Lu You (1125--1210), a poet of the Southern Song Dynasty, (ziwuguan, nicknamed Fangweng) was a native of Shanyin, Yuezhou (now Shaoxing, Zhejiang). In 1144 (the fourteenth year of Shaoxing reign of Emperor Gaozong of the Song Dynasty), he married his cousin Tang Wan (named Huixian, Yuyao, Ningbo, 1126--1151). However, Logan was kicked out of the house the next year.
Reference to historical materials: First reason: 'He did not follow the wishes of his mother and wife, and his parents were afraid that he would be lazy in his studies, so they condemned his wife; second reason: Tang Wan was expelled because of her infertility. Forced by social factors to carry on the family line, they are also victims of feudal ethics.
Lu You's father, "Lu Zai" (a doctor invited by the imperial court, direct secret pavilion), took pity on Tang Wan and planned to hide the affair from his mother and the Red Mansion for his son. Tang Wan became increasingly desperate in the Red Mansion and pitied Lu You for being hurt and begged for help. However, Lu You's love grew stronger and he decided to invite his father-in-law (Tang Cheng) to mediate. However, to no avail, the in-laws broke up. Lu You arrived, but the building was empty, and he was trapped both internally and externally. Love and hate were intertwined, so he wrote a brocade book to Tang Wan, writing, "Acacia is tender and green every year, and the best time is three years in spring." However, before the letter was sent, a servant handed the letter to his mother, so the Tang family changed "three" to "hundred" and sent it to the Tang family. After reading it, Tang Cheng was so angry that he remarried his daughter to Lu's good friend Zhao Shicheng, the eldest son of the same county.
The three-year period has expired. Lu You went to Shen Yuan for an appointment, only to find that Tang Wan had married someone else. He also learned the truth from Tang Wan's maid. At this time, Lu You had mixed feelings, so he went to the pink wall of Shen Garden to write down his last song of the millennium, "The Hairpin-headed Phoenix"...