One Thought Away from Madness

I bought this physical book and read it many times. This book is really good, but my favorite part is Brother Qian's chapter.

There is an old saying that once you make a mistake, you will regret it for eternity, and if you look back, it will be a hundred years old. In everyone's life, there are countless thoughts that keep passing through. Certain thoughts make people act irrationally. When I look back, I realize that I have chosen a completely different path and am drifting away from you. The love between Xin Hui and Gu Chengliang was riddled with holes under various thoughts. Gu Chengliang's problem is that his decision-making speed is too slow. As Xin Hui said, you have seven years to do something, but you have to do it when it is beyond recognition. Many things and many people have to happen and appear at the right time to get the right ending. If you miss it, it will no longer be perfect. I have to say that men need to be a little domineering when facing women. Women, on the other hand, need wisdom when facing relationships and life. Xin Hui ended well. All the girls who don't understand Xin Hui, either you are too happy or you are too young. At the age of twenty, the most important thing for a woman is love. But when we have been in love for seven years, we turn around and suddenly find that love is no longer what it was at the beginning. What was it like at first? A man will treat you like a treasure, consider your emotions, take you out to eat, and accompany you to buy the beautiful clothes and jewelry you want. And what are you like? I feel sorry for him and treat him like a treasure. I want to make delicious food for him, and just want to hear him say, "It's delicious." But now? Are you still in the mood to treat him as a treasure, and do you have the patience to cook him a meal of food he loves? Is he still top of your mind? Of course, when you can't do this for him, he will no longer do it for you. A thirty-year-old woman wants more than just love. Xin Hui left Gu Chengliang, and Gu's mother had a considerable part of the responsibility. Some people say that Xin Hui did not try hard to get close to Gu Chengliang's family. In fact, as will be seen later, Gu Chengliang also did not try to make good friends with Xin Hui's parents. Gu Chengliang is immature in this regard, or in other words, he has not really considered marriage with Xin Hui. Therefore, his tragedy stems from his character. A woman's first love is so important. Every woman hopes that she can enter into marriage with her beloved with the approval and blessing of both parents. Xin Hui couldn't face Mama Gu being unkind to her, which was different from how she tolerated Mama Yu later. The relationship between Xin Hui and Yu Baqian is the love of adults. At the beginning of this kind of love, there are many factors mixed in, and Duoduo is the first to bear the brunt. As a mother, when Xin Hui was thinking about the next marriage, she was partly thinking about Duoduo. She hopes Duoduo has a complete family. When she learned that Duoduo was not Yu Baiqian's child, her first thought was to leave and live a good life with Duoduo. At this time, if it weren't for Yu Baiqian's domineering attitude, she would probably have returned to Yancheng, and she might even have another dispute with Gu Chengliang. I believe that if this child is Gu Chengliang's, then she will most likely marry Gu Chengliang in the end, and Gu's mother will no longer be at odds with her because of this grandson. This is a woman who has children. She is no longer pure and cannot be selfish. In other words, she can be very selfish for the sake of her children. At this time, Xin Hui completed the transformation from a girl to a mother. The author's writing is very real and touching. Especially when she and Yu Baiqian had two children, Gu Chengliang became the cinnabar in her heart. At this time, whether she, Yu Baqian, or even Tang Xiaoyue, Shen Hongguang, who was almost forty years old, entered a completely different realm. No matter how much love and hate you had when you were young, it gradually no longer matters. Living is better than anything else. Our love will eventually turn into a greeting: "How are you lately?"

After the seven-year itch, they ended up not being together. Gu Chengliang and Xin Hui, one is a fox and the other is a rabbit. The fox fell in love with the rabbit, but the rabbit had a new friend. It's just passive, it doesn't mean that you don't love. But the person who took the initiative in the first place no longer loves him. Xin Hui and Yu Baiqian are finally happy, but from beginning to end, one person's performance is full of tragedy. Gu Chengliang loves Xin Hui, but he is just passive and becomes crazy at the thought. In the end, he and she could only separate, and their thoughts became empty. At the beginning of the story, there are flaws in his love with her because of his mother. His mother didn't like Xin Hui, she didn't like her from the first sight. I think his mother must have said more than once or twice that Gu Chengliang should leave Xinhui. However, Gu Chengliang did not agree. The conflict escalated when Gu Chengliang brought Xin Hui to his home, but his mother did not welcome Xin Hui. But Gu Chengliang persisted, but she relented. This was the second time Xin Hui met Gu's mother, and the two didn't even have a serious conversation. Mother Gu doesn't like her, but there is something called "Sincerity leads to gold and stone." But Xin Hui did nothing, not even half an effort. When she gave herself to Gu Chengliang in the inn, she was thinking that they might have no future, so at this moment, she indulged herself. After seven years of relationship, she didn't make any effort to deal with his mother's dislike. She said that they might be forced to break up. At this time, I was thinking that Xin Hui didn't love Gu Chengliang enough. Later, another contradiction arose due to equipment problems. When Xin Hui left, she said, Gu Chengliang, you don't love me as much as I do. Gu Chengliang said, that's not the case. Xin Hui gave up her job for Gu Chengliang and came to him alone. Gu Chengliang refused the temptation for her and would rather take out a loan than give up on her. He has done so much for her, Shen said, showing a happy smile. Her smile was uglier than crying. She said that she caused his family to owe a lot of debt. Will his family treat her? Yes, his family won't treat her well. However, compared to Gu Chengliang, she couldn't even try to communicate with his family. At this time, I was thinking that Xin Hui was not as loved as Gu Chengliang. Xin Hui betrayed him, but he didn't mention it at all. Yes, Xin Hui is for his equipment. But there should be another reason. She doesn't hate Yu Baiqian, and may even like him vaguely. Just because he was in the flowers, she didn't dare to give her heart. Xin Hui should have thought that when she gave it to Yu Baiqian, she and Gu Chengliang could only break up. She couldn't let go of her seven-year relationship, but that might not be love anymore. Gu Chengliang forgave Xin Hui and said that as long as she aborted the child, they could start over. However, a knot has been tied. Xin Hui is right, they will not be happy if they continue. Gu Chengliang was a cuckold, but said he could forget it. This is really too much love, so you can exceed your own bottom line again and again. At this time, it was a foregone conclusion that Gu Chengliang and Xin Hui broke up. If you think of it, you will become crazy, if you don't think of it, it will become empty. Because of encephalitis, he temporarily forgot about their breakup, but she said that they had broken up. Yes, if we can't be together anymore, don't let him be happy in vain. Later, Gu Chengliang went to chase Xin Hui. He said that they were going to a place where they were alone. He loved her, so he was crazy enough to fantasize about the last possibility. He didn't speak, he already understood. He told her to go or he would drag her to her death. Yes, he has been driven crazy by love. At this time, Xin Hui had given up on him. Reality was reality and she had accepted it. Therefore, he is her passerby. Gu Chengliang and Xin Hui can only be tragedies. Because of the obstruction of reality, because she gradually fell out of love. The rabbit has a new friend, the fox... If you think of it, you will become crazy, if you don't think of it, it will become empty. At the end of the story, Gu Chengliang couldn't sleep. Yu Baiqian said that he had become a thorn in Xin Hui's heart. Gu Chengliang got married, but in the end, he still loved Xin Hui. He still preserves every bit of the past. His wife said he was stupid. Yes, Gu Chengliang is so stupid! He still thinks about a woman who no longer loves him, unable to find a new life. Xin Hui is Gu Chengliang's first love. The so-called first love is unforgettable, but it is so unforgettable. It's also the best to fall asleep, without having to look at her that she doesn't belong to him, without having to face such a cruel reality. After reading this story, I felt a lot. There is no perfect match for love, everything needs to be tempered. Love does not have smooth sailing all the way, it all needs to be faced together and work together to make progress. There is no right or wrong in love. If you don't love it anymore, leave it. If you are tired, let it go. Gu Chengliang and Xin Hui are not a natural match. She has her own ideas, but he doesn't take the initiative. After seven years of getting along, they couldn't get along and finally separated. The relationship between Gu Chengliang and Xin Hui was not going smoothly. She did not face it with him, so he had to let her go. There is no right or wrong between Gu Chengliang and Xin Hui. When she is tired, there is nothing better than letting go. Reality can always tear beauty into pieces. If you think of it, you will become crazy, if you don't think of it, it will become empty. If you love, you will become crazy, if you don't love, you will become a mole.

I did it again after many years.

I don't know why I thought of Brother Qian when I came to the studio to make tea today. I reviewed it again in the afternoon and was still so moved. Brother Qian still has that tenderness in his heart. Although there has been less contact in the past two years, I still wish you happiness, Mengmeng! I hope we can all get the life we ​​want to pursue!

This book is really good. I read it in one sitting. I was so confused about the love between Xin Hui and Gu Chengliang. Especially when Gu's online name was Waiting Fox, I felt extremely uncomfortable. The male protagonist Yu has a very good character and is the standard version of a successful person. Not everyone can wait for seven years. In the United States, I can say that I love the female protagonist to the core. She doesn't express it deliberately, but it can be seen in the male protagonist's usual style. The main character loves the heroine, and Xin Hui is happy. Although there is no description of how beautiful she is, she is really lucky to have two excellent men in love with her. The heroine's style is clean and tidy, breaking things off at the drop of a hat, and having a baby under her body is also weird. Emotionally, it's pretty good that the relationship is not broken. The ending is a bit sad. After all, Gu is the second male lead that I like very much. It makes me breathless for a few days. It's more realistic. Hey, it's just too miserable to be entangled with Gu. Give the author a big thumbs up?, Come on.

After watching it, it is very real and beautiful.

I searched for thousands of modern novels in Jinjiang, and I can only count a few of them. This one, as well as "Wandering into the Glitz" and "Reluctant Heart", the author has a rich understanding and experience of real life, and the portrayal of the character's heart is accurate, but they all have a common characteristic, that is, they are inseparable from the high, rich, handsome and official. It is also a true portrayal of today's impetuous society. I really hope that the author can really penetrate into the lives of ordinary people. Love is actually a kind of value, and there is no high or low. But the inner world of people who believe in love must be rich and noble, and has nothing to do with material things. There is no nonsense in this novel. It is about the relationship between love and material things. To be honest, sometimes great love has to hesitate in the face of small material interests, because it is everyone's right to live a better life. When I reach middle age, I sometimes wonder, what is the difference between love at the age of twenty and love at the age of forty? That is, what you want at the age of twenty is a pounding heart, while what you want at the age of forty is a steady flow. Some people also say that true love is when he sees you at the age of eighteen when he is in his twenties. When he sees you at the age of eighty, you are still the eighteen-year-old you in his eyes.

It's hard enough for people in reality. Just give Gu Chengliang a happy life!

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