Life is the best tool to polish people, but not everyone can successfully adapt to their role after experiencing various hardships.
Yu'er always felt that she was strong enough, that she could survive everything and get her own honor, but when she really got it, she realized that what she got was not what she wanted.
A chance to start over is of course not given for free. Would you like it at the cost of never being able to speak again?
The heroine has no ambition and doesn't want to succeed or get rich. The theme depends on my mood. If it weren't for it, it might be too much, and I would like to write her blind.
I don't have time to pin it down right now, it's a trap.