He said, at least that part of love is real, don't forget this no matter what
Of course it's not just your love for him or his love for you
On this basis, human beings are easily limited by reality
Therefore, when expressing, it may not necessarily be the exact psychological thought. Words and phrases are not everything. Eyes, tone, and emotion must also be based on the person's physiological condition, as well as the value of shortening life before the end.
It's just a pity that you were not around him to understand his final meaning; maybe even if you were, he might not be able to fully objectively express all his views on you.
In any case, please be grateful for the time you spent together, which made you who you are today, and continue to walk the road you can't walk together - as he wishes, or not - but it is the road under your feet.
Move towards your hope
He has been gone for a long time. I have never had any idea of time. I don't even remember whether I was in the fifth or sixth grade. It must have been seven or eight years ago. I was thinking of him two days ago, and I still remember his appearance very clearly.
My mother said I was a white-eyed wolf because she raised me and I liked my grandparents more than my grandparents. Only I know that I am the unique treasure in his heart. This deep affection can only be matched by my unique love and respect.
I don't know how to put it, but maybe love is the only thing that can fight against death.
In fact, when I was in junior high school, I thought that if he died, I would be able to write a very touching article.
You won T T. I'm still very touched after watching it after such a long time.
Maybe it's just that we don't put it first in our hearts, and it becomes our "unable to ask for".
If you had the chance to do it again, would you and grandpa be in a stalemate, break up, and be indifferent again? Or would there be another outcome?
What I want to say is that some things, such as personality, are really difficult to change. Even if you know that what you are doing is wrong and you want to change, you still can't defeat yourself to make these changes, thus making the situation worse again and again.
These are all helpless~~
Thinking of my grandfather. He died so early that I can barely remember what he looked like even now. But I always firmly believe that the granddaughter my grandfather loved most during his lifetime was me. Always thought so. I will always remember my grandpa sending me home in the middle of the night in the rain. It's strange that I basically don't remember much of what happened when I was a child, but I can never erase this.
I also miss my grandparents. I was raised by them since I was a child. I still remember what they told me before going to school every day, and my grandfather holding his little cousin on the balcony to watch me go to school. They asked me to study hard after I went to college. After I became a teacher, they often called me to tell me to read more books. After I gave birth to a child, they called me every week to ask about how my child and I were doing. . . . . . . . . . . , I am the granddaughter of the person who cares most about my grandfather. Now that I think about it, I cared too little about him after I started working in college, got married, and had children. Fortunately, although my grandfather is 86, he is still alive. I am very lucky, and I still have the opportunity to care about him.
Leave a spoiled child behind
Because of expectations, I was tempted and suffered. The emotions in the world are all the same. When I was a child, I followed my mother's grandfather. My grandpa grew up, and he doted on me very much. You can say he doted on me, because there were many children of my generation, but my grandpa only loved me. Even the elders could not mess with me in the slightest. All the past events are now vivid in my mind. At that time, I had the capital to be arrogant and domineering, until I am now This somewhat offbeat personality probably stems from this. My grandfather passed away when I was 12 years old. Before that, we lived together. When he was ill for two years, I accompanied my grandmother and mother to take care of him. During this time, he often felt sad for me because of my awkward and stubborn personality. I am the kind of person who cannot express myself. Sometimes, although I clearly care in my heart, I always choose the wrong method. Until now, I still have not made much progress in this regard. At that time, I was at the age when my personality changed. My grandfather's illness and death two years later left me with endless sadness. Thinking about it today still burns my eyes many years later. This sad and negative character was probably planted in my heart at that time or earlier.
My grandpa left me when I was in the fifth grade. For the next four years until I graduated from junior high school, I was always in a state of sadness. I still remember that in the first year, I left the home where we lived and returned to my parents. What did a spoiled child have to face? Now I think about it. I feel extremely sad. I go out to sleep with my grandma after dinner every day. A lonely child always looks at the dark blue sky through the tall sycamore trees until he can't see the stars in the sky. He lowers his head and sheds cold tears. The person who loves me most in the world is no longer there. In those years, whenever others mentioned my grandpa, I couldn't control my emotions and burst into tears. In fact, my parents were pretty good to me, but they were incomparable when I was with my grandpa and grandpa. I hated my parents at that time.
Sherry134 This touching article of yours has aroused the deep feelings in my heart. Forget it, it has been almost 15 years since my grandpa left me, which is longer than the time I have been with him. Unstoppable tragedies in the world happen every day. When I look at my mother now, I always think that maybe she will leave me in more than 20 years. I am afraid that I cannot bear her departure. Last month I heard about a relative I was suffering from an incurable disease, and I was extremely sad. I refused to visit my mother with her, and I might have been considered disobedient and rude, but I was really afraid of facing tragedy. My pessimistic personality always misses others, and bad things tend to happen to me or my loved ones. The recovery period is also longer than others, so I always automatically refuse to face such human tragedies of life, death, and death. I always remember bad things longer than others. I once tried to look down on life and death, but it seemed really difficult. All I can do now is cherish my family. Although I can't express it as before, I believe that one day we will all understand. Even if we don't understand, it is a blessing to spend every day so peacefully.
In fact, after people leave, when they look back, the only thought in their hearts is that they hate themselves for not doing better at that time, and they always regret it~
To be honest, I am very envious when I see the relationship between adults and grandpa. The more they fall in love, the more entangled they become. .
I have never had the chance to enjoy such a relationship. In fact, I still don't know how to get along with my ancestors. .
My grandparents passed away before I was born or before I could remember.
My grandparents have no impression of me at all. On the one hand, I am an outsider and on the other hand, my grandparents favor sons over daughters.
So they are very alienated from me. Now I only remember the favoritism shown by adults towards my younger brother when I was bullied by him when I was a child.
When I grew up, went to school and worked, my feelings for them became even less important.
So when I read this article, I really envied this kind of relationship. I have never experienced what it feels like to get along with elders like this. .
He said, at least that part of love is real, don't forget this no matter what Of course it's not just your love for him or his love for you On this basis, human beings are easily limited by reality Therefore, when expressing, it may not necessarily be the exact psychological thought. Words and phrases are not everything. Eyes, tone, and emotion must also be based on the person's physiological condition, as well as the value of shortening life before the end. It's just a pity that you were not around him to understand his final meaning; maybe even if you were, he might not be able to fully objectively express all his views on you. In any case, please be grateful for the time you spent together, which made you who you are today, and continue to walk the road you can't walk together - as he wishes, or not - but it is the road under your feet. Move towards your hope
He has been gone for a long time. I have never had any idea of time. I don't even remember whether I was in the fifth or sixth grade. It must have been seven or eight years ago. I was thinking of him two days ago, and I still remember his appearance very clearly. My mother said I was a white-eyed wolf because she raised me and I liked my grandparents more than my grandparents. Only I know that I am the unique treasure in his heart. This deep affection can only be matched by my unique love and respect. I don't know how to put it, but maybe love is the only thing that can fight against death.
In fact, when I was in junior high school, I thought that if he died, I would be able to write a very touching article. You won T T. I'm still very touched after watching it after such a long time.
Maybe it's just that we don't put it first in our hearts, and it becomes our "unable to ask for".
If you had the chance to do it again, would you and grandpa be in a stalemate, break up, and be indifferent again? Or would there be another outcome? What I want to say is that some things, such as personality, are really difficult to change. Even if you know that what you are doing is wrong and you want to change, you still can't defeat yourself to make these changes, thus making the situation worse again and again. These are all helpless~~
Thinking of my grandfather. He died so early that I can barely remember what he looked like even now. But I always firmly believe that the granddaughter my grandfather loved most during his lifetime was me. Always thought so. I will always remember my grandpa sending me home in the middle of the night in the rain. It's strange that I basically don't remember much of what happened when I was a child, but I can never erase this.
I also miss my grandparents. I was raised by them since I was a child. I still remember what they told me before going to school every day, and my grandfather holding his little cousin on the balcony to watch me go to school. They asked me to study hard after I went to college. After I became a teacher, they often called me to tell me to read more books. After I gave birth to a child, they called me every week to ask about how my child and I were doing. . . . . . . . . . . , I am the granddaughter of the person who cares most about my grandfather. Now that I think about it, I cared too little about him after I started working in college, got married, and had children. Fortunately, although my grandfather is 86, he is still alive. I am very lucky, and I still have the opportunity to care about him.
Leave a spoiled child behind Because of expectations, I was tempted and suffered. The emotions in the world are all the same. When I was a child, I followed my mother's grandfather. My grandpa grew up, and he doted on me very much. You can say he doted on me, because there were many children of my generation, but my grandpa only loved me. Even the elders could not mess with me in the slightest. All the past events are now vivid in my mind. At that time, I had the capital to be arrogant and domineering, until I am now This somewhat offbeat personality probably stems from this. My grandfather passed away when I was 12 years old. Before that, we lived together. When he was ill for two years, I accompanied my grandmother and mother to take care of him. During this time, he often felt sad for me because of my awkward and stubborn personality. I am the kind of person who cannot express myself. Sometimes, although I clearly care in my heart, I always choose the wrong method. Until now, I still have not made much progress in this regard. At that time, I was at the age when my personality changed. My grandfather's illness and death two years later left me with endless sadness. Thinking about it today still burns my eyes many years later. This sad and negative character was probably planted in my heart at that time or earlier. My grandpa left me when I was in the fifth grade. For the next four years until I graduated from junior high school, I was always in a state of sadness. I still remember that in the first year, I left the home where we lived and returned to my parents. What did a spoiled child have to face? Now I think about it. I feel extremely sad. I go out to sleep with my grandma after dinner every day. A lonely child always looks at the dark blue sky through the tall sycamore trees until he can't see the stars in the sky. He lowers his head and sheds cold tears. The person who loves me most in the world is no longer there. In those years, whenever others mentioned my grandpa, I couldn't control my emotions and burst into tears. In fact, my parents were pretty good to me, but they were incomparable when I was with my grandpa and grandpa. I hated my parents at that time. Sherry134 This touching article of yours has aroused the deep feelings in my heart. Forget it, it has been almost 15 years since my grandpa left me, which is longer than the time I have been with him. Unstoppable tragedies in the world happen every day. When I look at my mother now, I always think that maybe she will leave me in more than 20 years. I am afraid that I cannot bear her departure. Last month I heard about a relative I was suffering from an incurable disease, and I was extremely sad. I refused to visit my mother with her, and I might have been considered disobedient and rude, but I was really afraid of facing tragedy. My pessimistic personality always misses others, and bad things tend to happen to me or my loved ones. The recovery period is also longer than others, so I always automatically refuse to face such human tragedies of life, death, and death. I always remember bad things longer than others. I once tried to look down on life and death, but it seemed really difficult. All I can do now is cherish my family. Although I can't express it as before, I believe that one day we will all understand. Even if we don't understand, it is a blessing to spend every day so peacefully.
In fact, after people leave, when they look back, the only thought in their hearts is that they hate themselves for not doing better at that time, and they always regret it~
To be honest, I am very envious when I see the relationship between adults and grandpa. The more they fall in love, the more entangled they become. . I have never had the chance to enjoy such a relationship. In fact, I still don't know how to get along with my ancestors. . My grandparents passed away before I was born or before I could remember. My grandparents have no impression of me at all. On the one hand, I am an outsider and on the other hand, my grandparents favor sons over daughters. So they are very alienated from me. Now I only remember the favoritism shown by adults towards my younger brother when I was bullied by him when I was a child. When I grew up, went to school and worked, my feelings for them became even less important. So when I read this article, I really envied this kind of relationship. I have never experienced what it feels like to get along with elders like this. .