Yes, Yes

It's so funny that some people don't understand Xu Jianian at all and keep calling him "selfish". Perhaps most literary and artistic works depicting love advocate the idea of ​​"love first", which has profoundly affected readers, at least affecting readers' requirements and standards for love novels. As long as the first priority the protagonist pursues is not love, then he is cowardly or selfish. But is it good to love to the point of losing yourself? I don't think so. Cuo Cuo has sacrificed a lot to meet Du Cuo, but he also lost his goal. Du Cuo was moved by Cuo Cuo's efforts, and at the same time guided Cuo Cuo to find his goal and made him better. I don't think there is any problem with Cuo Cuo. If it is selfish for a person to always insist on himself and help others insist on themselves, then I suspect that this kind of thinking is beautifying selfishness. Dui Dui's greatest charm comes from his persistence in himself, and I think this is what attracts Wan Wan to him. Finally, here is an excerpt from the article about Cuocao's inner thoughts when he went to the United States to find Duidai: Love is a luxury in life, and "self" is a necessity in life. The pursuit of "self" cannot be relaxed at all times.

Many people have mentioned Wondou, which is normal. I also like Wondou who is sincere, enthusiastic and regardless of his own safety. But I also really like sensible and frank dialogue. It can be said that there is no such right and there is no such wrong. If Wong Cuo brings me heartache and emotion, as everyone said, he is obviously growing. But yes, he is still growing subtly. His rationality is not about the inequality of love, but what Dada said. He grew up with Congcuo. He hopes that Congcuo can live as well as he should, even more than the impulse of love. Love is gorgeous, who can refuse a person who looks at you so sincerely and runs towards you like Cuocao? But right and wrong, you know, this kind of love is not that good. When I came to Tongtong University, I obviously felt uneasy and a little inferior. Right and wrong have noticed, and he hopes that wrong and wrong can bloom brilliant flowers in his life in addition to love. Doesn't he love mistakes? Wong Cuo is someone who would want to protect him as soon as possible even if he is questioned and humiliated by his father and suffers other people's eyes. Fortunately for him, his parents can try hard to understand him. But this is also how Dui Dui subtly changed his parents' minds, paving the way for him and Fong Cui from high school. Right and wrong has always been a responsible and brave person like wrong and wrong. Just because he has a slightly lucky family background, it cannot be denied that he is also working hard for love or even not just love, but also mutual life. I really like Dui Dui's inner monologue in the article, "If he was the one who was in fault, what response would he want?" He chose to confess. This move also allowed Kuo Cuo to become independent and sprout the buds of growth. To be honest, I do slightly prefer right to right. Why? Because it takes such a sane person to have two equally excellent and lovely right and wrong, right and wrong, and they can still have heart-beating love after going through hardships. If there was no reason and honesty like this, they would indeed fall in love, but they would be doomed to separate. Right, always the smarter one. Therefore, his love is also wise and makes each other good. Right has always been Wong's leader, and his rationality and wisdom are also Wong's faith and courage to truly break away from his exhausted family. After many years, it seems that there is no right or wrong in such a firm and persistent love. However, Cuo Cuo mentioned that the planet that was made was not made in a day or two. What my mother said, yes, I am also thinking about the operation of the planet. Is right right really not as loved as right or wrong? No, his love is reserved, always rational, and weighing each other. He will also consider that he loves the wrong person, but do they still want to be together? However, it is not so much that wrong and wrong touched right and right's heart, it is better to say that wrong and wrong are the catalyst for firm choice of right and right. It was confirmed at that moment. Being together with him is a surging impulse even after both of them are rational. I love the right and wrong created by Da Da. There is right and right, but it is actually the happiness of wrong and wrong. I am also envious that there is someone who always wishes you well, leads you forward, and becomes a better version of yourself without losing yourself. Love is the continued love of each other for a better person. I also hope to meet each other's growing love, and the person who makes me good but still loves me. My writing skills are not strong, so I can only briefly outline some of my views on the subject. The main thing is that everyone loves Wandering, so I will love you a little bit, right? (*'▽'*)? After all, he is such a good person, and he has overcome the selfishness of love. This is not not loving him enough. It is because of love.

For a planet that rotates at an extremely fast speed, enjoying the speed and results freely is just an ordinary day for him, but for another planet whose heart is full of him, every day he pursues him from then on is wandering in the vast universe. Is he getting faster? That's not because I'm really going my own way as I said in the past, but because I'm afraid that I won't have any contact with the other person anymore, and I'm just anxious to chase the other person. The seemingly sane person is not very sane, and he doesn't really want to worry about this pursuit in his heart. He has never considered taking the initiative to give a harbor to the person who left everything behind. Everything seems to have come naturally, it is just a one-sided pursuit and the other party clearly enjoying the fruits of the seeds he planted many years ago. It looks sweet and dreamy, but in reality it is like looking into a mirror. If I had extinguished my wrong thoughts, or firmly envisioned the future with him, I would have kept my early favorable impression of him until the end, but he chose the most selfish one. Isn't four years enough time to think about the future? Of course not. In the cinema, when he was still pretending not to think about the future and letting go of Cuo Cuo, he knew very well that he would not change anything for Cuo Cuo. Two people with very different development cannot get together without someone making compromises, and he will not be the one to make changes. So he allowed Cuocao to get closer, but that was all. Seeing Cuocao constantly compromising in order to pursue him, and watching him get closer to his world, he thought, then accept it. There is nothing wrong with being wrong. He is willing to pay a lot of price because he put the importance of being right from the beginning. He wanted to do that many years ago but was immature. So he became mature and independent many years later and he insisted on his inner choice. The same goes for Dui Dui. He is still pursuing his scientific research ideals and realizing his pursuits. No one can make him compromise and change. This also makes him, who is realistic and closer to real life, seem a bit "despicable" in a romance article and "just sit back and enjoy the success". In fact, in reality, the vast majority of people are right, and only a handful are wrong. After all, love is not the first priority for many people.

The first long article is dedicated to this article. (This is what old people say.) It's a really sad article. It's well written and has such a good ending, but it's just so sad. Right or wrong, he is rational and mature and can distinguish everything clearly. Cuanfeng has grown a lot. He has learned a lot from Duanduang, who really helped him a lot and changed him a lot. Your rationality is really admirable. However, maybe it's because of the innocence and romance in my heart. Throughout the entire film, I was still most moved by the warmth of the film. Whether he started chasing blindly, or after talking about it, he worked hard to become a better version of himself and have a better future with him - he was always chasing him. Warm and sincere. This is also the most touching and sad place. Dui Dui is really lucky to have good parents. His innate talent makes everything easy and smooth. Even if his relationship with Dui Dui is not easy, he still has the sense and sobriety to see through everything. Cuan Cuo is a somewhat unfortunate and silly child. When he was a child, his parents were busy with their careers and basically let him go. When he found out that the child was wrong, he only knew how to educate him with sticks. In the end, there was a rift between him and his parents that could never be repaired. In the beginning, falling in love with the right partner was a silly one-way chase, but in the end when I woke up, it was just a one-way chase in a better way. But he was willing, but he was happy with it. Because that's the person he likes, and that's what his camera is chasing. After Cuo Cuo discovered that he liked Du Cuo, the author's deep affection was reflected everywhere in his words. Sweet, bitter, tangy and fragrant. Wuwuwuwuwu sisters, if you meet such a good man who is willing to sacrifice for you and change you, every photo he takes is like a love poem to you, every detail of the relationship is full of love, every step of growth, every bit of strength is to be with you better and protect you better, you must not miss it! In short, the tail part is almost crying, which is indescribable abuse. (Just a personal opinion)

After reading it, right I feel sorry for them both Dui Dui can live such a transparent and open-minded life because he has a good family and understands his parents, and he has the opportunity and ability to change his parents' views. Cuongcuo's parents have been working hard outside since they were young. They have no regard for their children and lack trust in their children. They do not believe in their children. This is the source of the tragedy for the two of them. Being right is good, but being able to break through the shackles of one's family of origin, grow and transform from pain, and bravely take steps toward right makes me feel more real and greater. In reality, many people don't even have the courage to be wrong. Wrong may be wrong, but right has changed him, just like it made him progress when he was a child, making him a better Wong. Thank you, Xu Jianian, thank you. By the way, let me make some digressions. How many people have resigned themselves to their fate in the wrong family of origin and become discouraged. To put it bluntly, I think it is difficult to understand his pressure if he is not in the wrong environment. His father was sent to the ward and suppressed by his parents. Fear prevented him from expressing his heart. Wou Cuo had closed his heart for four years, so there was no way to convey his thoughts to Duo Dui. Duo Dui is capable of this sense of despair. As a proud man, he has not experienced it since he was a child. But for ordinary Wou Cuo, he was able to break this suffocating and fearful cage of love and hate, which is very admirable. The reason why Wong Wong changed is because they are right and right. Both of them are very good people. Right and right lead Wong Wong towards a better version of themselves. I think the best part of this article is the growth potential of Cuo Cuo~ The way he is running towards you, how can you not be moved?

Why is it HE? I want it to be BE. I feel really uncomfortable after watching this.

Although the article is not long, I spent a whole day reading it. This is a very good book. It made me think more about myself. I should be a better version of myself, instead of hesitating and looking forward and backward, so that when I look back now, I feel nothing good. I am very envious of the mistakes and mistakes and the right and the right who lead the way and finally break through the shackles and walk side by side. It is very, very rare. Nowadays, I am still at my best, I still have vitality, I still have room for choice, and it is rare to be clear-headed, so just do what I want to do. Wrong, wrong, I want to be your companion, I like photography, I love photography, although there is no right or right in life, it is still joyful to think about it.

After reading it, I feel very sorry for Wong Wong. Fortunately, Wong Wong has a pair of enlightened parents, a roommate who can help him talk, and a school to help solve the problem. But there is nothing wrong with Tongcuo, only the parents' incomprehension and the enemy-like guarding. It's hard to imagine how Tongcuo survived the years of separation alone. Tongcuo is firmly moving towards Right, but when I see the hesitation towards Right later on, I still feel super uncomfortable... Maybe this is the character of Duong who insists on himself and has his own pursuits. Wong also has his own self and doesn't live for anyone. But it's still so sad, thinking about the wrong person who has suffered so much.

It's okay, Duandong just likes Duandong, and he's happy to be with Duandong~

I have a very good relationship with a boy, let's call him A. A once liked a boy, and I have liked him for many years, but that boy was a straight man, unable to respond, avoiding him, and even disgusted him. A wants to fall in love, but has never met a suitable one, so he is in a lonely state and cannot get out. I have always wanted to write a novel for him, at least to let him realize his dream. At least in the story, the flowers are full and the moon is full, and there is someone to accompany him. Even if the process is bumpy, the ending is peace and joy. After reading this article today, I feel like I don't need to write it. The author is so kind. I wish that A could be like Wong Wong and meet the right one. From then on, there will always be someone to accompany me through the journey of life. Apart from that, there is no need to write. A and I had a conflict today. I feel that I am indeed not that important. I can no longer treat you as a person who wants to share every happy thing I have and wants you to be happy no matter what (this tone is so pretentious haha), so that's it. I wish you the best and may you meet your right partner in the future. Bye-Bye.