Forever Strangers

Ah, after reading it, I thought about the sentence in "Walden": Most people live in quiet despair.

Why marry into a wealthy family? I am a wealthy person! This is my impression after reading this article. It seems that Brother R's wife has finally become someone he admires.

I think if the quality of life between two people is not as good as alone, then don't choose to be together. After all, we expect ourselves to become excellent.

The feeling is so real that sometimes one wonders if love is just a fantasy.

It's really sad to see it. Studying is too hard. People like us who live in third-tier cities without much pursuit of life and live a comfortable life can't imagine that such investment and study costs can indeed easily lead to psychological imbalance.

Many middle-aged divorced people give up their lives rather than their wealth.

At first, we were attracted by each other's shining points, so we got closer. Because other conditions were suitable for each other, we stayed together. When we get along, every time our three views collide, we are surprised by the compatibility with each other. Every thought we spend on each other can make us gain sweetness, warmth and touching together. At that time, every moment I spent with him didn't feel wasted. I had a vague feeling in my heart that my life would be better if I was with him! The years are passing by and we are growing up. What attracted me to him in the first place is something that I already possess. So looking at him again was like looking at the moon. Without all the light, he was just a broken stone covered with pits. It seemed that this was not bad, because some people initially fell in love with shooting stars. Without romantic fantasies, every day with him seemed like passing time. Now we have to do our best to prevent them from falling behind and becoming a drag, so that we can live out the rest of our lives with the mentality of living together.

Not many people think as clearly and have clear goals as in your long article. Everyone lives in a vague way. Occasionally, you can't survive and stop your losses.

So is this the real modern life in China? It's amazing.

The key is that r is not considerate of his wife. Although I don't understand at all that an ordinary doctor from Tsinghua University has such admiration, I have also seen wives of undergraduate classmates who admire their husbands, and the husbands are still very successful. But my husband was totally inconsiderate. My wife worked overtime and came home late at night. Her husband was drunk and made a mess at home. My wife had no choice but to sacrifice her sleep time to clean up. She went to work early the next morning, and her colleagues sympathized with her very much. R is obviously like this. Don't you have the ability to be considerate of others? All in all, the total scores in all aspects add up to pass. If you have zero points both internally and externally, your wife will get divorced. I am contrary to some people who say that you married the wrong wife. In life, you don't understand your wife (but you take care of your friends' wives, this is Yang Tiexin). If a woman tolerates it, it can only be because she has some agenda.