kind of reconciliation, it feels like a relief to literature. Lou's state at the beginning was obviously that although he didn't cheat, he allowed another person to strongly participate in their feelings, and even interacted with the other person intentionally or unintentionally. What Yan Chao said at that time, obviously with Lou's upbringing, it is impossible not to know how to follow a person. He keeps a distance from someone who cares about him. He knows it and knows it but does not keep the distance. He also takes the initiative to give rabbit meat. If he does not refuse, he accepts it by default. Using a weak character to erase his ambiguity and swings in emotional boundaries is too unfair to Yan Chao. Although Yan Chao has low self-esteem, he is not good at feelings. I am confident, but I have never shown my shortcomings in relationships in such a hurtful way. What makes me uncomfortable is that even if the two of them got back together in the end, they tried to equate the hurt suffered by Yan Chao with Lou's own character flaws, as if the divorce was just between the two of them. "Ignorance", the two people's faults are summarized as just "character incompatibility". Yan Chao's injury inexplicably became an "inevitable result of his character flaws" and cannot be blamed on Lou. The reason for getting back together is also because "he figured it out on his own" or his character flaws disappeared with his self-confidence, but! Obviously it can be avoided! Fan Lou's maintenance and concern for him can be avoided. His character flaws and his lack of self-confidence are all aggravated by Lou. If his happiness is destined to only be obtained by "thinking about it on his own", then Lou's only role is to make him excited and then cause harm and finally make him think about it. To obtain happiness in this state of self-growth, is Yan Chao here to overcome the calamity? Compensation behavior behind Lou Because under this premise, it seems very redundant. Except for An An, others feel that Yan Chao can solve it by himself with Yan Chao's ability and connections. Yan Chao chooses to get back together again, not because of Lou's efforts but because of his own growth.

I think it's acceptable. It's just that two people who don't know how to love grow up stumblingly. There must be an emotional basis. It's pretty good.

Originally, I looked down upon the cowardly nature of a person who refused to fight, fight, or solve problems. Even if the relationship broke up after a quarrel, it would be fine to reconcile. Two weak and immature people can't stand a little wind and rain from the outside world, and they are destined to be separated. Now that both of them have grown up and are back together again, it's quite gratifying.

Sure enough, if you have children, the divorce will not be complete.

我就觉得会复合，哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈蛮好的。

It turns out that Yan Chao's extra story is here

We got back together, I'm scratching my head, but it's still acceptable.

There was no inexplicable reunion. The growth process of the two people cannot be described in a few words, but between the lines, you can know that the other party is not the same as when they separated. It doesn't hurt to try again. Yan Chao is now more confident and knows that he won't wrong himself. It's really great [please]

Like! ! ! It turns out that this is where they end up!

This pair. . . In the main text, there is no follow-up to the separation. I went to read it and found out that they got back together somehow. It just felt like I had read the beginning and the end, and the middle process was... Omitted. What did I see?