The Ex-Boyfriend

This is a very subjective book review, very... Subjective... I'll try not to spoil anything. I finished reading this article yesterday, and to be honest, when I saw the part where the misunderstanding from back then was revealed, I felt really disappointed. It's that feeling of looking forward to a big meal but it turns out to be a plate of shrimps… The tone of this article is very steady before the reveal, and the characters are well drawn. Some people say that Shou is pretentious, but I think the author's writing style was very stable and there was nothing wrong with it. What is pretentiousness? Hypocrisy is to torment others with your own thoughts, but Shou Ke has never done such a thing. But! ! ! There is not a slight difference between the first half and the second half of this character! ! Is it the gap between the Atlantic Ocean and the Pacific Ocean that you created? In fact, I think the real hypocrisy is attack. Why do I say that? Starting from what happened back then, Gong accepted an assist after he found out that he fell in love with Shou (actually, I have been thinking about who Gu Lan loved [with a bitter face]). A cheating suggestion, Shou accepted this suggestion... Maybe there is really something wrong with the IQ of people who fall in love. Hasn't Gong ever thought about what it is like to be a person who can accept your advice? What's more, I didn't hide it particularly well before being attacked. Then Gong did something wrong while drunk, and when he was arguing with the assistant, he was misunderstood by Shou (I think I have to emphasize here, because it was such a mistake, and it was impossible for Shou not to misunderstand him. He knew that there was someone in Gong's heart (this was Gong's fault), and then after hearing such words, if he didn't run away, he would be stepped on in his face, that would be a real bitch), Shou I decided to study abroad and left Beijing. I felt guilty and did not explain or stop me (I was still very calm at this time. I just felt that I understood the truth that people in love really lower their IQ. I just don't understand. Will the result be worse after you explain it? Will the consequences of drunkenness and wrongdoing be worse than being in deep love and being afraid? Okay, I will just treat it as deep love and fear). Regarding the plot so far, I feel that it is actually more courageous and even more decisive to be on the receiving end than to attack emotionally. The author showed that the attack and the attack were very good, and even helped him change. However, during this period of time, the pay for the attack was equal, and it basically didn't matter who owed it to the other. But after such an incident comes out, Gong will take the blame. In fact, in their previous relationship, although they were emotionally equal, their status was not equal enough. One looked up to them, while the other loved them. (Actually, I would be more accepting if they broke up due to unequal status after getting together, and I think the subsequent development is logical. Why do I say this!! Because I really don't understand the logic of the subsequent attack!!!) I finally got to what I wanted to complain about, okay, I talked too much. Shou went abroad to study, met a new person, and made a new boyfriend. Gong has been paying attention to him. I also went to Shou's school and saw Shou and his new boyfriend. He still did nothing and returned to his hometown to continue his career as a nanny. Later, Shou's new boyfriend broke up because Shou didn't love him enough, and Shou got another uncle, Gong. At this time, Gong couldn't help but get in touch with this uncle Gong because he had a job. The trigger for Shou's breakup with her uncle Gong was seeing Gong's appearance and realizing that she was still in love with her first love. This is what happened in the memories that the author wrote later. At this time, I was finally confused. I felt that I had fallen into a deep pit. Why? ! ! Gong, what on earth are you thinking about? ! ! ! Obviously I was thinking of such a bad idea before (people who fall in love always lack IQ). What I was worried about before was that I couldn't accept that the person I was dating was a man. Now! ! You saw Shou with her new boyfriend, and you just went back silently? Go back and continue your career as a nanny? Then he couldn't help but go do business with his uncle, and then went back to continue his career as a nanny. Do you eat KFC and like buy one get one free so much? ! ! Your IQ hasn't come back in ten years... I silently advised myself that the IQ of people in love is always off-line... Even if you give up on the possibility of two people getting together at this time, don't you think you should explain the misunderstanding back then? ! ! ! I really can't calm down. At this time, I really doubted Gong's intentions. The author wanted to portray an affectionate Gong, but what he presented was a complete loser emotionally. He was timid, and even his deep affection was just a pretense to comfort himself. I even doubted whether he was falling in love with himself who was bitterly in love. He almost never fought for the future of the two of them. Even in the end, when he finally learned that Shou Zao had broken up with his uncle, he decided to explain and pursue her again. It must have been a long time, but I was not moved at all. Why? Because the gap is too big, Gong is a complete coward, completely different from what the author wants to show. His advantages are almost all external, including money, power, and emotions, but he has no inner tenacity at all. If there are any problems in the future, will he still have to run or give up, and be moved by his silent waiting? In fact, I quite agree with what the author said near the end through Shou's psychological description. Even if they were together in the beginning, they might not have a good outcome. Instead, they are equal and suitable enough now. Because I had read an ex-boyfriend type article before, and the logic in that article was more reasonable. There were many reasons why Gong and Shou broke up, but the trigger was the death of Gong's father (Gong's father was seriously ill, but he died quickly because he knew that Gong and Shou were together), and Gong couldn't face Shou (Gong and Shou actually had other problems at this time, and they were both relatively childish). Many years later, they met again, Gong pursued Shou again, and Shou agreed. This is so damn brave. Neither of them is afraid of another disaster. When I first watched it, I felt so frustrated. I felt that fate was such a pretentious little devil, and I really couldn't refuse it! So I had high expectations for this article, and the first half was really good. But! ! ! All of this was ruined by that misunderstanding... Gong's logic after that was so amazing that I couldn't understand it... It can be said that Gong's character really failed, he is the real hypocrisy. I feel that many authors grasp the line of control well. In fact, I don't care about control. I like characters with real charisma, but... After finishing the hot pot angrily, I felt so depressed. Real! Of! Good! Can! Cherish!

Finished spreading flowers! There are so many locks that I don't even know the most important reason why we broke up that year, which makes me depressed.

First of all, I am not a clean person. I can even read articles about being raped. Do you still care whether you are clean or not? As long as the plot is well-written, I can accept being attacked, beaten, and turned to death! So it's my ability to say that this article can make me be so "excuseme???". Okay, I'm a little irritable, so I'll just say this. The affectionate girl is secretly saddened as she stares at Bai Yueguang, who wants nothing, while supporting the little star. It's really disgusting. Please don't insult the word true love.

I want to know why the hero's parents are in love

The mood is very complicated. HE, but at the end it doesn't feel that way when it's really together. There is a feeling of being an outsider, which I have always felt deeply involved in before. Well,

Why why why did such a good plot collapse? The characters of the two male protagonists are really hard to describe. I was stimulated in the early stage, but I felt stuffy in the later stage.

Will you write a side story about Gu Lan?

It looks great, it would be even better if there was a side story (′▽`)

When will the new article be published?

The plot was good, but it was a bit confusing for me.