If Only We Had Met Sooner

There is a feeling that everyone has been busy for nothing. . . Life is about tossing.

?? After giving up, he found something again and sailed (the female protagonist's name is a homophone) in Sichuan (the male protagonist). A seemingly incompatible couple entered into a marriage for profit, but had nothing to do for several years. The handsome heroine's net worth plummeted overnight due to a shocking change in her natal family, and the hero agreed to divorce at her request. After leaving with nothing, the heroine resigned from her stable teaching position and worked with two men. She started from scratch, with both prospects and risks. During this period, the heroine had sex with a total of three men, including the hero. (... Adult men and women can have feelings, and I don't reject it personally. Moreover, this is not random, there is a reason) Divorced couples go through many things separately and together, and return to each other's arms. The writing is very smooth and easy to read. 1 Failure to have a family: The heroine comes from a wealthy family. The male protagonist's parents are not getting along well with each other, and his father has arranged for him to take care of an extramarital affair, so he never returns home. The temperament and charm of the outer room are similar to that of the heroine. The male protagonist, the male partner named Yan and the male mother (?) All think so. Wai Shi is the one who destroys the male protagonist's original family. When it comes to marriage, the two of them "seem" to be in a loveless marriage. At the end of the story, it is revealed that when the two met for the first time, they realized that they were in the same situation and cherished each other. When the male protagonist sees the vivid side of the female protagonist, he also develops interest beyond the purpose; however, the male protagonist still inevitably develops a complex of resentment that is passed on to the female protagonist because his wife is similar to his wife. He may also want to find out the reason why his father is greedy for outsiders. Paradoxically, he might also be envious of the woman who could tie up his father's uneasy heart. That woman looks like his wife. The warmth of the father's attachment to his lover, when compared with the performance of the father and mother in the story, it is not difficult to understand why the male protagonist feels both resentment and love for his father, his father's lover, and for the female protagonist. Since the father abandons the mother and son to build another love nest, the male protagonist will live a seemingly peaceful life with the female protagonist at home and have a girlfriend outside the home. From my personal understanding, the male protagonist is partly seeking revenge and partly trying to make the female protagonist jealous. The relationship with each of his girlfriends was short-lived, which shows that he had no emotional commitment; and he did not mess with ladies from famous families, because ladies were difficult to deal with. During the period of marriage and cheating, he took care of the heroine everywhere. He was his driver and assistant for the heroine's use. When the weather is bad, the male protagonist will also ask the driver to pick up the female protagonist from school and take her home. Small details can show that the male protagonist is not as indifferent and ruthless as he appears, but he also cares about his beloved wife. Because of the nature of their marriage, it would be too silly and naive to fall in love. He had to use constant persuasion to prove that he didn't care. The father-in-law and the heroine's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't get along. When they see the heroine, they think of a woman who looks like her and want to steal her husband. Mother-in-law also has a complex of transferring negative emotions to her daughter-in-law. The wife's status is the same as hers, and her daughter-in-law's generation is behind her. It is normal for the elders to bully the younger ones. It's just that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are fighting each other, and the one who loses may not be the heroine, which makes the father-in-law and mother-in-law even more resentful. As for why the male father neglected his wife and children and turned to cheat on him, even the male protagonist could not bear his mother's interference and domineering behavior. It may be arbitrary to place the blame solely on men for the breakdown of a marriage. The divorced heroine started her career after struggling for several years. She asked her colleagues to poach the male protagonist's female assistant who had been of great use to her. The male protagonist generously gave up his job to be at the disposal of his ex-wife, and the assistant received the salary provided by the male protagonist. Don't the male protagonist think the assistant is useful? Since the assistant is so useful, the male protagonist does not continue to use it for himself, but allows her to help his ex-wife. This is an unspoken sign of deep love. The female protagonist is cold, indifferent and aloof by nature. Even if the male protagonist's family is rich, he is not as good as her. After marriage, the male protagonist cannot know the female protagonist's feelings for sure, and there is no warmth at home. It is indeed his own subjective feeling that it is a loveless marriage. When I learned that the heroine's natal family was in financial crisis, I thought of the pros and cons of divorce and remarriage. And, I want to have a child with the heroine. Divorce and remarriage are considerations for the rich second generation to get rid of burdens, out of practical utilitarianism. But the child is the continuation of the bloodline and hope he has always wanted to have with the heroine. Using a child to keep the heroine and her family losing power, why not let him protect her from now on? With children, he has a reason not to talk about divorce. This is the last resort to beg for mercy but not get it. You can't have a family with your parents; you can't have a family with your wife. After the male protagonist gets married for the second time, he deals with the female partner as a routine and goes back to his room to rest. He has no desire for a female partner and is looking for a woman with whom he has no real relationship to accompany him. Also, the family cannot be a family. 2 Divorce secrets: Internal worries - the career crisis of the heroine's natal family. Foreign trouble - the mother-in-law brings back the male protagonist's pregnant girlfriend, saying that the child belongs to the male protagonist - but it is not. The heroine took the initiative to ask for a divorce and gave up alimony. When she left, she took only light belongings and a pillow. The pillow was taken from her natal family when she got married. The pillow may have a meaning, but I haven't figured it out yet. The male protagonist got divorced because of the female protagonist's request. It turned out that he was doing everything he could. Reasonably, he wanted him to realize the current situation and get a divorce; but emotionally, his heart's desire was to get the heroine pregnant and keep her. Nowadays, the situation is that the male protagonist is powerful and winged, and can afford the spoiled daughter of a rich family. The heroine's request for divorce has two levels of personal understanding: *I don't want to drag down the male protagonist and affect his reputation. *There is no greater sadness than heartbreak: When I learned that my husband was about to have an illegitimate child (but in fact there was not one), my heart felt like a tree, so I would rather go home. 3 Character The heroine is free and easy-going, happy with the situation, tall buildings rise from the ground, honest in her likes and dislikes, upright and upright. Only when I'm facing the male protagonist, I can't help myself. The heroine has courage, courage and vision in choosing a marriage partner and settling herself after the marriage changes. Although the male protagonist in the marriage is unfaithful, it must be said that he cares, loves and cares about the female protagonist. The reason for infidelity is not falling in love with another person, it may be: *The resemblance between the heroine and her father's lover reminds him of his broken family. * He thinks that the heroine doesn't love him, so he acts out of character to provoke the heroine's reaction (… OK, I understand what the hero does). Of course, thinking that the other person does not love you does not constitute an excuse for cheating, nor can you transfer your resentment just because the two women are similar, but I understand that human nature is like this. I understand, you don't have to agree. Use my property in exchange for the freedom to love you: The world I live in is not as good as yours. The male protagonist studied in the UK and felt that those days were fulfilling. In contrast, the female protagonist left home without the burden of her family's wealth and fame, and without the shackles of marriage, which made her feel more comfortable. Compare this to the fact that the male protagonist became indifferent to his family and was unfaithful after his second marriage. This is not actually because the male protagonist's nature is hard to change, but that his purpose of "seeking outside" was different in the two marriages. The first stage of courtship inside and outside marriage was out of revenge against the family of origin, the innocent heroine who looked like the person her father cheated on, and resentment towards her own inability to change. The second stage of courtship inside and outside marriage is because he wants the female partner to give up on himself so that he can pursue the heroine. Let the heroine leave and enter into his second marriage. This second marriage is to give an explanation to his parents, public opinion, and the constraints and constraints of society's secular concepts that he himself is subject to. Yes, this is unfair to the second marriage partner; but if the second marriage partner is smart enough and well-connected, she may realize before marriage that the male protagonist has no interest in her. Marriage is a voluntary marriage, and it is true that the female partner has grievances; but she also plans to gain fame and fortune in the marriage: fame is the wife of the male protagonist, and profit is the unity of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As far as this article is concerned, no one is a victim, everything is your own choice; you can understand it if you look at it this way. The supporting actress looked away and decided to leave. The male father's lover is pregnant, and the male protagonist is not happy for his father. He is in a difficult situation in the company and his future is worrying. He also gave away all his property at the request of the female partner, and it is his turn to be left penniless. He exchanged all his property for the freedom of his ex-wife (the heroine). The heroine was getting more and more mature at this time, and she generously accepted the hero to rely on for a while. The two moved into the home that the hero secretly arranged, the place he originally planned to leave to his beloved wife. Female protagonist vs three males: The heroine is free and easy, her family is in crumbling condition, her parents are missing, and she doesn't know how her marriage is going. But with a look and movement from the hero, the two of them have a tacit understanding and go to bed. This is not because the heroine is guilty, but because she takes things as they come. There are indeed many times in life when she doesn't know the way forward without guidance, so she can only take one step at a time. Whether you want to be in panic all day long or be optimistic and strong is everyone's choice. Because the male protagonist had many affairs after marriage, the female protagonist slept with three men (including her ex-husband?) After the divorce. This was also revenge on the male protagonist and a sign of self-exile and degenerate indulgence. The reason for revenge is that I can't let go, and I can't let go because I have feelings. It seems that the heroine is very happy sleeping with men (yes, some readers may be very happy, and the heroine finally gets angry); but from my personal understanding, the heroine is sinking and degenerating and does not love herself, and she is a bit like the male protagonist to some extent. She might also want to experience it and see if sleeping with different people is really fun. But I feel empty inside. Most of the time she sleeps with other people because she thinks she has been hit by it, such as: her husband is having an affair and is about to have a child, or the male protagonist is engaged and married after divorce, etc., So she seeks out others. After experiencing the double blow of having an affair between her natal family and the male protagonist, it is not difficult to understand that the heroine has become wanton and unrestrained, which is in great contrast to her always clean self. A Male protagonist: It is like a drug that makes the female protagonist unable to extricate herself and addicted. Before and after the divorce, as long as the male protagonist is looking for her, the female protagonist will cooperate, and the two of them will enjoy themselves and forget everything. No matter who the heroine is following, she may be invested in it, and she is sincere at the moment; but the only thing that makes her relationship incomprehensible is the male protagonist. The male partner surnamed Yan is a competitor of the male protagonist. The female protagonist has a crush on the beautiful woman before marriage; but the female protagonist chooses the male protagonist to marry. Later, he used the same method to provoke the girl who the male protagonist had a sexless relationship with but kept. She was indeed not worthy of the female protagonist's trust. Besides, after the marriage change, the heroine returned to being single without any worries. She would not offend anyone if she wanted to sleep with her, or sleep with someone else after sleeping with someone else (there is really no need to doubt it). The point is why she is the way she is, not that she is the way she is. B Li Xing: After the heroine applied for the job and was admitted, she discovered that this colleague was a student who had a crush on her. As an adult, if you can afford the relationship and be proud of the results, that's fine. It was learned that the male protagonist was pregnant outside the house: he slept with Yan. After learning that the male protagonist is about to get married for the second time, he sleeps with Xiang. She learned that the male protagonist brought a female companion with the same nickname as her: caught in the rain and caught a cold. (… Okay, these two just do what I agree with, right?) I understand that she broke up with Xiang because the heroine felt that she had not given up enough, that is, she no longer wanted to be warmed by a man. Although the heroine is liberal about matters between men and women, she is still very conservative and unwilling to compromise on matters of marriage. 4 Others: 4-1 Imagery 4-1-1 Names and Food: The author likes to use the image of porridge (or food) in both stories. The heroine Zhou Xiaoyuan has the same pronunciation as porridge, yuanzhou, and yuanyuan. Going around is still a circle, and the dots are still him and her. The female supporting role, Lin Ruoshi, has the homophone of weak. The assistant's name is Fang Fang, which is "Fang Yuan" as the heroine's name, and there is a connection between the two. Regardless of whether they are divorced or not, there is a subtle and unspoken understanding between husband and wife. The male supporting actor is named Xiang Yu, and Yu means up, down, and four directions, which represents space and time. The author's name is interesting. After having sex with several people, someone will always ask the heroine what she wants to eat. The female partner carries food to the male protagonist as shown in the figure. The heroine drinks something by herself. Later, the male protagonist cooked porridge for the female protagonist. In short, food cooking is not the main part, and the author can write it beautifully. It's quite interesting to compare the scenes of the main characters preparing food with their emotions. Whoever meets the heroine and who comes or goes are all interesting and fun to think about. The heroine got married and started working in a company called Longgu. She was indeed in the valley of life at that time, and she started from scratch in the abyss. In contrast, the hero also started from scratch later. 4-1-2 Life is a journey: This article uses the names of the main and supporting characters as a metaphor for the journey. The names of the hero and his father are related to Sichuan (?) The male protagonist's company is called Xinghai (?), And the sea embraces all rivers, all related to water. The ancients regarded water as a danger. Marriage is a dangerous road and needs to be managed carefully. The boat (the heroine's name is a homonym for the heroine) travels in the river (referring to the male protagonist). The river carries the boat and is not afraid of the bad water. 4-2 Sarcasm 4-2-1 The male protagonist's second marriage, scheduled on the 9th, was intended to be long-lasting but was short-lived (…) 4-2-2 The relationship between the male protagonist's father, his lover and the family. Compared with the male protagonist's own family relationship, the male protagonist's mother is not liked by his father and son. This paragraph tells readers that families must be well managed, especially because parents have a profound influence on their children. When some children grow up, the various pains they have inflicted on themselves are likely to be replicated in their own marriage and family, creating a vicious cycle. Reading novels can not only entertain, but also inspire, it depends on what the readers think (...). 4-2-3 Fake vegetarian and real vegetarian: The handsome man and he are vegetarians, and a woman is arranged to accompany them at the dinner. It was also mentioned somewhere that the male protagonist is not taboo on meat and vegetables (I forgot which paragraph), but this was not a sarcasm. 4-2-4 True (scumbag) love is difficult: After the second marriage, the male protagonist kept his privacy, but still found a female student who pretended to be pure and elegant like the female protagonist. Not bringing a female partner or a girlfriend to a dinner party means finding someone to replace the hostess, looking for someone else instead of a wife (...). I understand that the male protagonist wants the female protagonist to give up the marriage and give him his freedom, so that he can have the freedom and possibility of getting the female protagonist back. After the divorce, the male protagonist found the female protagonist at least twice. There are two reasons: he just wanted to find (...) + He was angry that the female protagonist didn't love herself; or he was being sarcastic. 4-3 Same The authors all write about the heroine being sick, they all write about porridge, and they all like to write about the protagonist forming a bond through some secret method. The female protagonist in this article likes to use purple (?). The female partner went to the company to find the male protagonist and used purple floral cloth. Maybe purple has some meaning. Finally, I hope that the author will have more works for us to read in the future.

The ending is like Zhou Xiaoyuan's, very unfavorable. The male protagonist still thinks that she is very strong. If she is very strong, she should not be a mistress. She is really blind. Why is the female protagonist still with such a rotten cucumber male protagonist? Because the male protagonist lacks love, the female protagonist's ending is spiritual + material poverty alleviation. The female protagonist completely deserves a better person.

I'm a country dog, I like to watch

Why are you having a child out of nowhere? Are you raising a child together again out of nowhere? I don't understand.

[Transformed] Who tweeted this to me? I hate her so much. The author's writing is very good, so it attracts me to keep reading. But I really can't help it. The male protagonist can't do it.

Ah ah ah why can the female protagonist still accept the male protagonist?

The writing style is so good. I want to read this ridiculous article.

It's beautiful. Both of them have found mutual tolerance and spiritual guidance.

They are both crazy, let's get together