A story about what happens after a heartbreak.
Know that in the cycle of rebirth, love is the root. Desires stir and strengthen the nature of love, and so they keep the cycle of life and death turning.
…Therefore, those who wish to escape death and rebirth and be free of the cycle must first sever their desires and put an end to their longing for love.
--- The Sutra of Perfect Enlightenment
This story depicts the immense, indelible physical and psychological harm that unwed pregnancy and abortion can inflict on women. May all women approach this matter, which wounds both body and heart, with the utmost caution!
Theme:
I only paid attention to the author after reading "Color Has Become Empty". The story of "Luoyang Flowers" is far from satisfactory, the plots are not closely connected, and I had no taste at all from beginning to end. The heroine was not drunk the night she had sex with her senior brother. How could she think she was having an erotic dream? After she learned that she was pregnant, she went to have an abortion without saying a word. She knew that the father of the child was her senior brother, and the pregnancy was not caused by being insulted or forced. She should at least discuss it. If we had to not discuss it, it probably was because we didn't want our senior brother to know. Then why did we tell our senior brother this fact on the first day we returned to the laboratory? I was so hesitant before the abortion, but suddenly couldn't bear the blow after the abortion. I couldn't understand it even more. If I were a senior brother, even if I felt guilty, I would not be able to face her behavior, let alone continue to love her. Finally, I feel that the senior brother has no relationship with Xiaoli, and the heroine has to go abroad to escape even if she doesn't understand it. I don't understand this. If the author only uses this article to warn the world not to make mistakes easily and cause irreversible regrets; then she has overlooked one point, which is that people should be left with a way to survive. If a mistake has been made, active methods should be adopted to make up for it, instead of always escaping like the heroine. In short, the quality of this article is really not good.
Such a sad story that makes me breathless
I take a long breath to cover my tears, lamenting the hardships of people's lives.
Move
I don't like the heroine, but I can understand her actions. From God's perspective, I am always used to criticizing other people's choices, but in fact, judging from life experience, I cannot escape selfishness, weakness and distrust.
Seeing this, I seem to understand why Xiao Nuo still doesn't believe in his senior brother. As mentioned before, although Xiao Li likes to steal other people's boyfriends, she has always been frank and will not deceive Xiao Nuo. Xiao Nuo's life has become a mess since her abortion, and she no longer has the strength to trust her senior brother. When I read it a few years ago, I didn't understand it. Although the author said it was about the physical and mental harm of abortion to women, I didn't read much. One or two chapters passed. The rest was about mother's illness, senior brother's physical infidelity, etc., Which I felt didn't fit the theme. But now I vaguely understand that her abortion has planted a series of causes. The mother's disease is the reason, and perhaps the senior brother's infidelity is also the reason, because the happy and positive side of Xiao Nuo's heart has disappeared. Her pessimism and despair can only bring pain to those around her, creating a cycle of pain. All the pain and despair around her was just because she was stuck in the quagmire and couldn't get out. But this is not a complete tragedy. Xiao Nuo is still alive. She can help other people and get happiness and relief from it.
It turns out that there is no absolute relationship between love and happiness..
Senior brother will go to the United States to find Xiao Nuo... (He can't help it, haha)
After all, senior brother is not with Xiaoli...?
Is this the end? ? ? Isn't it too fast? From a purely novel perspective, the plot of this story has not been developed, it is just an introduction. I watched "The Color Has Become Empty" and then watched this one again. I feel that the author has his own principles for relationships. Two people who are too similar are always like moving clouds and flowing water, facing each other across the sky and cannot be together. The two people who are together must have a certain degree of complementary personality. They don't have to be the person who understands the best, but they must be the most caring and considerate person.
I often comfort myself that life is like sex, I can't resist but can only enjoy it. So enjoy your marriage, your husband, your life, and your happiness. The heroine's setbacks are not enough, and she has not yet understood the true meaning of life.
To be honest, I really don't like the heroine's character.
I only paid attention to the author after reading "Color Has Become Empty". The story of "Luoyang Flowers" is far from satisfactory, the plots are not closely connected, and I had no taste at all from beginning to end. The heroine was not drunk the night she had sex with her senior brother. How could she think she was having an erotic dream? After she learned that she was pregnant, she went to have an abortion without saying a word. She knew that the father of the child was her senior brother, and the pregnancy was not caused by being insulted or forced. She should at least discuss it. If we had to not discuss it, it probably was because we didn't want our senior brother to know. Then why did we tell our senior brother this fact on the first day we returned to the laboratory? I was so hesitant before the abortion, but suddenly couldn't bear the blow after the abortion. I couldn't understand it even more. If I were a senior brother, even if I felt guilty, I would not be able to face her behavior, let alone continue to love her. Finally, I feel that the senior brother has no relationship with Xiaoli, and the heroine has to go abroad to escape even if she doesn't understand it. I don't understand this. If the author only uses this article to warn the world not to make mistakes easily and cause irreversible regrets; then she has overlooked one point, which is that people should be left with a way to survive. If a mistake has been made, active methods should be adopted to make up for it, instead of always escaping like the heroine. In short, the quality of this article is really not good.
Such a sad story that makes me breathless
I take a long breath to cover my tears, lamenting the hardships of people's lives. Move
I don't like the heroine, but I can understand her actions. From God's perspective, I am always used to criticizing other people's choices, but in fact, judging from life experience, I cannot escape selfishness, weakness and distrust.
Seeing this, I seem to understand why Xiao Nuo still doesn't believe in his senior brother. As mentioned before, although Xiao Li likes to steal other people's boyfriends, she has always been frank and will not deceive Xiao Nuo. Xiao Nuo's life has become a mess since her abortion, and she no longer has the strength to trust her senior brother. When I read it a few years ago, I didn't understand it. Although the author said it was about the physical and mental harm of abortion to women, I didn't read much. One or two chapters passed. The rest was about mother's illness, senior brother's physical infidelity, etc., Which I felt didn't fit the theme. But now I vaguely understand that her abortion has planted a series of causes. The mother's disease is the reason, and perhaps the senior brother's infidelity is also the reason, because the happy and positive side of Xiao Nuo's heart has disappeared. Her pessimism and despair can only bring pain to those around her, creating a cycle of pain. All the pain and despair around her was just because she was stuck in the quagmire and couldn't get out. But this is not a complete tragedy. Xiao Nuo is still alive. She can help other people and get happiness and relief from it.
It turns out that there is no absolute relationship between love and happiness.. Senior brother will go to the United States to find Xiao Nuo... (He can't help it, haha)
After all, senior brother is not with Xiaoli...?
Is this the end? ? ? Isn't it too fast? From a purely novel perspective, the plot of this story has not been developed, it is just an introduction. I watched "The Color Has Become Empty" and then watched this one again. I feel that the author has his own principles for relationships. Two people who are too similar are always like moving clouds and flowing water, facing each other across the sky and cannot be together. The two people who are together must have a certain degree of complementary personality. They don't have to be the person who understands the best, but they must be the most caring and considerate person.
I often comfort myself that life is like sex, I can't resist but can only enjoy it. So enjoy your marriage, your husband, your life, and your happiness. The heroine's setbacks are not enough, and she has not yet understood the true meaning of life.
To be honest, I really don't like the heroine's character.