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Oh my god, I was caught off guard and read an abusive article. It was so well written, but I still wanted to cry. I loved the memories between Bu Ke and Gu Xiyan when they were students. In the end, it was clear that they still loved each other. Although the junior high school was also very good, it was not as unforgettable as Bu Gu. Maybe I still can't understand why Bu Ke regretted not going to Gu Xiyan. Did he just say nothing and let her live alone in a foreign country for three years? I can't let go for a long time...

Booker's two friends, not to mention that you have been with these fools for so long, you have only been with Bu Zhong, and Xiyan has always been abandoned by you two.

I finished reading "Knowable" in just a few days. I have been at a low point recently, feeling frustrated in love. Buke and I are very similar. I love a girl, but I'm not as lucky as Buke. That girl doesn't love me. There is a girl who likes me and is so gentle to me. I am a coward, always escaping, but this time I chose to escape. I chose to believe in time and let time dilute everything. I knew that when I saw her in the contact list, I didn't have too much emotion in my heart. Many people will criticize Bu Ke and call her a scumbag, but it is difficult to choose between two people, especially when there are things like responsibility and guilt mixed in. Only when I become better can I be qualified to talk about love. Love is sometimes a luxury. Even if what I build is just a bunch of junk in the eyes of others, I still believe that what I am building is a castle.

It's uncomfortable, I obviously love Gu, but I can't bear to stay. I hate. I feel bad╯╰I want to cry

Maybe everyone's choice is different! If I were Bu Ke, I would still choose Gu Xiyan, despite being responsible for Xiaozhong and despite all her dedication and love! However, if you don't love, you don't love. You can't force it! Maybe it's a bit selfish! But love is inherently selfish! Besides, being with Xiaozhong, would this make you really happy? I gave up Xiyan, but I still love Xiyan!

Gu Xiyan will always be my favorite

In my heart, I wanted Bu Ke to leave everything behind and be with Gu Xiyan, hoping that those who love each other would be happy. But they missed each other after all. I used to read Xia Da's comics, which said that missing something is not a mistake, it's a past. Gu left Bu Ke for so many years and met again. Gu is still the same Gu Xiyan, but Buke is no longer the Buke that Gu Xiyan loved at the beginning. Gu is unfamiliar with Bu Ke now because they have missed each other for so many years. Bu Ke's life has long been full of traces of another person, from the taste of the food to the meticulous care when getting up every morning. Xiaozhong spent several years bringing herself into Bu Ke's life, and her own life can no longer be separated from Bu Ke. If Bu Ke leaves Xiao Zhong and is with Gu Xiyan, she will feel uneasy. She will always owe Xiao Zhong and have responsibilities. She will no longer be the clear-faced and frank young man. Bu Ke did not let down Xiaozhong, but she failed herself. You'll have to pay it back sooner or later (laughs). As for Lin Bu, I can only say that even if the case is raised, it will be difficult to get rid of it. (I read such a depressing article during the May Day holiday. Only the author's new article can comfort my wounded heart)

Alas, this article is truly unforgettable after reading it. I think this ending is very good. Gu Xiyan left. From the moment she agreed to Bu Ke, she never thought about coming back. After waiting abroad for a few years, she found that Bu Ke did not find her, so she married someone who loved her. She still had Bu Ke in her heart, but only in her heart. She loves Bu Ke, and it is a very realistic love, a very rational love. At first, she hoped that Bu Ke would grow into the best version of herself. Although they had to separate because of reality, I think it is understandable. When they met again later, she wanted to tell her, but after seeing Xiaozhong, she felt relieved. As long as Bu Ke lived a good life, she had no problem. To say that she was wronged, she was indeed wronged, but so what, it was her choice. If she had made everything clear when she met Bu Ke again, then maybe it would have been a perfect ending, because she had nothing to fear at that time. As the saying goes, you can't stand without breaking, but she still lacked a lot of courage. Gu Xiyan was too pessimistic. From the beginning, this pessimistic thinking made her think about the worst outcome in everything, which led to her excessive worries later on. As for Bu Ke, at first she believed what Gu Xiyan said and felt that Gu Xiyan didn't love her and was just paying off her debt. So when she thought about it later, she hated Gu Xiyan. She didn't know Gu Xiyan's difficulties, so it was understandable. Later, when she learned about Gu Xiyan's difficulties, she brought Gu Xiyan to Shanghai. This was right. Why can't two people be together if they love each other? But there is also Lin Xiaozhong. Forced by responsibility, she couldn't bear to be cruel to Lin Xiaozhong, but was it really just because of responsibility? I think not only that, there must be love in it. Lin Xiaozhong has been accompanying her for so many years. At first, it was out of habit. Later, when she found out that Lin Xiaozhong liked her, she was moved. Once she was moved more, she naturally liked her. She didn't owe Lin Xiaozhong anything. Her so-called responsibility was actually that she couldn't let go of Lin Xiaozhong and was worried about leaving Lin Xiaozhong alone in the Lin family, so she agreed to Lin's father's request and signed the contract. This was all her own choice. Later, after I brought Gu Xiyan to Shanghai, I felt that even if nothing happened to her parents, she and Gu Xiyan would not be able to get along well, and there would definitely be twists and turns. Just like Gu Xiyan said, she still loves Bu Ke as before, but Bu Ke no longer loves her as before, and there is another Lin Xiaozhong in Bu Ke's heart. So I feel very good that Bu Ke chose to stay with Lin Xiaozhong in the end, not only because of responsibility, but also because of worry. Just like Bu Ke said at the time, it doesn't mean that she must accept Xiaozhong because he is so good to her. Regardless of what should be said in love, she is such a stubborn person, so she would choose Xiaozhong because she must be in her heart. Moreover, Lin Xiaozhong is such a good person. She can give up anything for Bu Ke. Her love is too humble. She has fallen into the dust for Bu Ke. Fortunately, flowers bloomed in the end. The two of them can live together very well. She will pamper Bu Ke, and Bu Ke is used to being pampered by her. This is the inevitable result of a habit. This is the first time I write a long review, and I give it to Dada. I really think this article is well written. I read it in one go. I am looking forward to Dada's next article (it seems to have been several years).

This ending is really too confusing. I can't understand the author. Isn't it good for people who love each other to be together?

When I read this article seven years ago, I was still a student. I liked the character Gu Xiyan very much, but it was difficult to understand her behavior at the time. Two years after I came out of society, I finally understood it - many of the major choices in the story that could determine Bu Ke's life were made by Gu Xiyan, and Bu Ke was responsible for executing them, except for the ending. Maybe Gu Xiyan is right: Bu Ke will grow up only if he leaves her, and he will know that choices cannot be so willful, and he has to think carefully about many things to see whether he can do it. Throughout the entire text, whether as a teenager or as an adult, Bu Ke confessed to Gu Xiyan, took in Lin Zhiran, went to Shanghai, decided to have a try with Lin Zhiran but then turned around and walked towards Gu Xiyan - many of Bu Ke's decisions were immature. She was thinking about the present, but everyone tried to persuade her to no avail. She was the only one who would listen to Gu Xiyan's words. I used to think that if Bu Ke hadn't sent Gu Xiyan away, she would have taken Gu Xiyan away in the end; but now I don't think so. As the author commented in the penultimate chapter: "Neither of them can do it by carrying the tragedy of others to achieve their own perfection." Even if Gu Xiyan is around, he will probably persuade Bu Ke to stay with Lin Zhiran. By letting her go, I think it shows that Buco has finally grown up and learned that some things can't be decided in a flash. Why did Gu Xiyan let Bu Ke stay? I think the character Gu Xiyan is a person with high moral sense. She accepted Bu Ke's feelings, carefully took Bu Ke away, chose a school for her, let her go to Hong Kong for exchange, and faced Li Pinyan alone to protect her - just like her hope for Bu Ke in Chapter 30: Even if they are not together, she still hopes that Bu Ke can have a complete life. Many people don't approve of her self-righteous choice, but I don't think there's a problem with it. The real beneficiary of everything she did was not herself, and she had no intention of telling Buco if the matter hadn't been exposed. Some people say that she is a pessimist and has never fought for herself. In fact, there are some: on the day she sent the invitation, she originally wanted to tell Bu Ke everything and let Bu Ke take her away, but seeing that Bu Ke had lost his memory and Lin Zhiran was by her side, she forgot about it. With memories accompanying her, she had the strength to go on. It's not that she doesn't fight for herself, but "hoping Bu Ke is well" has become her underlying code. Even if she sacrifices herself, even if Bu Ke doesn't want this result, she will still do it. She is just an ordinary person. She does not have a background like Lin Zhiran, nor is she as smart as Bu Ke. Society would be more tolerant towards such people, but Gu Xiyan does not belong to it, so she does not have the courage to move forward. If one child makes a mistake, everything will be lost. She can only give what she can. This is her love for Bu Ke. Lin Zhiran is actually similar, but the difference is that Lin Zhiran only wants Bu Ke to be by her side; while Gu Xiyan doesn't even ask for this, she just wants Bu Ke to be safe, and it doesn't matter if she doesn't exist. At the end, the author said that Gu Xiyan's wedding is open-ended, and I don't want to discuss the truth or falsehood. The function of this wedding, whether true or false, is to send a message to Bu Ke: I am living a good life, you don't have to worry, just live a good life. As for the ring - like I said, only with the memories accompanying her did she have the strength to move on, so she put on the ring and married the past, which also completely sealed Buco's choice. Ai Gu Xiyan is also the underlying code of Bu Ke. She chose Lin Zhiran and had not contacted Gu Xiyan for three years - because everyone knew, including the readers, that once they contacted her, they would want to see her uncontrollably, so Bu Ke did not dare. This is not only a reflection of growth, but I also think it contains a bit of self-disgust: Bu Ke once said that he ruined everything, including Gu Xiyan's life, his parents' life, Li Pinyan's life, and Lin Zhiran's life. She said that she was a scumbag, but I felt that she was mentally ill at that time, with a heavy sense of guilt and self-loathing, so she wanted to make amends and atone for her sins, but Lin Zhiran didn't want much, but she, her parents couldn't come back, and Gu Xiyan was sent away by her. Would looking for her again ruin her life? Can she still give Gu Xiyan a normal life now? So she made a choice. (To my understanding, being moved does not count as love, so I don't think she stayed because she loved Lin Zhiran.) In essence, Gu Xiyan and Bu are the same type of people: neither of them can do it by carrying the tragedy of others to achieve their own perfection. This kind of ending can be regarded as having a beginning and an end - the beginning of the story is Bu Ke's surprise glance and Gu Xiyan's kiss under the moon; the end of the story is Bu Ke's choice and the ring Gu Xiyan wears. Here, the story ends.