The Marriage Years

I agree with your point of view: Don't get married for the sake of getting married!

I seem to know the continuation of this story. Have you found the right person?

Are you married now?

Ten years later, when I was born in the 1990s, I had the same emotion after reading this article.

I got married on a blind date, and my husband was my type. I used to think that my marriage was happy and perfect, but he cheated on me when I was pregnant. It was God who protected me and the baby from death, so when the baby was eight months old, I discovered that in the chat history between him and his partner, he That's what I said, because we got married on a blind date, so we don't have a strong emotional foundation... To be honest, I was really shocked. In fact, I want to say that if you don't want to marry me, don't get married. My family and I didn't force you. Besides, it was your family who suggested getting married soon when I wanted to wait and see. Well, his and I have pretty good families, but our family didn't make many demands. Basically, the cost was half per person. Especially one of the cases was for an old relative and my colleague, both of whom were from our family. After getting married, he didn't worry about it, and his parents didn't care about us. My parents took care of me during my pregnancy. He was on a business trip for almost a year, and his parents never took care of me, even though their home was only 30 minutes away from ours. Instead, I often went to visit the old man and buy things because he was on a business trip. So I was really speechless for someone like him who got a good deal and behaved well. After he was discovered, his father's first question was who he wanted. Her mother's reaction was, don't bother me with your young people's affairs. It's funny that his partner's name is Shanshan. He told me that I didn't spend any money on her, so I should forgive him. I really regret it now, so girls, please get to know his family atmosphere and their family's outlook on life before getting married. You must know that when the introducer introduced them, they seemed to be a very serious family.

I am similar to Daddy. I have been on the road to blind dates since I came out of school. Now I have a stable boyfriend, whom I met on a blind date. He is less than 170cm tall, weighs almost 160cm, has a bald head and some buck teeth. I have no ambition, but other things are fine. I actually don't like it, but I don't have the courage to directly oppose my parents. I also communicated with my mother that I don't like my current boyfriend and that even if I marry him, I will definitely get divorced, but my mother ignored it and pretended not to hear it.

I agree with your idea. Indeed, marriage is the last thing that can be forced. Similar to your experience, I don't have high hopes for this matter now and just let nature take its course. No one can imagine what will happen in the future. I like your plum blossoms and roses, come on!

Come on sister! I am a single female graduate student. Seeing my sister's experience makes me more and more worried about my future. Sister, you must eventually marry someone who is worthy of you. You must be happy!

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Someone who knows the pain of blind dates has finally found someone who shares the same pain here. It feels like he has expressed his depression, which is great. I have always wondered if I would have mental problems if I continued like this.