Sea of Fragrant Snow

Time is eternal and fair, cruel but gentle. . . .

What is love I went on a rampage several times when I was young. To simply get love is to give. But once you love and give, you will naturally start to ask for something in return. You don't feel that it is against your original intention. It's not until you can't find love that you realize that you can't take it back and you don't want to take it back. Even you don't want to admit it. How can this be considered love? If you don't admit it is love, what is the point? Only in the past few years have I gradually understood something. In fact, my thoughts back then cannot be said to be wrong. We are right to believe in one thing and not to believe in one thing, but we will get different results. I used to always ask myself in my heart, what is fairness? Is there fairness in this world? I always wondered why people are so different. Some people are sincere and others choose to play the world. Some are poor, some are rich, some are healthy and happy, some are disabled, some are depressed. Is the decision-making power of life really in my own hands? In fact, this proposition itself is problematic. Where there is fairness, there is unfairness. Everything inherently has two contradictory aspects. The primary contradiction and the secondary contradiction always transform into each other under different circumstances. There is nothing absolutely correct, only relative differences and the process that each person has. Just like the problem of love, we cannot define love simply by talking about love. Love is just a branch of emotion, just like friendship and family affection. But we hold on to love more and forget that a person only has the opportunity to understand love when he has experienced family and friendship first. When we encounter love, if we screw up everything and lose a love, it must be because we did not learn the previous lessons well before we encountered this love. All the feelings we have experienced can be blurred or still vivid after the baptism of time. There is always a difference. Sometimes we cannot treat our past feelings fairly. I remember once hearing what a father said to comfort his newly broken-up daughter, "If a person is unhappy, it is just because he/she does not want to be responsible for the choices he/she has made." Very well said In fact, everything in the world can be viewed very simply. Although simplicity may not be suitable or suitable for everyone, there are indeed many difficult problems that do not have standard answers. When I was in high school, a teacher once said to his students: We can talk about anything but life. Let me say that we can analyze everything, just don't analyze feelings, feelings, emotions. All we can hold are emotions, feelings, feelings? Is love for feelings or for emotions? Who has to make the choice?

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I haven't seen such a rational and good article for a long time. It integrates the understanding of life. I have never believed that love is everything in life. I have always believed that only love controlled by rationality can be eternal. Especially after marriage, if you want to stay together sweetly until old age, you absolutely cannot lack reason. It requires understanding, tolerance, and even small skills between two people to achieve it. The author's reply: In fact, I have always felt that the absolute meaning of love is difficult to exist in reality. Watching the sunrise and sunset every day does not last forever, and the meaning of life cannot be just about falling in love.

Cleverly connected~I like it~

I really like this article. Although it is a middle volume, it contains many different but similar stories. I like it.

Great story. It's like a fable, not bad. In fact, these people really get what they want. What happened to the prince in the end was so frustrating.

So sad. Indeed, losing one's lover and everything and being alone forever is the most terrifying thing... It would be good to be freed.

The story of this couple has a very real feeling. Not only homosexuals, but also heterosexuals who are not in the right family. After giving up everything for love, they will feel helpless because of regrets or the wear and tear of life. When the light of love dims... People are social beings, so love that completely excludes all factors can only exist in fairy tales.

The story of the two people mentioned above, although they are unknown to each other, is deceived in a way that makes people sympathize with them. This doctor deserves it. Although there is a saying that love has no reason. But in fact, there is absolutely no love without reason in the world. It's always nothing more than talent, appearance, character, and long-lasting feelings. Knowing clearly that this guy who loves money only has a superficial appearance, and his inner character is just greed, and his attitude towards him is just to use him, but he still loves him. What will happen to him, he can only say that he deserves it. "I turned around and saw Qian Xin's side face reflected in the snowy light outside, illuminating his handsome eyebrows and eyes. I couldn't help but feel slightly startled. This look was familiar to me, but every time I looked at it, it always made his heart beat slightly faster." - It's understandable to be infatuated for a while. Such an appearance is nothing compared to Xiao's deep affection for him. There is indeed something disgusting about being so pitiful, asking for trouble, harming himself and others. Poor Xiao. Author's reply: Su Feng's love for Qian Xin is largely driven by desire. People often have extreme feelings towards a certain type of person they long to be, either jealousy or love, all because they desire but cannot realize it. It's not that Qian Xin doesn't love Su Bing at all. Although he uses Su Bing, he also has unreserved and absolute trust in Su Bing. This cannot be achieved by simply using relationships. But Qian Xin is a timid person who is influenced by the world and subconsciously avoids such abnormal feelings. His unconsciousness created a pattern similar to giving a candy to a stick, so Su Wen could not completely give up on him.