Interstellar Parenting Certificate

So warm. I was inspired by my wife's thoughts on the system!

I love this novel! I'm a little lazy today and don't want to write a long review, but I will recommend this novel all my life. I'm even thinking about recommending it to my husband and all my friends in the future. I hope it can make everyone think

Implementing a qualification certificate system is really a good idea

I think I have taught myself a lesson. My current thoughts on the child should be forced by my family, but fortunately I still have the opportunity to change my mind. Before preparing for pregnancy, I will seriously study how to be a qualified mother. I hope that my child can have a different childhood from mine.

The author is great, the concept and writing style are very good, this is a very realistic novel. This is an off-topic comment, probably based on recent events. I am a child from a family where my original family was neither that good nor that bad. My parents are not that good, so I have mental illness, but they are not that bad either, so my thinking skills are intact and my personality is intact. My parents have very unstable personalities. My mother is sensitive, fragile and prone to anxiety, and my father is irritable and emotional. The couple often had conflicts, which made me constantly confused and uneasy during my childhood. Let me ask you, if a child cannot even feel safe enough at home, if even parents in this world cannot show unconditional love to their children, how can he learn the ability to love and be loved, and how can he grow into a confident, strong and independent person? They say home is an eternal harbor, but it is also a prison that many people just want to escape from... I have come to the conclusion from my own experience that raising a child is indispensable both materially and spiritually. Regardless of the material aspect, please give him all the love and respect for the spiritual aspect. These four words of love and respect, once I decide to bring a child into this world, I will frame them in my heart. Love and respect are so important to the shaping of personality. When I was a child, I often felt like I was dependent on others because they presented their love as conditional, as if they would only love me if I met their expectations. They are unable to respond appropriately to their children (isn't this the basis for getting along with others?), And often vent their emotions on their children, wantonly dragging their children into the smoke and battlefield of family conflicts. Before I had a sound personality, I received too much pressure and anxiety and didn't know how to resolve it, which eventually led to me suffering from mental illness. If I had a child, I would not give him presets, I would not control him nervously, I would not dwell on useless details, I would guide him to have an overall positive character, I would cultivate his good habits, and I would try to let him explore his talents. I will show unconditional love. I love him not because of his scores, his honor, his merits, and his performance. I love him because he is my baby, and I am his eternal support. He is not my property, so I will respect all of his choices without binding or controlling him. From small details to big enough to affect life decisions, I hope he can make his own decisions. I may not be mature enough to control my emotions perfectly, but I will work hard to respond appropriately instead of showing my good side to others and wantonly hurting those close to me. I hope that the happiness of his childhood is enough to heal him for a lifetime, instead of being filled with negative and depressive memories like me, who has no memories. I can realize that our generation is relatively rich materially, but psychologically it is not taken seriously. Because the social process when our parents were growing up was different from that of ours, most of them knew that it was good to just give them material things, and they didn't pay attention to the psychological aspect at all. This does not mean that they do not have psychological problems. They do have psychological problems but are not aware of them and cannot resolve them. In fact, it is a greater pain. If you have the ability to deeply understand the hearts of your parents, you can see the tragedy of another native family. The above paragraph is not to excuse bad parents, but I hope that people like me who were injured but not seriously in their original families will not be immersed in hatred, which will not help themselves. Of course you can see that those parents' wrong thinking and behavior patterns, those bad characters, may have subtly become the part of your body that you don't want. Then start changing from now on, live in the present and seize the present. At least I won't pass on the tragedy to the next generation. I don't want my children to have the same thoughts as I did - I really wish I had never been in this world. The most heartbreaking thing I've heard this year was from my boyfriend, who said I don't have a home and that where you are is my home. I hope that every child with a broken wing can heal his or her own trauma, and that those children will eventually have a home of their own when they grow up - a haven full of love and respect.

Thank you author, I really like this setting and this kind of imagination

Finished watching it, it's great. Come on, madam^0^~

After reading this book in one sitting, I really hope that this system can be implemented in reality as soon as possible.

Great writing! ! ! I hope that one day our society will progress to such a level that unqualified people will not be parents.

Although it is unrealistic, I hope there will be such a law now. Some people are not worthy of being parents, and some need some education.