In my previous life, I was happy and carefree. I still have no idea what I did to offend Heaven so badly that it dumped me in this quaint, old-fashioned place.
At least life here isn't hardship. Fine, I'll start by living the easy life and enjoying myself.
As for refusing the marriage proposal:
Reason one: Our families are not a good match, and you deserve someone better.
Reason two: A man as handsome and charming as you is beyond the hopes of an ordinary woman like me.
Reason three: I shouldn't let myself become entangled in longing and deep feelings here, because my heart doesn't belong in this place...
That's what she told him.
She was a clear-headed, devoted woman; he was as beautiful as a flower.
