It's not about the quantity, it's about the quality. The further you go, the more different your values become, and there will be friends who slowly fade out of your sight, and who no longer have contact with you at all. Real friends don't need to keep in touch. When friends who haven't seen each other for several years meet by chance, the intimacy will return naturally after being stunned for a moment. The friend you talk to every day may deliberately leave you one day for various reasons. Sometimes it's because of jealousy, sometimes it's because of your mediocrity. Everyone experiences losing friendships and winning new friendships throughout their lives. We should cherish the friends who remain with us, but even if they leave, we only need to wish them well. I am fortunate to gain it, but I will lose my life. Sometimes leaving temporarily does not mean leaving forever. Similarly, what exists now does not mean that it will always be there. Life is spent in gatherings and separations.
I would like to say that basically everyone has faced the problem you are facing. Of course, some people have a wide network of friends. Even if they lose contact with their friends, they may not feel it very much, but they will still have it to some extent.
However, many times there are not only subjective reasons, but also objective reasons. My classmates in school, after you graduate, your values have also changed. The seats around you are limited, and people come and go. Some people want to come in, and some people naturally leave. This is all normal, and you gradually become numb. Of course, it is also necessary to keep in touch with friends, but I want to say that even if some people are neglected because of their busy studies and work, you will still be close to each other when you see them again. Therefore, life is a process of removing the false and retaining the true, which will always help you keep the most important people.
After working, you will get to know many colleagues, but colleagues may be more alienated than your classmates and playmates due to work relationships, but according to personal experience, you can still find good friends. You should put the matter of marriage aside, and don't care about others asking, just keep a thick face. Finding a partner is such a personal matter, only you know whether it is good or not. However, if relatives and friends introduce you, you can open up and give it a try. However, finding a partner for marriage is not the ultimate goal. The ultimate goal is to make yourself happier.
There are less opportunities to get to know small counties, and I don't know much about your personal situation. However, if it were me, I might stay in the city where I went to school and give it a try, and there would be more opportunities.
Your "Little Palace Maid" is about the growth of a low-status palace maid. I feel that you should understand these principles very well. Let me give you some suggestions based on the experience of someone who has been there. Maybe a lot of what I said is wrong, but I sincerely hope that you can do better, come on! O(∩_∩)O
It's not about the quantity, it's about the quality. The further you go, the more different your values become, and there will be friends who slowly fade out of your sight, and who no longer have contact with you at all. Real friends don't need to keep in touch. When friends who haven't seen each other for several years meet by chance, the intimacy will return naturally after being stunned for a moment. The friend you talk to every day may deliberately leave you one day for various reasons. Sometimes it's because of jealousy, sometimes it's because of your mediocrity. Everyone experiences losing friendships and winning new friendships throughout their lives. We should cherish the friends who remain with us, but even if they leave, we only need to wish them well. I am fortunate to gain it, but I will lose my life. Sometimes leaving temporarily does not mean leaving forever. Similarly, what exists now does not mean that it will always be there. Life is spent in gatherings and separations.
I would like to say that basically everyone has faced the problem you are facing. Of course, some people have a wide network of friends. Even if they lose contact with their friends, they may not feel it very much, but they will still have it to some extent. However, many times there are not only subjective reasons, but also objective reasons. My classmates in school, after you graduate, your values have also changed. The seats around you are limited, and people come and go. Some people want to come in, and some people naturally leave. This is all normal, and you gradually become numb. Of course, it is also necessary to keep in touch with friends, but I want to say that even if some people are neglected because of their busy studies and work, you will still be close to each other when you see them again. Therefore, life is a process of removing the false and retaining the true, which will always help you keep the most important people. After working, you will get to know many colleagues, but colleagues may be more alienated than your classmates and playmates due to work relationships, but according to personal experience, you can still find good friends. You should put the matter of marriage aside, and don't care about others asking, just keep a thick face. Finding a partner is such a personal matter, only you know whether it is good or not. However, if relatives and friends introduce you, you can open up and give it a try. However, finding a partner for marriage is not the ultimate goal. The ultimate goal is to make yourself happier. There are less opportunities to get to know small counties, and I don't know much about your personal situation. However, if it were me, I might stay in the city where I went to school and give it a try, and there would be more opportunities. Your "Little Palace Maid" is about the growth of a low-status palace maid. I feel that you should understand these principles very well. Let me give you some suggestions based on the experience of someone who has been there. Maybe a lot of what I said is wrong, but I sincerely hope that you can do better, come on! O(∩_∩)O