An Old Tune Revisited: Li Xunhuan and Lin Shiyin

I'm a little angry at the author's double standard. I haven't finished reading it. I don't know if there is any criticism of Li Xunhuan later. I just want to say that the author's analysis of Lin Shiyin is very accurate. It is true that Lin Shiyin is not a qualified soul mate. Her character and various analysis by the author are very accurate, but is Li Xunhuan a qualified soul mate? Apart from other personal feelings, Li Xunhuan at least does not regard Lin Shiyin more seriously than Long Xiaotian. You said that Lin Shiyin didn't trust Li Xunhuan. If he caught his partner coming to a hotel with several women and then being arrested by the police every day, you said that you should continue to trust this partner and believe that his character would not do such a thing. But if he really did it, wouldn't it be a betrayal of his partner if he did it? Don't say anything: I smoke and drink, but I am a good boy. Do you think anyone believes this? Lin Shiyin saw Li Xunhuan going to a brothel, and then she had to believe him. Don't you feel ashamed to say such things? And don't just say that Lin Shiyin is not suitable for Li Xunhuan, but Sun Xiaohong is, because Sun Xiaohong can complement Li Xunhuan's personality. I think Li Xunhuan is indeed not suitable for Lin Shiyin. It's a pity that Gu Long did not give Lin Shiyin a role with complementary personality.

In fact, after reading the original book, I still didn't understand whether Li Xunhuan loved Lin Shiyin or not. Let's talk about love. For Long, as a partner, he completely concealed Lin Shiyin and forced Lin Shiyin to leave. If you want to say that you don't love him, then you'll talk about his statue, cough, and so on. I think actually I still don't love it. If you love someone, how can you bear to make the one you love suffer because of your actions? It is better to understand that Li does not love Lin, and their relationship is just an engagement. Then everyone will look better when Li comes back later, Long Xiaoyun will not turn black, and Long Xiaoyun will not hate Li Xunhuan to the bone...

The happiness of Li Xunhuan, Lin Shiyin and Long Xiaoyun cannot be balanced. The best decision is to satisfy the happiness of two people, and the second best decision is to satisfy the happiness of one person. However, Li Xunhuan made the worst decision, making all three of them unhappy. Li Xunhuan can be considered a talent. The first wrong decision Li Xunhuan made was to give up Lin Shiyin to Long Xiaoyun. Lin Shiyin is not an object, and feelings cannot be used as gifts or repayments. Since Li Xunhuan and Lin Shiyin were childhood sweethearts and loved each other, he shouldn't give her up to Long Xiaoyun. Doing so would neither respect his own feelings nor Lin Shiyin's. But Li Xunhuan chose to sacrifice the happiness of two people to fulfill the happiness of one person. Some people may say that ancient people believed that brothers are like siblings and wives are like clothes. Li Xunhuan's choice was not wrong at the time. If Li Xunhuan really regarded Lin Shiyin as a piece of clothing, he shouldn't have made the second wrong decision, that is, just walked away. How can anyone leave their wealth and travel away from home just because they can't bear to part with a piece of clothing? Li Xunhuan's departure put Long Xiaoyun in an awkward position, because Li Xunhuan was telling Long Xiaoyun: I am very reluctant to part with Lin Shiyin, but I still gave her to you. I would rather leave far away. For Long Xiaoyun, Li Xunhuan's sacrifice was too great, and this kindness could not be repaid at all. Moreover, Li Xunhuan never thought about what outsiders would think of Long Xiaoyun? People who don't know, think that Long Xiaoyun betrayed his brother and drove him away? At the same time, if Li Xunhuan really agrees that "brothers are like brothers and sisters, and wives are like clothes," he shouldn't have known another sentence: Friends' wives are not to be played with. How could he carve images of his brothers and wives every day? Li Xunhuan's departure and portrait are nothing more than a kind of self-movation: I am so affectionate that I can't forget her; I am so righteous and worthy of him. The more affectionate Li Xunhuan behaves, the more he can explain how great his sacrifice was, and the more he can prove how righteous he is. He did not allow himself to forget Lin Shiyin, because then the sacrifice he made for Long Xiaoyun would not be so great. If Li Xunhuan moved him like this until he was old, it would be the right choice, because at least Long Xiaoyun would be happy. But Li Xunhuan should never have made the third wrong decision, which was to come back to find Long Xiaoyun. Originally, everyone had forgotten or pretended to forget this matter. Long Xiaoyun and Lin Shiyin lived a peaceful life together, but the appearance of Li Xunhuan undoubtedly broke this peace. For Lin Shiyin, when her former lover comes back, her already calm heart will inevitably become turbulent again. She will feel that her current life is unhappy, and this is something no husband wants to see. For Long Xiaoyun, Li Xunhuan's appearance undoubtedly reminded him again that Li Xunhuan was a great kindness to him, which he could not repay, and he owed Li Xunhuan too much. This kind of unrequited kindness is very heavy, and it will always weigh on Long Xiaoyun's heart, making him unable to raise his head. Moreover, Li Xunhuan's reappearance also revealed to everyone the things he had deliberately forgotten. Even people who didn't know Long Xiaoyun's past would still ask: Long Xiaoyun was so good to this person, who is he? People who know the inside story will take the opportunity to gossip: He, how he was back then. This will undoubtedly expose Long Xiaoyun to public humiliation again. Li Xunhuan's return made all three of them unhappy. Therefore, it is not difficult to understand that Long Xiaoyun wants to frame Li Xunhuan.

? ? I really don't understand why people are still saying that Li Xunhuan gave Lin Shiyin as a gift at this time? ? Did he have an arranged marriage? Did he press Lin Shiyin's head? Is Lin Shiyin bound by feudal ethics? Is there such a thing in Gu Long's setting? Are there only two men in the world, Li Long? The meaning of Lin's life is the two of them? He didn't tell Lin Shiyin the truth. Thank God he didn't tell her - a man who was so brave and alone held the train remote control hub that fate had given him firmly in his hands, and used all his courage to break thousands of hearts. Minimize the harm to others, and still be scolded like this in the end; if he dares to throw the dilemma of moral kidnapping to Lin Shiyin, he is innocent and upright and free from the condemnation of conscience, let alone the spit of readers can drown him, I will look down on him. He wanted his eldest brother to live and Shiyin to be happy, but he couldn't make things difficult for them. What should he do? Self-destruction, "I'm such a scumbag, you have seen clearly what I am, Long is a good person, you can take care of it yourself." Lin Shiyin has thoughts and a mouth. She is a living person. Doesn't she want Li Xunhuan to tie her to the dragon bed? "Why don't I tell him clearly that I love him and I won't marry anyone but him." Even Shiyin herself reflected on why others couldn't understand. No one treated her as a gift, she treated herself as a soulless puppet. Or to put it more unpleasantly: a person who has the right to make independent choices and free expression has made a choice about her marriage and love, but the result is unhappy. Others actually shout that someone else sent her out and someone else ruined her happiness in life. So the person who treats her as a human being is not someone else, but the onlookers. In short, Li Xunhuan habitually plays the role of protector, which may criticize male chauvinism - but if it is this kind of courage and protective responsibility to face the train problem alone, I don't think this should be criticized at all. Just scold him for not putting love first. Oh, that's the setting. He feels that his love is not as important as his brother's life. This is the end. To say that he gave Shiyin as a gift is sheer nonsense. These are the four words of helplessness, the helplessness of fate, Gu Long wrote about it. Gu Long is a brilliant master, very brilliant, and his level of writing all kinds of emotions is so high.

I don't know if the author has noticed what Sun Xiaohong said - Sun Xiaohong sighed: "I never understood before, why some people always listen to others and let others change their destiny? Now I understand that you listen to others not because you are afraid of them, but because you love them and you know that no matter what they do, they are for your own good." - So I think Lin Shiyin may have realized that she Maybe she and her cousin were not a good match, or she realized it when she was hesitant to hand over the Book of Lianhua to Li Xunhuan or earlier, so she knew that Li Xunhuan wanted her to marry Long Xiaoyun for her own good in a sense. This should be one of the reasons for her final compromise, but she underestimated her feelings for her cousin... In short, these three people are too entangled... But the one who is most at fault is Long Xiaoyun, absolutely

I don't know why some readers directly defined Lin Shiyin as a lady, saying that ladies can't touch the world! Martial arts! Aren't Lin Shiyin and Li Xunhuan childhood sweethearts? Can't you see Li Xunhuan practicing martial arts poetry? She only accepts Li Xunhuan reciting poems and painting with her but can't accept Li Xunhuan's martial arts skills. Haha! Then don't always look for ladies in martial arts novels, okay? Slowly becoming embarrassed? Don't say in martial arts novels that a woman has no right to speak when she demands three obediences and four virtues. This is just telling lies. Just saying that Lin Xianer should have been buried long ago, okay? Don't be such a double standard.

If Lin Shiyin fled into Buddhism or remained unmarried after Li Xunhuan left, then she could still blame Li Xunhuan for failing to give her happiness, because Li Xunhuan abandoned their love, and Lin Shiyin chose Long Xiaoyun.

Li Xunhuan lived in ancient times. In the TV series, it was the Ming Dynasty. Zhu Xi's Neo-Confucianism in the Ming Dynasty was very famous. Simply put, it emphasized justice and destroyed human desires. The three cardinal principles and the five constant principles protect the ruling class. For Li Xunhuan, it was difficult to choose between his lover and his benefactor, so he chose to commit suicide. Lin Shiyin married Long Xiaoyun out of frustration, which then caused more than ten years of pain for the three people. Let's analyze it from the beginning, In terms of values, Li Xunhuan values love and righteousness, while Long Xiaoyun is a typical example of human transformation. Because of jealousy, low self-esteem and domestic violence, she developed severe mental illness. When Lin Shiyin was frustrated, what could she do? Run away from home? Cut off the robe and cut off the righteousness? She could only marry Long Xiaoyun instead, but Lin Shiyin's character was still relatively tough, which made it difficult for her to let go of the past. In her new life, she could not forget the past. This was domestic cold violence! Everyone is forced to do so, and it is all caused by their own character. However, as a modern reader, I may be able to understand it, but to say otherwise, it would be hahaha! Let's analyze it based on current values. Li Xunhuan first made the mistake of personal heroism. He wanted to shoulder this problem, but what happened was that he made everyone suffer and ruined three people. Besides, no matter whether Li Xunhuan has difficulty choosing between his lover and his benefactor, people are free. A person's freedom is reflected in everyone's right to make independent choices and the right to know. There is a kind of coldness that makes your mother think you are cold, and there is a kind of disease that makes you think it is for his own good. No one has the right to make choices for others. If you are a child, your parents have custody of you before you are a minor. But as long as you become an adult, you must be responsible for yourself and others. Responsibility for others here does not mean that I make decisions for you, shoulder everything, and leave the good things to you. Instead, you need to learn to share and learn to bear together. You have to learn to respect it. Li Xunhuan's success is only the fulfillment of his own values. Who does it succeed in the end? This is the most inconsistent with the present. If this matter is transplanted to modern times, there was a rich and handsome man named Li Xunhuan. He was seriously ill and needed a kidney transplant. At this time, a kind man named Long Xiaoyun donated a kidney to him, and then the two became good brothers. One day, Long went to Li's house as a guest and saw Li's "sister" (actually his fiancée) Lin, and fell in love immediately. However, because Lin did not love him, he fell in love with her. He couldn't afford to fall ill. At this time, Li Si thought about it and was in a dilemma. He decided to stay away from home all night to make Lin give up and fulfill their wishes. In the end, he got his wish and attended the wedding with his family property as a gift. After that, he went abroad alone. When he returned to his hometown ten years later, Li did not expect that after ten years of domestic cold violence and various environmental influences, Long had become a psychopath. After a series of conspiracies, Long was finally sent to prison and faced the death penalty. Lin was widowed at home after the divorce. Focusing on raising children, this is a bloody drama, a typical example of good intentions leading to bad things. Of course, if Lin was really a modern woman, facing this situation, it would be more likely that she would not marry anyone, and go to a foreign country to leave this sad place. In the end, Li would lose his wife and lose his army. Therefore, Li Xunhuan's own kindness cannot cover up his own character flaws. Generally speaking, Li Xunhuan is a good person, but he is also a ruthless person. He is ruthless to himself and to others. He is loyal to his own three views, but facts have proved that this is not worthy of admiration. His sacrifice was accompanied by the pain of three people, and his fulfillment could only fulfill himself. This just means that everything in his world is no bigger than his "reason". His "reason" tells him that he has to shoulder everything by himself and sacrifice himself for everyone, but his reason is wrong. There is no absolute good or absolute evil in people, everything is dialectical. I agree with the author that Long Xiaoyun was sick at the time, most likely because he realized the despicableness of his character, but this can be reversed. People spend their lives restraining themselves, restraining themselves to abide by the rules. At that time, Long Xiaoyun was not a bad person, but he was becoming a bad person, and Li Xunhuan condoned this change to a large extent. Lin Shiyin and Long Xiaoyun's tragedy were largely caused by themselves. Since Lin Shiyin has chosen to start a new life, she should not be nostalgic and cannot let go of the past, which has resulted in a serious and bad family environment. Long Xiaoyun knows in his heart that he is selfish and despicable. This is a big psychological gap. Later, Long could not face the problem squarely and allowed it to develop, which finally led to a tragic ending. But can we say that there is no problem with Li Xunhuan? Li Xunhuan knew Lin Shiyin. In fact, he probably realized that Lin Shiyin would be unhappy. Li's subconscious was reminding him that this would make Lin unhappy. But Li Xunhuan placed his hope on time, hoping that as time goes by, Lin would be able to have a happy life with Long. Who am I? Where am I? Oh my god, how can there be such awesome logic? Everyone can only be responsible for themselves and cannot choose for others! If Li lays out everything, this might not be an opportunity, an opportunity for correction. No one can make mistakes without being a sage. If there are a million in front of you and you are asked to steal a girl's underwear, you may not do it, but will you not be tempted? So Long Xiaoyun is indeed despicable, and he realizes it himself, but you can choose not to condone it and explain everything clearly. There are only two consequences. One is that you will be heartbroken and cannot afford to be sick, and the other is that you will stop thinking after being heartbroken. If you can't afford it, you will get medical treatment. Who has never lost love in his life? If Long takes advantage of illness to force him maliciously, it will make people see clearly. As for Lin Shiyin, I read that the author said that when Lin Shiyin was taking care of Long Xiaoyun, it was her biggest mistake not to tell Long Xiaoyun that she had a fiancé. I want to say that one of the biggest illusions in the world is "thinking that he likes you." Besides, as a lady, how do you ask her to tell her? The tragedies of Long, Li and Lin are caused by their own reasons. Unexpectedly, what the author said is that most of them are Long Xiaoyun, some are Lin Shiyin, and a very small part is Li Xunhuan, because Li is too young. If I say that even if Li Xunhuan is old, I guess Li Xunhuan will do the same thing, because his three views are like this. His three views are in line with the background at that time, but now it is haha, and Li Xunhuan is mainly good-looking. If it were an ugly man, it is probably because ugly people do more trouble! In fact, this was good at the time. Lu You gave his concubine to someone else, but now, a real warrior will not avoid all problems, but will bear the burden and move forward. A real gentleman respects women and is a real friend. He will help you when you make mistakes, just like the person who lends you to copy homework is never your good friend. From the current perspective, Li Xunhuan himself has machismo. There is always a feeling of great sorrow and deep sorrow. In reality, such people can only be friends, but they are happy to be lovers.

Lin Shiyin's situation is indeed better than that of Daiyu, but this is because society is more tolerant of women because of Jianghu, not because she really cares more than Lin Daiyu! First of all, it is undeniable that she was seriously hurt by Li Xunhuan - even if it was the man's fault, breaking off the engagement was a very serious and terrible thing for a woman. Her parents were both dead and she had no elders to take care of her. Although she was not completely helpless for her life, without talking about anything else, just socializing and so on, she was destined to be completely helpless and desperate after being abandoned by Li Xunhuan! Not to mention that Li Xunhuan had other arrangements, not to mention that Li Xunhuan's choice was to taint himself and make Lin Shiyin give up on him, etc., Li Xunhuan's behavior was only one thing: he didn't want to marry Lin Shiyin! He is going to regret his marriage! This is the truth! Some people say that Long Xiaoyun, haha, not to mention anything else, the original work clearly states that Li Xunhuan is forty and Long Xiaoyun is fifty-two. Even if there is a little time gap in between, it is enough to show that Long Xiaoyun is at least ten years older than Li Xunhuan, and Lin Shiyin is Li Xunhuan's cousin! To be honest, even if Long Xiaoyun didn't know about the engagement, he would still be too shameless to propose to Lin Shiyin! Her age alone is enough to prove that she is definitely not a good match! Lin Shiyin didn't want Li Xunhuan to be too involved with Jianghu. Could it be that Long Xiaoyun wasn't from Jianghu? It can be seen that when he did this, he never really considered Lin Shiyin's happiness. Putting aside the author's analysis, if Long Xiaoyun really didn't know that he was a good person, how would he cope when he learned that he had robbed his sworn brother's fiancée? He is completely ashamed of himself; if he is still happy knowing that he has robbed his fiancée, haha, how can such a scumbag be entrusted with him for the rest of his life? In fact, as long as the environment with a strong temperament is not tolerant, Lin Shiyin will probably be forced to death by Li Xunhuan, otherwise he will have to become a monk; not to mention Long Xiaoyun, if he is not a scum, he may also have to commit suicide. This was the choice given by Li Xunhuan. Not to mention considering Long Xiaoyun's life, this was what brought him to a complete end. The reason he didn't commit suicide was actually because he was a scumbag, so he cheated his cousin! Some people say that Lin Shiyin is also responsible for her unfortunate married life. I sigh - if it were you who didn't really love Li Xunhuan, would you be able to live happily with Long Xiaoyun? ! Long Xiaoyun is a scumbag! He was definitely not just sorry for Li Xunhuan. From his teachings to Long Xiaoyun and from the hypocrites he befriended, his true face could be seen. How could Lin Shiyin live well with him? Lin Shiyin and Li Xunhuan are indeed not close friends, just as Lin Shiyin concealed the "Lianhua Treasure Book" (I don't understand why she stopped Li Xunhuan from finding a disciple for Wang Lianhua, and she didn't let Li Xunhuan practice on his own). Some people think that Lin Shiyin actually thought that Li Xunhuan might be the Plum Blossom Thief but didn't believe him. But I think Lin Shiyin's biggest mistake was that she once believed in him too much, so that she had no way out after being abandoned by him. The real Plum Blossom Thief is Lin Xian'er, Lin Shiyin's sworn sister (I suddenly felt that Li Xunhuan and Lin Shiyin were childhood sweethearts who grew up together, and both specifically sought out scumbags to be sworn friends to). There is no doubt that Lin Shiyin must have recognized Lin Xianer's character, so her vision... Ahem. Before actually encountering Li Xunhuan's betrayal, would Lin Shiyin have thought that he was the kind of scumbag who could even let his fiancée go? She was Li Xunhuan's fiancée, and she was not a concubine who could be bought or sold. How could he do that? ! The hatred of seizing his wife is a hatred that can be compared with the hatred of killing his father. If Li Xunhuan does such a thing, his credibility with Lin Shiyin has been ruined! Of course Lin Shiyin shouldn't trust people like him! Many people think that Li Xunhuan is a warm man, but in fact, on the contrary, he is gentle to others and never respects him. For example, in the beginning, he directly excluded A Fei from the relationship. Although he was afraid that the other party would be implicated, he did not respect A Fei's own choices. He is such a person who does what he thinks is good for the other person but does not consider the other person's true wishes. In fact, he is a bit "bullying the weak and afraid of the strong". Like A Fei, who directly checks and helps him, then he has no choice but to accept. But if like Lin Shiyin, because "Li Xunhuan is for his own good", he weakly obeys even if it is not the life he wants, which will lead to tragedy. In fact, Lin Shiyin is not as weak as some people think, otherwise she would not be able to take care of the child by herself after Long Xiaoyun's accident, but in some aspects she is still a bit...

As far as the whole story is concerned, it is not entirely Li Xunhuan's fault. This does not mean that he is not at fault. The author is blaming those who seek pleasure in black plums, but the author is not in the dark poetry of black trees. There was not even a single word to explain Li Xunhuan's fault. He is black and you are black, who is right and who is wrong? Li Xunhuan can be a friend, but not a husband. Lin Shiyin can be a wife, but not a confidant.