The Auspicious Hairpin

I still feel that Lu Feng and Second Miss Shen are quite selfish. Even if they pursue freedom and ideals, they cannot cover up the selfishness of such people. Since Lu Feng could ignore ethics and run away from home, why didn't he dare to be more deviant and go to the door in person to explain the reasons and insist on breaking off the engagement? Since he dared to want freedom and revolutionary ideals, why didn't he dare to be more responsible and handle the engagement himself? Why do we have to avoid leaving the mess to others, or in the name of our own freedom? No matter in which era, people who only care about their own temporary happiness but leave endless pain to others are selfish and shameful. Lu Feng kept talking about who we are as soul mates. The price of this soul mate was more than ten years of hard support from relatives. Shen Da has his own personal tragedy. But I dare to ask Lu Feng. As the eldest son, he ran away recklessly and was not heard from for decades. If Miss Shen hadn't stayed behind to support the Lu family's business for decades, serving her parents-in-law, raising her younger brother, and uniting the Lu family, would you, Lu Feng, still be able to sit in the Lu house and miss the past of the Lu family? During this difficult time for the Lu and Shen families, Shen Dali was responsible for all the household chores. To put it bluntly, the person Shen Da felt most sorry for in her life was herself, and the people who felt most sorry for her were Lu Feng and his wife. Shen Da is an outsider, but she has shouldered responsibilities that she should not have shouldered. Although this is regrettable, the entire fault should not be placed on this woman. Those who throw away their own responsibilities and those who take over responsibilities that are not theirs are both at fault, but Lu Feng and his wife are more at fault. I don't think Lu Feng and his wife are innocent. A truly virtuous pioneer should first shoulder his responsibilities, not to sacrifice freedom and revolutionary ideals for his family, but to handle disputes and responsibilities before heading to the new world, and not to harm innocent people for his own reasons. After all, before you say "we are soul mates", please think clearly that you are not innocent.

I still feel that Lu Feng and Second Miss Shen are quite selfish. Even if they pursue freedom and ideals, they cannot cover up the selfishness of such people. Since Lu Feng could ignore ethics and run away from home, why didn't he dare to be more deviant and go to the door in person to explain the reasons and insist on breaking off the engagement? Since he dared to want freedom and revolutionary ideals, why didn't he dare to be more responsible and handle the engagement himself? Why do we have to avoid leaving the mess to others, or in the name of our own freedom? No matter in which era, people who only care about their own temporary happiness but leave endless pain to others are selfish and shameful. Lu Feng kept talking about who we are as soul mates. The price of this soul mate was more than ten years of hard support from relatives. Shen Da has his own personal tragedy. But I dare to ask Lu Feng. As the eldest son, he ran away recklessly and was not heard from for decades. If Miss Shen hadn't stayed behind to support the Lu family's business for decades, serving her parents-in-law, raising her younger brother, and uniting the Lu family, would you, Lu Feng, still be able to sit in the Lu house and miss the past of the Lu family? During this difficult time for the Lu and Shen families, Shen Dali was responsible for all the household chores. To put it bluntly, the person Shen Da felt most sorry for in her life was herself, and the people who felt most sorry for her were Lu Feng and his wife. Shen Da is an outsider, but she has shouldered responsibilities that she should not have shouldered. Although this is regrettable, the entire fault should not be placed on this woman. Those who throw away their own responsibilities and those who take over responsibilities that are not theirs are both at fault, but Lu Feng and his wife are more at fault. I don't think Lu Feng and his wife are innocent. A truly virtuous pioneer should first shoulder his responsibilities, not to sacrifice freedom and revolutionary ideals for his family, but to handle disputes and responsibilities before heading to the new world, and not to harm innocent people for his own reasons. After all, before you say "we are soul mates", please think clearly that you are not innocent.

The author's writing is really delicate

When the heroine gets old, she feels that there is no point in being embarrassed. She drags a fake identity to get great blessings from others. Such a woman is just a mouse when she takes off her coat, living a cowardly and humble life.

Whether the heroine is miserable or not is her own fault, and it's not like she has no assets. She might as well leave home and find a place to rest before looking for a future. She couldn't leave because she didn't know how to live without him, so she didn't dare to leave, so she was worried about others gossiping. Suppose a woman with money and insight would be in trouble. The heroine is cowardly because she has little knowledge and dare not leave the Sifangyuan. She cannot live without it.

After reading the entire text, I can only sigh. In any case, people can only live in the context of the big era. Even though this era is more civilized and progressive, there are still so many ambiguities. Just like "Shuhua" in the play, we can only live in the present.

No one is perfect, how can we do everything well? Your writing is so good

The heroine just deserves it. She relies on her fake identity to pretend to be presentable, and it is a joke to end up alone and widowed all her life.

The heroine is so sad. She has created a cage for herself to be trapped in. Therefore, the poor person must be hateful and hate her for being ignorant.

I still stand by Zhen Shuhua and his wife. The tragedy of the heroine is the tragedy of the times. She can blame the Lu family, the Shen family, and society, but the Shuhua couple are innocent. For those who cannot pursue freedom, should we break the wings of those who can? How people who cannot be free should do these things is not something that two young people who can only resist their family by running away from marriage can and should be responsible for.