Engagement means commitment and responsibility. However, these two items are by no means the decisive factors that will affect the relationship between the two people. For the relationship between the two to change, it must be due to factors beyond their control. You can't help yourself, and the emotional world is a place where there is no personal will.
And if the relationship between the two people changes, the engagement will only increase the trouble and difficulty of resolving the incident, and increase the harm and grief to the other person.
Therefore, getting engaged is not as good as getting married!
Conception: