The Third Kind of Love

The story was finally completed. That afternoon, the weather was surprisingly beautiful. I posted the ending and published it. After that, I suddenly felt lost. If everyone is waiting for the development of this story and is concerned about it, then, as the initiator of this story, I am even more concerned about it day and night. Your constant expectations give me great encouragement. Of course, there is pressure. Otherwise, I would not have the courage to continue this story. Really, Lin Qizheng and Zou Yu are like living in my heart, and love is in my heart. It is such a cruel thing to separate them from life to life. Actually, I had another choice as to how to end it. Just write it like this, write it slowly, write about this love, twisting and turning in reality, giving birth to countless thorns, and finally ending without any problem, like a burned out candle. Maybe that is more realistic. However, I really can't bear it. They are so good, so why not just stop it and leave a lasting thought. In fact, the ending is not important. What I want to convey is that if you are Zou Yu, if you encounter such a thing, how should you choose? You can see the reality, but you pretend not to see it. You can estimate the future, but you pretend you can't. A moment of pleasure will never last forever. In this love, Lin Qizheng has always been passive. Although he loves, although he loves very much, he has no control over the situation. It is Zou Yu who decides, decides to advance, decides to retreat, decides the beginning and the end. Why is this happening? Because Lin Qizheng's original intention was to make Zou Yu his lover. His love has a bottom line, and he doesn't have the courage to give up everything to be with Zou Yu. He stood upstairs and told Zou Yu that he didn't have the courage to jump to her side, that's what he meant. He didn't want to die, but giving up his career would mean overturning his life. From another perspective, if he really wanted to be with Zou Yu, he could do it. Instead of doing it, he went on step by step because that was the mainstream state of his life. Without that mainstream, he couldn't love anymore. In reality, almost all men are like this. Therefore, Lin Qizheng hoped to use money to make up for everything, but he also realized that Zou Yu did not accept this trick. He lost his sense of security because of this. Lin Qi Zheng had always been insecure in this relationship, so he would be frightened. He couldn't give Zou Yu what he wanted, and Zou Yu would give it to him with disdain. Before he got married, the dispute between the two was based on this. The cuteness of Zou Yu is that she has always been sober and rational. Although this love started irrationally, she always gave and received with dignity throughout the process. The tragedy of Zou Yu is that she was not rational enough and chose to start hastily after being moved. Therefore, women are either stupid enough or smart enough. This intermediate state is only harmful to others. In fact, they are all selfish, so is Lin Qizheng, and so is Zou Yu. If he were not selfish, Lin Qi Zhengda could give up business and marriage and be with Zou Yu. If Zou Yuda is not selfish, he can have no self-respect, ask for nothing in return, and just be the woman behind Lin Qizheng. Precisely because they don't give enough, they will still have conflicts after being sweet, and they will only become more and more conflicts. But, I think, this is the true nature of human beings, right? Don't ask for too much. If there really is Lin Qizheng and Zou Yu in reality, they should be getting along in the same way, consuming each other, and gradually separating while waiting. Someone asked me why Lin Qizheng fell in love with Zou Yu. I thought that Zou Yu had something that Lin Qizheng did not have. For example, she treats life calmly, without being pretentious or evasive, and she becomes more courageous with every setback. In contrast, Lin Qizheng is repressed, restrained, and self-enclosed. Therefore, Zou Yu attracts him. The more he resists, the more attracted he becomes. What attracts Zou Yu to Lin Qizheng is, of course, as I write, I also fall in love with Lin Qizheng. This man is restrained, quiet, indifferent to emotions and anger, deeply in love, but silently giving in and tolerating. He considers her feelings and respects her choice. He is not aggressive, so it is even more touching. One of my favorite scenes is when Zou Yu stood on the side of the road, looking at Lin Qizheng sitting in Starbucks, with a calm posture, and the sun shining on him made him shine a little. At this time, Zou Yu was so moved that I was also moved. ——Beautiful. There was also the phone call after the first breakup. His shirt was tangled around his ankles. He said on the phone that even if he dialed the wrong number, we could still talk. Yes, how can you refuse such love? So, what's very interesting here is that when I wrote this story, many times, I didn't think about the plot in advance, I just followed them and watched the story unfold slowly by itself. So, while I was writing, I was moved by them. Yes, there are many people's shadows in this story, many people's mental journeys, and many people can use this to reflect on their own past. This is also my original intention. I don't want to just write a romantic love story for everyone to sigh and then forget. I hope it can make everyone think of something after reading it. In reality, there are countless Lin Qi Zhengs, maybe not as handsome as him, not as affectionate as him, but when he approaches you, the feeling of your heart is the same. He will also try his best to love you and love you with all his heart. But, is love enough? Can you just ignore everything? Zuo Hui is a symbol here. When Zou Yu was betrayed by him, Zou Yu thought he was unforgivable. But when Zou Yu also intervened in other people's feelings, she and Zuo Hui gained a new understanding and even became trustworthy friends. Therefore, a relationship can be viewed from different angles and judged differently. It's hard to say what's wrong or right. I think that when love comes, it actually leaves ample opportunities for each of us to make choices sometimes. Just like Zou Yu, she has done multiple-choice questions many times. Many times before, she chose correctly. But that time in Sanya, she was willing to be wrong. So, if we make the wrong choice, there is nothing we can do about it. You can only persist slowly, and when you can't persist, just walk away. Zuo Hui is right, you should leave yourself some room. In fact, this is not a weakness. Except for the woman who is waiting in love, no one will think that this relationship is worth a young talent giving up a great career and future. Lin Qizheng did nothing wrong, he just wanted to get the best of both worlds. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with the men in our lives who have loved us. They also want the best of both worlds. It's a pity that the night is short, and there are a few women who can regard their promises as faith. Or, it's a pity that things are fickle, and there are a few men who can really fulfill their promises into reality. There should be no continuation. At least that's what I've decided now. Sorry. Let you down. The reason why I wrote "Lin Qi Zheng That Day" is to give everyone and myself an explanation. Love won't fade away so quickly, especially when the two of them were so good and ended so suddenly. I must have missed him. I could see the way Lin Qizheng was sitting in the dark, the way blood seeped out from the wound, and his slightly frowning and sad look. However, life does not always have the opportunity to look back. How could it be so easy to renew our relationship? The person you love and the person you sleep with are not the same person. This is a common thing. It is common to tell others about your love for her. It is also common to think about the future and plan for the future, but the future will never appear. So, I said, a person's life, sometimes, just like this, gradually ends. Don't blame me for being too cruel. Basically, this kind of love will end in the same way. This is an analysis of the author I found online. I kept crying when I just finished reading it. What were I crying about? Is the crying hero unhappy? Is the sister of the crying heroine dead? No, it's why people who love each other can't be together. It's why people who love each other can't stay together. But what if that's not love. As the author said, the male protagonist never takes the initiative and does so many seemingly affectionate things, but he does not have the courage to walk up to the female protagonist. Why? Because he knows that he cannot give the heroine a future. Those so-called three-year agreements were to give the heroine hope and also to give herself goals. Otherwise, she would not be able to convince herself that she would trap the heroine even though she knew there was no future. Thinking about it this way, I think this ending is actually he, because the heroine tasted the taste of love (this is what all women pursue), the hero got the fame and fortune he wanted, and even had a relationship that he didn't dare to ask for before entering marriage. The heroine's sister also died well (she was so crazy that she linked her name to the hero forever), so, it's good, under the gaze of those cafes, the newly built overpass collapsed when the hero said to the heroine I love you too in the last chapter. We all talk about the future, as if what we say will come true. Without the present, where would the future be? There is no deep love that lasts forever. It just depends on whether the time is long enough and whether the temptation is big enough.

The author is great. When I first read this novel, I was as old as Zou Tian. Now I am older than Zou Yu. I don't know how many times I have repeated it in the past ten years, especially the radio drama, I don't know how many times I have listened to it. The characters you portrayed are full of charisma.

It's totally possible to write a sequel. If Zou Yue dies, it doesn't mean that Zou Yu dies. Please write a sequel to keep them together.

The story from 2007 is still relevant now

The first time I read this story must have been more than ten years ago. At that time, I thought it was a really attractive storyline. Now that I read it again, I suddenly understood the author's description of their psychology. Over the years, I have experienced similar scenes and feelings. Some things can only be like this.

It's so sad. Some people use up all their energy just to meet you. I always thought the result was important, but now I think the process is also important.

This book really impressed me because I rarely read BE articles. But when I finished reading, I just felt endless aftertaste When I was a child, I was more powerless. I never thought that two people who loved each other so much could not be together. Especially Lin Qi Zheng already had enough wealth and power. I was deeply caught up in the charm of Lin Qi Zheng. I felt happy and even "honored" that Zou Yu could have his love with regret. I thought at that time that if it were me, I must not let Lin Qi Zheng go. I must be with him. More than ten years have passed and I discovered that the author really understands reality and human nature. Lin Qizheng is hard to find in the world. There are many such happy and commensurate marriages in the world. Love or not is not that important 🥺

Many years ago, I liked this novel very much, and it was a pity that the hero and heroine could not end up together. After the movie version came out, I always refused to watch it because I was afraid that the actors would not perform well. I watched it last night. The appearance was OK and it was in line with the setting in the book. However, the two of them really failed to embody the male and female protagonist's forbearance and restraint in this love in the book and their mutual attraction and irresistibility. Therefore, after watching the movie, I couldn't wait to read the novel again. After more than ten years of reflection, I found that I could finally understand the power of Zou Yue's words, "I'll jump from you to him and put an end to your relationship." Yes, if the love between two people is intertwined with the blood of their loved ones, no matter how passionate the love is, it will change its flavor. Even though Zou Yu knew that she was not responsible for her sister's death, Lin Qizheng did not make any mistakes. So this game is a dead end. Even if you love deeply for a lifetime, it can only be engraved in the bottom of your heart.

"So far, each has his or her own world, but we are still ignoring each other. We are the best example." I couldn't calm down for a long time.

I read it more than ten years ago and reread it many times. It is a book that impressed me the most. I only felt regretful before, but now I only feel it is reasonable. This is their best ending.