Men should marry when they come of age, and so should women.
Chen Chen is twenty-eight and facing pressure from her family, but she doesn't dare tell them about her feelings.
She has a lover who has been by her side for many years. Unfortunately, her lover is a woman.
Get married, have children, and carry on the family line.
Chen Chen could get married, but she doesn't want children.
The best solution is a lavender marriage.
A lavender marriage is a colossal lie.
Chen Chen went through with it. Though hers wasn't quite like a typical lavender marriage, she never expected that this marriage would cost her the woman she loved.
What will she do? Three women. Two love stories.
Author's note:
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The first reason why I write this long review is because of my indescribable love for the author. , The second is that this article is really well written, and the third is that I almost committed suicide due to insomnia and crying, so I decided to write some words to ease my mind. How to say it. When I read it for the first time, I was extremely serious. At that time, I had the somewhat naive idea that one can only love one person exclusively. When I saw Xiao Gu cheating on her, I was angry and resentful. Some people may feel soft-hearted after seeing Xiao Gu resigning and trapping himself in a room alone, thinking hard and shutting himself in, while still saying he was waiting for Chen Chen. But when I saw this, I hated it. . . Fuck you, you have to really wait for Chen Chen, don't accept Lao Han's care, what's the matter with you locking yourself up, take care of yourself and wait for Chen Chen, what are you doing when she comes out as gay at home and is in pain at home and is being tested by family and love at home. . You just relied on Lao Han and he wouldn't ignore you. You just relied on your spare tire. Well, later, Chen Chen came out, what were you doing again. . . Besides, you are just using Lao Han like this. You have been aware of her feelings for a long time. Why don't you dare to admit your sexual orientation? You should openly say, "I like women, but thank you, I have no feelings for you. I have a lover." You indulge your affection for her. Also, when you agreed to a physical marriage, you should have thought that you would inevitably be left out and ignored. . . But when you were frustrated, you indulged your affection for Lao Han and suppressed her. . . When the sun rises in the east, I don't dare to take responsibility. . You are lucky because there are two people around you who will never leave you. There are two sentences in the article that say you are absolutely right. Han Yumiao looked into the distance and said softly: "I don't know how good I have to be to her before she will be satisfied.". 812B4ba287f5e Chen Chen was deeply touched and said with a smile: "Children who don't grow up may never understand it in their lifetime. Alas, after saying so much, I burst into tears. I still have so much resentment towards her. . . The author said that this article is her favorite, bar none. I also think it's the writing style, the grasp of the characters, the arrangement of the story clues, and the rendering of the atmosphere. The writing is not too beautiful, but more realistic and based on feelings. . There is a section about the appearance of Lao Han, the two of them have problems, and there are signs that Xiao Gu is going to cheat. At that time, after chasing chapter by chapter, I had already guessed that she would cheat, but the author just refused to announce this chapter. I remember that I was so angry at the time that I almost beat myself twice like King Kong, and yelled, "Hurry up and get out." . The strange thing is that I have read a lot of books, but there are very few that make me feel so indignant, hateful, and deeply involved. . Probably due to the struggle of the article, the structure of the characters was too real and made me feel too much. Later, I felt relieved about Xiao Gu, and I tried to let go. After all, we knew too little about love, and the relationship between each other would inevitably lead to love and resentment. Meeting someone when we were complaining made us recall our initial heartbeat and wonder whether we could resist the temptation. . . It's easy to fall in love but hard to get along with each other, and it's even harder to stay together. This is just a complaint, dedicated to the real protagonists in the article, and to us who live as real as possible in reality.
It's very nice, but I just feel like how to solve this knot?
I watched it again, maybe I need to watch it a few more times
The twists and turns of the plot are very real, and the life and the emotions that are painstakingly managed and protected are written down to the last detail. The final plot gives people less realistic hope, but that is the hope of living.
I don't understand what I'm writing at all.
I have read all the novels you have written, and they all give me a very depressing feeling. I don't like any of the characters in your novels. I feel that you are not dedicated to feelings and are hesitant.
When could Ling Bogu talk to Chen Chen about his true feelings instead of being silent and missing again and again when he shouldn't be silent, making the misunderstanding deeper and deeper and more difficult to solve. In the end, the knot seemed to be unsolvable at all, so he had to break it and then build it up. The author directly cut off the dead knot. Ling Bogu is actually an exile of feelings, and he treats feelings in a "deep and superficial way"...
Looking at it, I actually quite dislike Han Yumiao. The tone of the novel is always depressive and entangled from beginning to end, which makes people feel heart-wrenching while watching it. I thought it would be a happy explosion in the end, but it just stopped. As the third party in the relationship, Han is disgusting, but as the loved one, I am speechless. In any case, the pigs' feet finally got together not because of love but because of responsibility. Returning to ordinary life always makes people hold their breath and find it hard to calm down.
Generally speaking, this is still a hopeful article with many temptations, but the relationship between Xiao Gu and Chen Chen is more profound and accumulated over time than the heartbeat for Lao Han.
It didn't last long, but I kept feeling a bit aggrieved while watching it. It seems that many conflicts between them have been kept secret, and their ambiguity with Lao Han has also been kept secret. There are so many bombs in the relationship that one day it will blow up and injure both parties, or three, four, Chen Hao, Xiao Rui, and their parents. Some things are like a layer of window paper. Everyone uses clumsy lies to try to cover it up, but they still try to hide it. Although it is a story, Xiao Gu's four-year experience is an issue that I have always been worried about. Two people are together, everything seems to be fine, and suddenly they are told that the other person is getting married. It is a nightmare. Lies are sharper than truth. Marriage is not a matter of two or four people, it is a matter of family. It is difficult for parents to have the same ideas as us. No matter how much we look forward to it, it's hard not to feel tired. Emotions, apart from the initial flutter, are more of a kind of management, patience, understanding, and mutual adjustment. There are so many novelties out there. Being able to stay together for a lifetime is not just a few words of vows, nor is it the blind dedication of one party. It seems that responsibility is also required. If it weren't for Chen Chenai's entanglement, I don't know how she would have faced Lao Han. But it was this entanglement that confused her mind and pushed her lover into someone else's arms. Feelings shouldn't be like this, but no one can tell what feelings should be like. With good communication and good management, why wait until we have gone through thousands of sailings and finally be able to be together again? It is the protagonist's luck. The story ends here, but life continues. A short lesson, I hope everyone can cherish the hard-won fate and precious love.