The Love, Marriage, and Family Lives of Phoenix Men

I am the true reflection of your friend's version.

I also love Yi Shu, but I personally prefer her novels. Her short stories always leave me feeling unfinished, so I rarely get into them, and I haven't read the article you mentioned. They say girls love to dream, right? You see. When reading a romance story, there is always a formula: two people have weird personalities, vastly different statuses, not to mention academic qualifications, but they fall in love. What a beautiful story. But what about reality? Don't talk about anything else, just talking about academic qualifications and background is enough to carry a load of water. Can people with very different educational backgrounds really have something in common? Can people with different backgrounds really get used to each other's lifestyle? It is never love that is annoying, but the details in life. The way to put your toothbrush, hang your slippers, cover the lid when using the microwave to heat food, wash the dishes after eating, put back the things you took out, put away snacks and don't leave the trash can cold for a long time, don't stack books and don't sit around, geography is not geography. You want a pampered person to pour fertilizer and hoe the fields and still enjoy it? Sorry, dear, the focus of the romance story lies in the last two words. In fact, Phoenix Man's situation affects not only men but also women. Look, there are so many money-worshiping girls. Dreams are beautiful and pursuits are noble. Unfortunately, matching is the reality.

It is really difficult for people who grew up in different environments to live together.

Yes, the old saying goes that it is not unreasonable to say that you are well-off. Although you do not have to be rich, at least you have a pension to draw from, which will indeed reduce a lot of burden on your children.

Being a good match is a truth that has not changed for thousands of years. Young people think that they can live with love, but the reality is often cruel. After reading this article, I feel that parents should be more sensible when it comes to their children's marriage.

So trial marriage is very important - some differences can be tolerated and adjusted, but some differences cannot be tolerated! As a woman - I am not dependent on a man for support, I am already lucky to that man.

There are both Phoenix men and Phoenix women. . However, I think the rural phoenix girl point is an old custom of requiring huge betrothal gifts for marriage, so that the girl's parents can make money after marrying off their daughter. . There seem to be more Phoenix men in the city, because now there are many women in the city who are well-off and find a poor boy who graduates from college and comes to the city to work hard. They don't want to be rich, as long as they can treat their daughter well. Anyway, the woman's family is rich and powerful and has no shortage of money. . It turned out to be a phoenix, who was kicked out after being used. .

Are there any Phoenix girls? The kind of woman who doesn't care about her family, only cares about her mother's family, and spends money on her brothers and sisters, is she a Phoenix girl?

I decided to look for this book and read it

The more his parents attack him, the more I protect him. As a result I married him. To prove what? I didn't know, I just felt that they were forcing me to marry him. This is so well said. Haha, the word "well-matched" itself refers to more than just economic conditions. Includes a range of issues arising from economic conditions. No one can use love as a slogan to ask the other party to give unconditionally or even sacrifice themselves. Loving others is to make yourself happy. If you can't be happy, isn't it putting the cart before the horse? It's nonsense to keep yourself mentally happy when you can't eat. All these small problems may not seem to be wrong from the outside. Once two people want to live a life of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, all the accumulated historical problems, large and small, will one day completely explode. The gap between two people who grew up in two different environments is so huge that they look incompatible from anywhere. Maybe when they are in love, they will accommodate each other and hide it. But what if it's been a long time? In the same way, there is no dutiful son in front of a long-term illness bed. People's hearts will change over time. This involves the most basic human nature, selfishness. We always love ourselves more than we love others. I remember a story about a bird falling in love with a fish. Douyu tells us that two people with huge differences are particularly easy to attract each other, but the ending is often not satisfactory.