A Shabby Relationship

When I first read this article, I felt it was so real that I thought... Some of the plots fit the title. While reading this article, I also became a single mother. Divorce is very quick even if it involves going to court. What I hate is that the court session also wastes half a day of my annual leave! Maybe the baby is still young, and I am lucky to have supportive and considerate parents. At present, I don't have the same embarrassing pain of running around every day like Ji Su. In fact, Ji Su's life is really good! My ex-husband is willing to give me money, and he owns a house, a car, and skills. When he is happy, he can go to work at any time without any problem. I have heard of men who would rather resign and become unemployed in order to pay less child support. In a stagnant marriage, in the end, you actually don't care too much about whether the other party is cheating on you. My partner filed for divorce with me just after I gave birth to the baby. He didn't care about the reason at all. It doesn't matter where you are mentally. Anyway, I don't have a house, a car, or joint property. I only come here on weekends to see the baby for less than an hour a week. Is there any difference? Ji Su's man is pretty good. There may not be much love in the marriage between these two people. Overall, he is still a responsible man. Therefore, the novel still gives people hope. Life is far less vivid…

I just wanna know what Buffy is

I haven't seen enough yet, it's so big! Thank you for the generous points! Is there any extra? When will the next article be published?

No way, it's over just like that, there's still a lot more that can be written! ? ?

The knot was so hasty, it felt a bit like a snake's tail... Was this the original plan?

. . . . . Abrupt ending

The ending is so sudden, I feel like I haven't finished it yet.

Do any readers say this article is true, simple and touching? I just feel that every character is very real, indeed. Rong Jianan had an underground affair with Gong Lu and went to bed with him, but he told Ji Su that he and Gong Lu were innocent. His sophistication and self-righteousness made even readers pause when they saw it. Was he being unfairly accused? No, he clearly said that he wore a condom every time and was angry that he and others shared a second-hand item at the same time. So what he said about getting divorced instead of having an affair because of Ji Su's incompatible personality should actually be bullshit. Gong Lu should have been the trigger for his divorce. Although the author did not say it clearly, the reality was that he had cheated on her at that time without having the spirit to cheat. If he didn't have a gentle and obedient girlfriend as a comparison, how could Ji Su be so unbearable? ! Gong Lu is determined to find a good partner, and she is very typical of a vain little girl. It's not that Rong Jian'an suddenly had a fit and wanted to show so-called sincerity. Her gentleness and obedience must have found a good job for herself. She quite meets Rong Jian'an's requirements. She wants money, and Rong Jian'an wants to be obedient and not bother him. Ji Su's demanding spirit The silly woman who is more important than material things feels aggrieved. She said that men like Rong Jian'an are right. They look down on women's efforts and think that women have to rely on themselves to live. Thank God and deserve to be played. I think women like Gong Lu are not bad. Men like Rong Jian'an can't always let men like Rong Jian'an think that they are the best. Ji Su just wanted to find someone to live with, but she was fed up with being ignored and not cherished. Therefore, she was serious about divorce and did not try to retain Rong Jian'an. It would be better to live with such a man by herself. However, the social reality made her feel a little inferior. She always felt that she was not good enough. She was attracted to her male partner, but she felt that she was not good enough. Society always discriminated against divorced women. As a mother, she did her duty and worked hard. In the end, like Rong Jianan, she was just looking out for Rongrong, not herself. In other words, I hope that one day, while giving to the family and men, women can love themselves and affirm themselves. In this way, even if they get divorced, they will not be like Ji Su, who only has the confidence to find a better one. It's not that women who have not been divorced can't find it, but many of them feel a little inferior in their hearts. When we finally got together, I didn't feel moved. I saw that they were just make-dos. We tried each other with others and found that they were just make-does. Rong Jian'an may have more feelings and understand his own problem. Maybe he could be more novel and true to his vow to Ji Su that a cohabitation relationship with Gong Lu would be better and more acceptable if he did not have sex. In this way, blatant lies really make people think that if he cheats again after remarrying, he will deny it unless Ji Su catches him in bed. His loyalty to the marriage is very doubtful. Ji Su thought so too. She knew in her heart that Rong Jianan and Gong Lu were not as pure as he said, but so what. Essentially, Ji Su and her male partner happened when she was single, and who knows whether Rong Jianan and Gong Lu had an affair while married? Rong Jian'an is really a scumbag, and he embodies the kind of irresponsible man in society who is picky and inconsiderate to his wife, but tolerant to his lover because they are young. Some people say that Rong Jian'an is not in love with Gong Lu, yes, he is not in love, but he is generous and tolerant, and he is not in love with his wife. He is just picky because he is used to his wife's efforts. In the end, he had a contrast and understood what it means to be considerate and tolerant. The author gave him a good result, but I always feel that it is really good for a man to feel guilty about you? Ji Su's biggest mistake in her marriage was that she made Rong Jian'an's life too comfortable. From the old man to the child, he didn't have to work hard. He didn't participate, so he didn't understand Ji Su's difficulties. The trivial life would make Ji Su miss her so much and make Rong Jian'an annoyed. Being attracted by Gong Lu's gentleness, he would look down on a yellow-faced woman like Ji Su. Housewives have status abroad because they never feel that they are dependent on men. On weekends, you will see men yawning and taking their children to the park to participate in various activities and give their wives a holiday to relax. This is the essential difference. Don't you think housewives are the reason why women are despised? The question is, how do you be a housewife smartly and let your husband participate in family life, so that he will understand your efforts, otherwise, like a spoiled naughty child, what can you ask for? Also, I really can't be nagging all the time. It's too negative, both for myself and my family. Ji Su probably hates that kind of self. Rong Jiananti's divorce will also free him up. The best thing about this realistic article is that Ji Su and Rong Jian'an broke up rationally. Both parties had had enough. Ji Su is really not the kind of infatuated and stupid woman who loves her ex-husband. The psychological description is also realistic. Even if Ji Su doesn't love Rong Jian'an, she will definitely be unhappy with him and his little girlfriend. Rong Jian'an is even more worried about finding someone who is ten years younger for his divorce. He also feels that his ex-wife is old and lustful and that he is much better than him to find a sense of balance. His ex-wife has a partner but is unbalanced and wants to compare. He wants to marry a young man to prove that he is a winner. All the bad qualities of men are fully exposed in him. At the same time, he really loves children. His ability to realize his mistakes and save them is really not what ordinary scumbags have. Although he talks big words with open eyes and is despised. In other words, I don't think there is love between them, at least Ji Su is gone. Rong Jianan is more emotionally biased towards Ji Su, especially after he was deceived by Gong Lu. The two of them came out of Rongrong's desire for their parents, while Ji Suzai accepted it passively. The two of them were together more for the sake of their children. Of course, being a parent is not a wrong choice I actually don't like this kind of situation where you didn't care about what I paid in the past and chose you to pay instead. It's not healthy. A real relationship should be a blending process. There is no need to divorce or try different people to get together. If everyone can calm down and find ways to work hard at the beginning, there is no need to involve a female partner and a male partner to mature. But can Ji Su believe someone like Rong Jianan? As she said herself, Rong Jian'an did not give her a sense of security and trust at all. Being selfish and lying were his hallmarks. Or maybe a gentle and obedient woman had to teach Rong Jian'an a lesson before he would understand how good Ji Su was? Women really need to be careful when choosing a partner. People like Rong Jian'an really need to be mentally prepared. If they want to get married, they should be realistic about money. The best thing is to find someone who is willing to communicate with them. This article is so real. It makes people see that they have no hope for marriage, but they are together because of their children. The man who seems to know how to take care of the family is not the one she was willing to tolerate in the first place. Living together for a long time is not sublimation. After each goes out, it is better to make do with it. Who knows whether the one they meet later will be more excellent. Ji Su and Rong Jianan are like a dish that has changed a bit, but there is no taste of happiness. Therefore, the feeling of reading this article is very special. I don't see the anger of the scumbag Bego and the girl, nor the touch of the reunion, nor the joy that the male and female protagonists have matured and reconciled. It is all light, just looking at compromise and making do, very real and down-to-earth, but I don't see love and true feelings. Of course, I feel that Ji Su is very aggrieved because she has low self-esteem and does not have the confidence and courage to find happiness. In the end, she took back her ex-husband who knew his mistakes and improved. It was all a helpless compromise.

This ending is a bit rushed, the two of them are together now

Recently, I have seen various divorces and reconciliations, and this one is still true, natural, simple and touching.