Virtual Game

I stayed up late last night and finished reading this novel. I obviously had a lot of things to say in my mind after reading it, but when I woke up, I felt empty. I can only write something based on my impressions. In both the introduction and the back of the novel, the author says that you can gain something by taking it upon yourself. The introduction says, "What would you do when you woke up and were lying on a big hotel bed, and there was a handsome guy on your body, and you were not responsible for it? If you could use someone else's body and identity, and you could get away with it, what would you do?" From the perspective of substitution, my first assumption is that I am the screenwriter Qiao Yiming, and I only experience a game for script inspiration. All I encounter are NPCs. Then I must let myself go and experience whatever I want. Because I know it's fake, I won't feel any psychological burden. You've come, you can leave when the time comes, why not enjoy it? But as I said later, this is a scam. Not a game, but a real soul exchange. Then I can't do many things with other people's bodies, unless I sign an agreement with the original owner of the body, which is a transaction. I have exactly the same point of view as Qiao Yiming on this, haha~ But I can't accept having sex with a strange man. What if I'm sick? ? What if the technology is not good? ? Is there any possibility of entanglement? ? I think about a lot of bad things that could happen. If I were to let myself go, I would definitely need an opportunity, and it probably wouldn't be possible in the short term. The episode that impressed me deeply was when Lu Xiangdong and Qiao Yiming were together. Lu Xiangdong wanted Qiao Yiming to belong to him completely, not giving him any social space, and locking him in a cage like a canary. Perhaps he felt that Qiao Yiming was bought (supported) by him and should be under his control. Later, when checking Xiaowan's information, the two had conflicts, and he disrespected Qiao Yiming. I was really sad at this time. I felt that love might require a well-matched match. Cinderella and the prince, MB and the wealthy businessman generally cannot have fairy tale endings. Their experiences from childhood to adulthood have made the gap between the two people too big. But even after experiencing Lu Xiangdong's excessive treatment, Qiao Yiming still proposed to communicate with Lu Xiangdong many times. I really admire him. When it comes to his love, no matter how much he is hurt, he will not give up as long as he has the slightest chance and will take the initiative to solve the problem. I don't think it's mean, on the contrary, I think it's a sign of cherishing love and being worthy of yourself. Because there are people who have really worked hard, fought for it, and saved it. But Lu Xiangdong was still very cold. Under this situation, Qiao Yiming understood that it was impossible to communicate and solve the problem, so he chose to break up. After making this decision, he can be very decisive. Let your reason prevail over your emotions. Later, the author mentioned the comments on the three views in the comment area. "Some people say that Xiao Qiao is a holy mother. She was really led around by others, abused by a scumbag, and deceived by a small bowl. She deserves to be punished. At the same time, some people say that Xiao Qiao is really a scumbag. He has been deceiving Lu Xiaozhao's feelings. He is also a big scumbag because he does not use his own body casually. It can be seen that the same story is completely different in the eyes of different people." For Xiao Qiao, I don't think he is a saint, maybe because I am the same kind of person as him and can completely understand what he does. As for my feelings for Lu Xiangdong, I don't know how to evaluate the period when he pursued Lu Xiangdong. In my opinion, in different periods and situations, people will do some wonderful things. According to Xiao Qiao's personality, he may have several paths to take, but he chose this one. I think it is a wonderful journey. This means that he and Lu Xiangdong are destined to have some subsequent things happen. Regarding Xiao Qiao's deception, it must be a very serious matter for an insecure person like Lu Xiangdong, which is why he reacted so strongly. Because he was afraid that it was all a scam, and what he cared about was whether Xiao Qiao really liked him. But his behavior was too much and I couldn't accept it. Regarding Xiaowan, I actually sympathize with him. I also feel that there must be something hateful about those who are pitiful. I think the author quoted him very well. "The life of most of us is to repeat the same thing over and over again. If you get happiness, you will repeat happiness; if you learn to trust, you will repeat trust. On the contrary, if you get pain, you will repeat pain; if you learn hostility, you will repeat hostility." Such forced repetition is pitiful and pitiful... I don't want to judge him too much. I have never experienced his life or experienced his pain, so naturally I am not qualified to speculate on this from a perhaps superior perspective. He still thinks reading is important. If he had read more books and been exposed to more good things, he might have made a different choice at any time. Finally, Lu Xiangdong and Qiao Yiming got together. Lu Xiangdong was lucky because he experienced the death of a lover. How many people in this world only know how to cherish their loved ones after losing them? Lu Xiangdong was lucky again, because Qiao Yiming finally chose to forgive him. However, their final happiness is inseparable from the two people's mutual compromise and efforts. Time is a very mysterious thing, and slowly, they will always become the most suitable for each other. But the biggest difference between Qiao Yiming and me is that he said he had two difficulties with Lu Xiangdong. The first point is, "I still can't forgive him for what he did. Every time I think about it, I feel aggrieved and can't let go." In the end, he chose to forgive, but my words were impossible to forgive. I actually care about what happened to Xiao Qiao after they broke up. In my opinion, those experiences were not Lu Xiangdong's fault, because without the support and love of a wealthy businessman, a MB who does not sell meat, has a primary school diploma, and a mother who loves gambling really will not have a very bright future (for this article). Unable to find a job, debt collection, rape, depression... These tragedies are slowly unfolding like a set trajectory. In this tragedy, Lu Xiangdong was more like the straw that broke the camel's back. He never thought about what Qiao Yiming would suffer if he left him. He only regarded it as a pet trying to escape from its owner. However, with Qiao Yiming, it was a really hard life. So if I were Qiao Yiming, I couldn't forgive Lu Xiangdong. It's not that I hate him for not helping, but I feel that he always reminds me of the pitiful and helpless life of a MB from the bottom of society. This is a painful memory, and there is no way to solve it. I can only stay away from everyone in this story. Finally, I feel sorry for Xiao Qiao, who was suffering from depression at the time. Patients suffering from depression really cannot control their own behavior. Do they really want to die deep down? No, they just can't control their thoughts of committing suicide. (A friend has experienced this and he is a very cheerful person) Finally, I would like to thank the author, I really like this story. ??

The author is very thoughtful, but I always wonder, will Lu Xiangdong always respect Qiao Yiming in the future? Will he still be promiscuous? These thoughts and behaviors are all habitual. Can they really be changed because of love?

Madam, are you coming back? I really want to read your new articles [crying]

Dear author, can I still see the complete version of this article there? I read it several years ago, and now I really want to read it again (laughs)

My wife wrote so well. I felt very heavy after reading it. Life is really too difficult. Everyone has their own misfortunes and helplessness.

??? There was a part in the middle that was so bad, I thought I would commit suicide if I couldn't survive anymore. But thinking about the impact, it didn't seem very good.

Maybe it's because Xiao Qiao's life in the middle was too miserable and the description was too profound. I have never been able to forgive Lu Xiangdong. Rejecting Xiao Qiao when he wanted to explain, hurting her when he needed comfort, and ignoring him when he needed help the most. Later I discovered [Oh, it turns out I fell in love with the director, not MB] and I accepted it calmly. I can't help but wonder, what if Xiao Qiao's original situation was even worse than Xiao Wan's? What will happen to him? Will he still show his original face? If he felt that the small bowl was not clean before, how clean would it be if he found MB himself? I can't forgive Lu Lu Xiangdong

Whether a person would do something unethical when placed in a specific situation. Kant believed that whether an action is moral does not depend on the consequences of the action, but on the motivation for taking the action. Bentham believed that the consequences of actions were more important than their motives. Polanski's film "Chinatown" is based on a real event that occurred in the early 20th century - the California Water Wars. The story is set in Los Angeles in 1937. Through the perspective of private detective Jack, Polanski started from the investigation of rosy news, peeling off the cocoons, and revealed a huge scam completed by half the city. However, the truth is in front of us, and you and I are powerless. The characters in it say that there are things you think you won't do just because you haven't been in that situation yet. Many people just stand and talk without back pain. Wu Zhihong's compulsive repetition, most of us spend our lives repeating the same things. Continuously project past experiences into future life. Because human nature is afraid of unknown things, it will choose similar things out of compensatory comfort. This view echoes Freudian psychology, in which a person's future will be largely influenced by childhood experiences. A common idea in film and television dramas is to show the characteristics of a character by showing his previous experiences. It seems that in this way, all shortcomings can be blamed on the past that is beyond one's control, and oneself is just an innocent victim, immersed in endless self-pity from then on. People should not be in self-pity. If people are in self-pity, life will be like an endless nightmare. Xiaowan kept pitying himself, thinking that his life was very unfortunate and he had been in that kind of situation since he was a child, so he naturally chose the MB career. About anxiety. I recently read "The Meaning of Anxiety" by Rollo May. When we are no longer the prey of hunters, we suffer from our own self-esteem, are isolated from our own group, or are threatened by failure in competition. This results in inner confusion, alienation, mental confusion, and uncertainty about values ​​and behavioral standards. Along with fear and anxiety is the loss of personal freedom. It is better to choose safe slavery than the freedom of fear. A large part of the formation of Xiaowan's character comes from social pressure. And then completed his tragedy: fate gave a person injustice, and then he realized it with his own tragic character. Finally, the experience of Xiaowan is understandable, but not worthy of sympathy. Because it feels like he has no lower limit and can abandon anything.

I really like this article... The description of human nature is quite realistic.

I feel so confused inside.