Time Stands Still in Your Eyes

Then the scumbag will turn around and look for the mistress

After a long time, I couldn't help but relive the time. I was really upset after watching it. I always felt that they shouldn't be like this and they should be like this. Well, actually I want to see the scumbag regret and cry bitterly, hahahahaha. When I watched it before, I focused more on their feelings, but this time it was really different. First of all, let's not talk about Song Zhi's cheating. As far as daily life is concerned, he never helps Zhu Qian with housework on weekends, sleeps until lunch time, and dislikes Zhu Qian for all kinds of quarrels, including the quarrel on Zhu Qian's birthday, and the sentence "I am so tired if I don't want you to have a good life." Really, Song Zhi is definitely unqualified as a boyfriend. He took Zhu Qian's contribution too much for granted. Being in a relationship for so long but never getting married sounds like a struggle, so you can ask for the certificate first. In fact, I feel it's more that they lived together too early. Apart from the certificate, are there any differences between them and a couple? I have been in a relationship for 8 years and cheated on you for 1 and a half years. It's really weird. In fact, if you change your mind and don't love me anymore, tell Zhu Qian clearly as soon as possible. I still think more highly of you, but no. It's not that I don't love you anymore, to be precise, I just don't love you that much anymore. To Zhu Qian and Xiao San, he is a scumbag. Zhu Qian is too busy at work and has no energy to fall in love, so she wants Zhu Qian to be obedient and sensible, but she still wants the feeling of being in love and can't resist the temptation. To put it bluntly, she doesn't want to give but she still wants to get. In the past, when they fell in love, it was not difficult to see that Song was taking the initiative. I have read a message from a netizen before and thought it was very good. "It's not that Song Zhi doesn't know who he loves, nor does he love everyone. He has always loved Zhu Qian. He also knows that he loves Zhu Qian. It's just that he doesn't love her. It's just that he doesn't love her enough and doesn't love her that much." What Song Zhi did to his mistress was actually a scumbag. He knew in his heart that they would not end up together, and he would not marry her, but he could not refuse her either. He knew very clearly in his heart that Zhu Qian was going to get married, and mistress was going to live. Condiments are for romance. He knew clearly in his heart what he was looking for in his mistress. He never planned to marry her, but he bought her a ring, talked about love, and all kinds of romance. To put it bluntly, wasn't he just looking for excitement and youth in her? Looking for his younger self, he felt that he was still the big boy before. Isn't he delaying another girl? (Of course I'm not talking to the mistress here. The mistress is also responsible for her own fault. If she goes out with the other girl again and again even though she knows she has a girlfriend, she must be prepared to be cannon fodder. There is also the smell of perfume that appears on Song Zhi in the later period. Haha, I follow the formula of a romantic drama. Lu thought about it and Zhu Qian didn't notice that they had been together for a year and a half. Why did the clothes smell of perfume? No mistress would not want to be in a position. ) Many people said that Zhu Qian was also responsible and broke up with the mistress. In my opinion, he just chose someone he could give up more. Song Zhi said that Zhu Qian had changed, but what about him? Hasn't it changed? He blindly ignored her under the pretense of letting Zhu Qian live a good life. When he was poor before, he could spend all his salary to buy a necklace for Song Qian. Now that he is rich, he lost his temper with Zhu Qian over a piece of clothing. Many people said that Zhu Qian should have broken up when she smelled the perfume for the first time, but after all, it was her 8 years. She had loved the man for 8 years so much. She didn't know that he would be cheated on once, but she couldn't be cruel enough to do it. In fact, if Song Zhi hadn't said goodbye to her mistress in the cafe, she wouldn't have left at all. As for Song Zhi, he was so sad when he broke up with his mistress in the coffee shop. He couldn't bear to leave. What was he sad about? What is he reluctant to part with? What he is sad about is that his sustenance is gone, and what he is reluctant to part with is his youth. So in a blink of an eye, he could cook for Song Qian as if nothing had happened, and he could also have a good night's sleep. Maybe in his mind, he just went out to solve one thing, but for Zhu Qian, the sky really fell. After living together for so long, Song Zhi doesn't even know what Zhu Qian really likes to eat. It can be imagined that his boyfriend is really a failure. Now that he thinks about it, even if he doesn't cheat on this man, he can't get married. It's selfish. Sometimes I would also think about their subsequent ending, Song Zhi's reaction after returning home, I would definitely go to Zhu Qian, will he be able to save it? It should be possible, but I don't want Zhu Qian to look back. I hope she can start over, find someone who understands her, cares about her, and knows how to give. And what about Song Zhi? His life will definitely continue, and he will find someone to get married and have children, but it probably won't be the mistress because he knows very well that the mistress is only suitable for romance and not life. In essence, he is a selfish man. But I feel that he will never find someone who loves him as much as Zhu Qian, and no one will give to him so unconditionally. Adult love will never be that simple. In fact, now that I think about it, maybe this ending is the best. I don't cherish it when I get it, but I often miss it when I lose it. After all, they still have a long time together. If you don't let him go out and see other people, how will he know how good you are? Especially since he is still in the same unit with his mistress, who knows whether he will continue to cheat on you in the future? Or a second mistress appears. Leaving the best Zhu Qian in Song Zhi's memory may be their best ending. In fact, the reason why we were so upset was probably because we didn't see Zhu Qian's happiness. Also, I suddenly thought about whether Song Zhi had slept with his mistress. Logically, everything that should have happened after being together for a year and a half had happened. However, it was mentioned in several places in the article that the smell of perfume on the clothes was on the coat, not on the shirt. If he slept with her, the clothes inside would definitely smell of perfume. Hahaha, no matter how you put it, even if you didn't go to bed, they would definitely have kissed and hugged each other. The scumbag was definitely cheating on her physically and mentally.

She stubbornly follows a man to his city, and he has this attitude, and she still fantasizes about marrying him. Isn't it true that she is not married and has no children, but it is more relaxed, without too many entanglements, she can just pack her bags and go back to the south, and she can still be together for 8 years. I also admire this heroine.

Cheating means not loving her anymore, and he has already fallen in love with San. Even if he marries the heroine, he will still feel guilty about San. He and San have been in a relationship for more than a year, which can give him passion, so it is better not to torture the heroine again.

If you don't have love, then go for money. Anyway, money is a good thing. I am very worldly. What are men and love? Money is eternal. Don't live and die for love.

Wimps, both of them

First, getting married is really an impulse. Second, girls must remember that if they can get financial power, take it, and study if they don't care. It is always good to have money. Second, don't be stingy with yourself, don't love men too much, keep your figure, appearance... These are the most important things.

Zhu Qian in reality will definitely be very good.

How many of us can really hold the hand of our children and grow old together with them? Most of them are no match for the reality of life. Let's all see clearly that we can live without men.

We have filled each other's youth, witnessed each other's changes bit by bit, and thought that we were unique. It is ridiculous to think that we can have it. You walked into his story but could not choose to stay. The last parting was your tenderness, Zhu Qian, just leave that quiet time.