[Reborn] You Love Me, But Not Who I Am

Why is it impossible for Da Chixi to fall in love with Bian Rang? Bian Rang is a very good person, a little angel who accompanies the heroine in difficult times and loves her silently without asking for anything in return. But even Bian Rang like this is impatient and unbearable when he meets the former Chi Xi, just like the passage in the book: In the second half of the year after losing Yi Zhen, Da Chixi seriously considered why she couldn't start over with someone else. Until she saw the sentence "There will never be anyone like this again." Yes, there is no such person anymore, who loves Chi Xi no matter whether it is good or bad, and loves Chi Xi even if they are separated. So many people love her for being tolerant and sensible, but only one person will accept everything about her, including her ugliness. There is no second Yi Zhen in this world. It's easy to fall in love with Da Chixi, but what about Xiao Chixi? Just like many people in the comments hate Koikenishi, but without Koikenishi, how would Daichinishi come to be? Xiao Chixi and Da Chixi have never been two people, but one person. Bianrang is very beautiful, even perfect to a certain extent, but it is a pity that he is destined not to love. Yi Zhen is not perfect, and even his love is pathological, but Chixi only loves him, no matter how big or small. No matter how beautiful Bianrang is, he is not Yi Zhen. Yi Zhen has flaws and is not perfect. It's easy. Everything comes first. Chi Xi fell in love with Yi Zhen first and fell in love with him forever. Chi Xi is a stubborn person. Even if he changes his personality, he has to die once before he can change into Da Chi Xi. As for Yi Zhen, I think there is no way to quit. The love and family affection of more than 20 years have already made them flesh and blood, inseparable, so I still hope that Bian Rang can truly find the one he loves. Girl, his true love, don't fall in love anymore. It's hard and uncomfortable to love without love. I've experienced it too, and I hope that Xiao Chixi and Xiao Yi Zhen can be happy forever. As for Da Chixi and Dayi Zhen, they may have missed each other after all. Da Chixi will disappear forever due to changes in the future, and Da Yi Zhen may end up alone because he has lost his true love. This pair can only be missed. I think this is the meaning of the work. What the author said is the real regret, the real miss, the lack of true love, and the right people being together at the wrong time can only be a tragedy. If Xiao Yi Zhen and Da Chi Xi were together, they would be very happy. It is a pity, this couple, but love is like this.

Let me talk about whether Yi Zhen likes Chi west or not? First of all, there is no doubt that Yi Zhen must like Chi Xi, mainly because of Chi Xi. No matter what he is, he likes him. So for him, whether big Chi Xi or small Chi Xi, they are both essentially Chi west. The difference is that Yi Zhen's feelings for them are different. Regarding Da Chixi, I think Yi Zhen feels more sorry for him and feels more guilty. Da Chixi is so sensible, so sensible that it makes people feel distressed, especially knowing that Da Chixi's sensibleness is caused by another self, so a layer of guilt will be added to the distressed level, and she will feel that she owes her. What's more, Yi Zhen doesn't know what really happened in another time and space. He can only rely on known clues to speculate, and then he can't help but imagine how painful she must have been. Let me give you an example. Your family has a golden retriever. Because you have to go to work, you don't have much time to spend with it. It spends most of its day waiting for you, so its world is divided into two parts, with you and without you. You can see it through the camera at home. It is often lying on the ground and looking at the door. I don't know how you feel about it, but I feel very indebted and guilty. Maybe the dog thinks that he can go out to play every day, be well-fed, and be happy with snacks and toys. But I still feel like I don't have time to spend with it and I owe it. (Ps. I don't know if sisters who don't have pets at home understand the mentality I'm talking about) Even though the dog was not wronged, I still felt guilty, not to mention that Da Chixi was really wronged a lot? Therefore, Yi Zhen only felt more guilty, distressed, and indebted. So after knowing the truth of the matter, facing the two Chi Xi, he would involuntarily take more care of Da Chi Xi. Because he felt that he was indebted, he would try every means to make up for the harm she had suffered. But he has no way to give himself to Da Chixi, because he still has Xiao Chixi, he loves Xiao Chixi, and he also has responsibility for Xiao Chixi. He cannot feel sorry for Xiao Chixi because he wants to compensate Da Chixi. So he can only do something within his own capabilities. But having said that, which Chi Xi does Yi Zhen love more? First of all, I think love is difficult to be pure. Sometimes it is mixed with other things, such as dependence, habits, control, guilt, debt, responsibility... These things can easily be mixed into love. But can you say that this is not love? It seems that it can't either. Yi Zhen's guilt and distress for Da Chixi may or may not turn into love. Yi Zhen's responsibility for Xiao Chixi may or may not turn into love. But if you regard guilt and distress as a kind of love, you cannot ignore that responsibility is also an expression of love. In the end, Da Chixi disappeared. Before he could make up for his guilt and pay off his debt, she disappeared. Guilt and debt became an eternal existence. So she became a special existence in Yi Zhen's heart. To sum it up in one word, she is Bai Yueguang. But to be honest, I felt embarrassed for Yi Zhen, because this situation was so difficult to make a decision and I didn't know what to do. One more thing, I think Oikenishi and Koikenishi are quite divided, they are completely like two people (except for Koikenishi in the later period). I believe that no matter how a person changes, no matter how he suffers major trauma, at least one of his most essential things will not change. However, this essential thing is not shown in Diao Chixi. Apart from the same love for Yi Zhen and the same taste, there is really nothing else in common between the two of them??^?? Finally, I was very surprised to come across such a good article, but what shocked me even more was that this novel was already written 7 or 8 years ago! Oh my gosh, I didn't expect that a novel written 7 or 8 years ago could be so good (=?Д?=)! After reading it, I couldn't help but write a book review. Originally, I wanted to discuss the abnormal love relationship between Chi Xi and Yi Zhen, but I saw that there were already sisters in the comment area, so I wrote this. Big confession! Super super invincible and beautiful! (?? O??∩)[Love Eyes][Love Eyes]

Even double death will do. If Yi Shen gets happily married or lives a good life, I might be pissed to death. He should be driven crazy so that he can give himself a knife too

I really hope this is the continuation of the story of Da Chixi and Bian Rang [heartbroken]

I think Daxi ended up with Bian Rang and didn't want to accept any other ending 555555~

It's great. Can I understand the open ending as being with Bian Rang? Woohoo

It looks good, but I can't understand the ending

Ouch, I don't care! Bian Rang just met Chi west again!

This is all the hero's fault. Men are not good. Scumbags are bad, and so are affectionate men. I really hate the male protagonist from the bottom of my heart.

The label of this book in my bookshelf collection is "I love it so much". It's a pity that I can't see Dayi pursuing his wife Da Chixi, because Da Chixi is really worth it (to be loved and cherished), and Dayi is wrong and guilty and it's not like that (losing his lover or even disappearing). I don't deny that Bian Rang is good, but first come, first served, his girl is destined to be someone else.