The Abandoned Princess and Prince

I'm a passerby who doesn't know why

I heard about "petty bourgeoisie complex" a long time ago, but I never knew its definition. I think it may refer more to an attitude towards life rather than a superficial quality of life. And I don't understand why this word is always associated with the city of Shanghai. Maybe it's because Shanghai is a commercial place. Without political leaders, it is difficult to have local business giants. First, the goal of the elite here is mostly to be a working emperor, followed by gold-collar workers, and then white-collar workers. In this way, if you are neither rich nor noble, you can only be a petty bourgeoisie. Due to their embarrassing social status, the men and women here cannot be regarded as real princes and princesses, so they have to treat themselves as princes and princesses. In fact, what's wrong with loving yourself more? Because no one should care about yourself more than yourself. Even if you are dissatisfied with your software and hardware, I'm sorry, the fate of this life is fixed and cannot be changed. So, accept yourself, care for yourself, and slowly improve yourself. The author replies: Petty bourgeoisie is a bit self-loving, a bit narcissistic... As Dongdong said, it is more of an attitude towards life, but this attitude determines a person's pursuit and way of life. If people are dissatisfied with life, they must learn to work hard to improve. When complaining about life, it means that people have given up on their own lives.

Well, come on! Author's reply: Thank you, Dudu:)

After being abandoned many times, after being sad, after being discouraged, Slowly learned to be lonely, to be indifferent, to be cruel, Learned to abandon others, After that, I learned how to be selfish, how to love myself, and how to love others. Only then can you be happy! Author's reply: Little love is always selfish

In the soundtrack ~ the author's reply: Is there a soundtrack? I forgot about this place - -

Petty bourgeoisie is an attitude towards life, and you can travel freely. The author replies: Well

You are happy when you live in your own world. The author replies: aQYes~

Wang Qiyao and Cheng Shidi What character in the novel is it? Author's reply: Song of Everlasting Regret~``

After reading it, I felt very touched. Yes, the men and women in Shanghai all have a little bit of a petty bourgeois complex... Just like, the word complex has a little bit of a petty bourgeois flavor in it. We would like to be able to enjoy outdoor coffee on a nostalgic street in a sunny afternoon, although in fact we always hate the sun; we would like to take a leisurely stroll under a red umbrella in the drizzle, but in fact we simply cannot stand the sticky moisture all over our bodies... I didn't think about it in detail in the past, but now that I think about it, Jiujiu's words make sense. Petty bourgeoisie is a kind of self-enjoyment, self-comfort, and self-care. In a prosperous place like Shanghai, if you care too much, people will be easily tired, overburdened, and easily fragile. We are too busy to make a living and have too much time to take care of ourselves. Perhaps we are petty bourgeoisie just to tell ourselves that at least we still care about ourselves. And this kind of petty bourgeoisie has been with us since we were born and grew up. Now, it may have been engraved in our bones and blood for a lifetime.