The Male Lead's Descent into Scum

Why is it that all the comments section is full of misogyny? This article was written in vain. My beloved daughter's reflection on the misogyny she wrote in the past is called misogyny? I think what my wife said is very clear. Some people still say that if there is a man like Xie Yin who can accept it, Le

Last night I came here to check in and talk, and something just happened that made me feel it personally. My parents went to work as usual today, and I was a girl at home. At 3:30 in the afternoon, someone started knocking on the door. I thought it was takeout and ignored it. But when I opened the takeout app and found that the merchant was still preparing goods, I realized something was wrong and went to the door to check the peephole. There was no one at first, but the sensor light at the door was still on, so I didn't open the door. After a minute, a man suddenly appeared in the peephole and started to use something to pick the lock on my door. The door lock also started to ring. I didn't dare to say anything and started to bang on the door. The man outside walked away. But for the next ten minutes, the sensor light at the door was still on, and I felt that he had not left. Sure enough, half an hour later he appeared in the peephole again. I immediately called the police and called my dad. My dad said he couldn't come back and asked me if I dared to go out for a look. I was speechless and said I wouldn't go out until the police came. 20 Minutes later, two middle-aged male police officers arrived. As soon as I opened the door and before I spoke, they pointed to the takeout on the doorknob and said it was my takeout, it must be the takeaway person. Of course not. I have been staring at the peephole for the past hour. The takeout was delivered two minutes ago. I also called the takeaway guy and asked him if he saw anyone else at the door. Then the two policemen asked me what was going on, and I described to them everything from the time I heard the knocking on the door to the time I pried the door open until the man who pried the door appeared again. They first asked me if I had asked who I was and what I was doing. I said no, I was alone at home and I didn't dare to make a sound. As soon as I made a sound, he knew that I was the only young girl at home. They laughed and said that they must ask, in case it is the property management or cleaning staff. They said that if something like this happens in the future, they should call out at home, "Husband, has your takeout arrived?" To tell the strange men outside that my husband is at home. It's reasonable to a certain extent but very weird, very weird. I didn't call the police to ask two middle-aged men to teach me how to call my husband. These are similar to putting men's shoes at the door and turning on the TV and speaking loudly. I know that countless elders and teachers and people I don't know have taught me. What I need them to do is to patrol between the roof and the unit building, check for suspicious persons (I live on the top floor, and the three units on the roof can communicate with each other), and adjust the monitoring. But they didn't do anything. They stood at the door of my house for two minutes and asked me to call my husband. Then they started to take out one of their return visit forms, asked me for my ID number and asked me to sign it. Finally, they even wanted to give me a signature pen. In fact, I was calm from beginning to end. I picked up a knife to defend myself, called the police, called my dad, turned on all the lights in the house, closed all the curtains, changed out of my pajamas and found the keys (I originally planned to wait for the police to come, then go out with them and go to a crowded place to wait for my parents to come home together). But now I am sitting in the living room without going out. From my dad who received my call but did not choose to go home, to the two policemen who stood at the door of my house for two minutes, I feel it is all weird. For the first time, I have so deeply felt the helplessness of women in this world. Are you afraid of bad guys? It's no use. Angry at the police for not doing anything? It's no use either. I began to think about what I could do, install surveillance cameras at my door, and carry self-defense items with me. Next time I encounter someone who does nothing, I can loudly ask them to investigate and deal with it. The natural weakness of women is due to the height and physical gap between them and men. It is a mindset formed by being oppressed and objectified for thousands of years. It is difficult for our generation to change these things, but we still hope that more and thousands of girls will wake up. If you can't understand what awakening is now, then just love yourself first. Sooner or later we will all understand.

To be honest, I feel the same way. I'm 14 this year and I really can't get into the Internet too early. There's no one around me who doesn't say insulting words to women. Even I used to say that I didn't think there was a problem at all, and I never thought about it. Even our teachers would say, you know, you have no quality at all. Also, a year ago, I really loved reading dog-blood novels and youth pain literature. I remember one book that left a deep impression on me. The heroine was 80, and the hero just said a few words to her and she was liked. There was no other communication. What's even more ridiculous is that the heroine actually committed suicide because the hero lost her flowers. What's even funnier is that I didn't think there was a problem. I don't know what happened. It seemed that subconsciously, I felt it was normal. Just like a personal computer, I didn't have the ability to think normally, and I even thought the hero was pretty good. It's really hard to get rid of this kind of thinking. I first came across female heroes some time ago, and then I came into contact with some strong female characters intermittently. I was shocked by the words of many sisters. Many things that I usually don't care about actually have so much meaning. After reading it, I felt that I understood it very well. It's funny to say that during that time, I always thought that I loved women. Later, when I was cleaning up the trash, I saw people criticizing the male protagonist and praising the male partner, and I realized that I just felt that whichever side had more people was justified. At that time, I felt that it was reasonable to scold the male partner, but I also praised the male partner's state, and even went to quarrel with others. I don't know what happened to me. Just like the author said, under the slogan of equality between women and men, men were actually put first. Really powerless... However, I think that people's thoughts are constantly changing and progressing, and it should be time to change now. Also, why can't I find it even if I search directly? ? Are they all with the word "danmei"? It was found by searching for the author's nickname.

Check in here [plus one] Speaking of which, I started awakening to female consciousness around 20 years ago. The opportunity for awakening is incredible. No one inspired me. I just felt that sanitary napkins were boring to use in summer, so I started searching for alternatives and discovered menstrual cups. Through popular science posts, I learned about the clear structure of the female body for the first time. And I followed the popular science to explore my own body (the biology class taught very vaguely, so my impression has always been vague, and even the scientific names of various parts did not correspond. In the past, physical discomfort was collectively referred to as "downside"). After living for more than ten years, I actually knew these things for the first time. I was very confused about why half of the world's population Basic knowledge is so difficult to obtain. If I hadn't taken the initiative to search, I wouldn't have been able to find it. (Even if I searched, I would only tell you in a cryptic way and be blocked. Women are thus shielded to maintain the sense of mystery that some people need.) In order to answer this doubt, I started reading and read many books. Once the era of big data begins to enter a certain field, The domain will push relevant topics like crazy. The active acquisition + passive absorption of information accelerated the change in my cognition and officially opened my path to the awakening of female consciousness. After the awakening, it was not a big deal. I should eat and drink as I should. I just became more sensitive to some things that I used to take for granted. Also, I can no longer watch Danmei. . In fact, I started reading novels when I was very young. Maybe I have a little bit of female instinct. Many of the ancient novels did not like the modern characters, such as bosses and the like, and I did not like the heroine being abused. Therefore, I would not have read the novels mentioned in Ai Lanzuo's words even if they were in the past. When I was a child, I liked to read the kind of useless third lady, miracle doctor and thief who traveled through time and counterattack. In short, the heroine must be strong. , Feng Aotianliu of Yishui'er, but this kind of novel also has a characteristic that although the male protagonist is a side character, he usually has a strong female character who is stronger than the male. It is a characteristic of the times. Danmei is a novel that I started reading after I was tired of reading romance. I really read a lot when I was young and ignorant. Many ancient quotations were said at the time, (It's embarrassing, a dark history that is difficult to look back on). Anyway, I can't watch it anymore. I can't accept a world without a female protagonist. However, in the past two years, I have seen some romance novels from the male protagonist's perspective. I can't understand it. If the male protagonist is the first protagonist, what kind of female channel is it? I might as well write it on a male channel (oh no, a male channel can't accept a male protagonist with only one woman. Only female channels are so tolerant). I'm going too far. In short, congratulations to the author. An excellent woman has opened up a new life mentally! [Applaud]

Check out the Awakening Chapter. After reading the composition and comments, I suddenly have a lot to say. In fact, in the past few years, I felt lucky to see comments everywhere about women's ideological awakening. [One thing suddenly occurred to me. I have always been a staunch feminist, but there was a "feminist" man on the list who argued with me for more than fifty levels in my comment section. His general message was, "Women have enough rights, why do you want to cause trouble?" He also said that "I am a feminist", and later said that he was an egalitarian, which made me laugh out loud, and immediately blocked him and deleted it. But now, I feel angry when I see many people criticizing the wording in articles written many years ago, not allowing the word "jealousy" or "graceful" to be used, and when someone refutes it, they call others "white-eyed wolves who smash bowls". Entertainment is the fastest weapon to change people's minds. This is indeed true. Otherwise, why would Lu Xun abandon medicine and pursue literature? But if you don't write the book yourself and just condescendingly criticize the person who wrote it, how can it not be an internal violence? [Die Jia: I just want to express my grievance for those authors who were scolded from Jingjinglou in the comment area because of a habitual wording. In any case, there is a long road ahead.

Friends who are interested in checking in can think about whether to read the comment area. There are many passionate dialogues that may affect the mood [cheek support], but there are also many excellent comments. Many people tell their own feelings and stories, which is very contagious! I wish everyone has the power to wake up in the fog, find themselves, and love themselves! [Come on] [laugh loudly]

I came here because of its reputation and was shocked when I read Zuo Huan. Another great female author has awakened! It's never too late for us grown-up women! !

Checking in, it is very powerful to be able to break out of the inherent thinking! ! ! After reading through the comments, I found that everyone is very angry, haha, but it is undeniable that the world needs angry people to change, after all, those who are weak will be beaten! I just hope that everyone can get rid of the shackles the world has put on women. The world belongs to women! ! !

I came here because of my reputation. Congratulations to my wife for her awakening. I am really happy after reading the comments and comment section. I am glad that there are so many awakened fellow travelers in this era.

I specially bought a chapter about checking in and awakening [show hands] Come on, there will be one more person to read in the future.