A Love Song That Needs No Love

I couldn't let it go for a long time after watching it Suddenly all ties left Jiang Yao. When an asthma attack occurs, what is the meaning of living? So tired... But give Jiang Yao some time, I believe she can survive with her strength. For just a moment, no one could help her.

I don't know why I couldn't calm down for a long time after reading the article. Maybe I just wanted to see how many people really understand marriage. Whether it's Jiang Yao, Zhu Jiayi, or even Wang Zhiwei, why did this triangular affair inside and outside marriage turn into such a mess in the end. In fact, I understand why Jiang Yao has not divorced for a long time. Maybe as many people said, if Jiang Yao had divorced long ago, then she, Wang Zhiwei, and Zhu Jiayi would not have ended up like that. But people who have never experienced marriage may really not understand it, but after experiencing marriage, you will understand why Jiang Yao wanders cowardly inside and outside the wall. Marriage and divorce are really the product of two worlds. Marriage is very simple. If you are bold enough, you can even drag someone of the opposite sex on the street. As long as the person does not object, you can take your household registration book to the Civil Affairs Bureau to fill out the form, take a photo, and in a few minutes you will have two red marriage certificates with steel seals. Then you can post it to Moments and receive all kinds of likes and blessings. As for divorce, you need too many things, including property division documents, divorce agreements, and many, many trivial matters that you need to worry about. After you get divorced successfully, you will have to face friends, relatives, and colleagues around you. They are not blessings with a unified message, but all kinds of strange questions. You need to take the trouble to explain to everyone why you are getting divorced. The reason why Jiang Yao did not divorce was not because of how much she loved Wang Zhiwei. It was just that Jiang Yao loved the love that she believed could last forever in her youth. Although after many years of marriage, the cinnabar moles turned into mosquito blood, and the appearance of the marriage at the beginning was still imagined by Jiang Yao until she couldn't help but believe it. Jiang Yao is selfish, yes, most people in this world are selfish. Just like when Jiang Yao learned that Wang Zhiwei had terminal lung cancer, she noblely chose to stay with her husband, but she still had to make excuses for herself, thinking that she was doing it for Zhu Jiayi's future, so she painfully chose to break up. You see, just like in real life, many people hold high the banner of good for you and wantonly do things that hurt you. They never know what it means to be honey for you and arsenic for others. Those people force others to admit their good intentions and believe that they are the truth. So you see, Jiang Yao always loves himself, not Wang Zhiwei or Zhu Jiayi, just himself. Zhu Jiayi was just a spare tire that made her happy when her marriage was in embarrassment, a man who could do whatever she wanted. But what she didn't expect was that the original setting would deviate from the established track because of herself. Jiang Yao always knew clearly, as she said from the very beginning that if Zhu Jiayi said he loved her, then they would break up. In the end, Jiang Yao's death was actually more because she finally discovered that Wang Zhiwei had left, and her backup Zhu Jiayi also had a new love. And the two people she loved at different times left one after another, leaving her with no courage to live when she could.

In fact, looking back, it is reasonable for Jiang not to accept Zhu before. Zhu is so young, his experience and thoughts are not on the same level, and there is no guarantee that they will always be together. After only three years of separation, Zhu Ye found someone who was said to be a good match and could get married and eventually chose to be together. Therefore, Zhu Ye actually didn't love Jiang that much. True love would not be like this in his heart. It was such a pity for Jiang. He could live a new life on his own.

Young Master Chun, to be honest, watching Roussillon first and then going back to read Love Songs must be another confirmation that I have been very unlucky recently - first I raised the warmth from the bottom of my heart, and was gradually warmed, and then I threw it into the cold water little by little and was submerged by the glacier. The former warms me up for a good night's sleep, while the latter probably causes me to lose sleep all night - which makes me one of the most romantic, fragile and hopeless female creatures on the planet. Okay, let's talk about love songs. My writing capacity is limited, so let me talk about the male protagonist Zhu Jiayi first. First of all, well, I must say that when I saw the end, that is, the ending of the story created by Ding Ling, I really felt a sense of disobedience - even if you say that I have the benefit of hindsight, I admit it. After all, seeing the happy ending does make creatures like women unconsciously accept it. After watching the end, and even after reading the epilogue, I no longer felt any dissonance, but in my heart... (You understand) From the beginning, I didn't like Zhu Jiayi – even though he was young, handsome, and deeply in love, it was really hard for me to fully accept or even like him morally by interfering in other people's marriages. Later, as he and Jiang Yao had friction one after another and compromised again and again, I have to say that I was moved - moved by such a pure feeling, hot and deep, which even made me blur the bottom line in my heart, although it later proved that this was my stupidity - it was indeed a good wake-up call. It has to be said that the Zhu Jiayi in Ding Ling's novel, or that "our original view of love" may really only be the "initial", but because it is so beautiful and pure, our daily experience is just smearing bit by bit on the white paper of life. Whether it is colorful or gloomy and depressing, it is every day that each of us goes through, and it is also the process of us constantly losing or letting go of "purity" - whether intentionally or unintentionally. Therefore, in reality, Zhu Jiayi's departure is more realistic and of course more cruel. I rarely use cruelty to describe male protagonists, but the real-life Zhu Jiayi (the third matryoshka doll), who ended up quietly working as a chef in Otaru, was really cruel - whether to Jiang Yao, his fiancée in the United States, his parents, or himself. In the beginning, when he decided to chase the married woman Jiang Yao, it was a kind of cruelty, a child's overbearing possession of a favorite toy, and a moral contempt for himself, Jiang Yao and even Qin Zhen. Although we can explain it with the innocence of love, this line itself is a disregard for social rules, and it is also the first lock he puts on Jiang Yao. Later, Jiang Yao and Zhu Jiayi went to Otaru for the first time, where they spent what may be the best time in their lives - beautiful scenery, delicious food and deeply loved people. On the train leaving, Jiang Yao had an asthma relapse for the first time. All of Zhu Jiayi's worries and fears at that time were so real that Jiang Yao would never forget them. In the elevator where they met again three years later, Zhu Jiayi "rescued" Jiang Yao again. Now recalling that episode, as a bystander, I have to say that I was touched again - I believe that Zhu Jiayi must have Jiang Yao in his heart, and he cannot accept Jiang Yao dying in front of him. However, in a sense, this is Zhu Jiayi's second cruelty and his second lock - he is Jiang Yao's guardian, the one who saves her, the only one, Zhu Jiayi, so at the end, the face of the stranger she saw before Jiang Yao's consciousness dissipated became the last straw that crushed her entire life. The third cruelty of Zhu Jiayi is to give hope and then uproot it. If I want to use an analogy, it should be that when 501 is used to glue fragments, they are smashed before they are about to dry and solidify - the past fragments are pulling each other, and the new scars can no longer heal. It should be said that when they met again in Otaru, when Zhu Jiayi never said "I love you" again, when Zhu Jiayi hugged Jiang Yao from behind who was facing the valley and confiding to him, perhaps the final outcome was not so unpredictable. He is no longer the Zhu Jiayi he was before, but the Jiang Yao he was before. These three locks locked the former Zhu Jiayi and became Jiang Yao's last soul lock. Let's talk about Jiang Yao. I particularly agree with what Chun Shao said in the postscript: Poor people must be hateful. Jiang Yao is indeed pitiful, and she is indeed hateful. Although the ending of giving up survival can be said to make the novel more artistic, because we believe that if there is such a "Jiang Yao" around us, she is more likely to silently bury those pains, and sink them into her heart bit by bit in her day-to-day life, because we all know and understand that it is much easier to compromise with life than to persist as always. If I despised Jiang Yao from the beginning, then I suddenly understood and even began to admire her because of her growth - just as Chun Shao himself said, people must have the courage to face everything. We all know that it is easy to say but difficult to do. But Jiang Yao can, at least she is doing that step by step. Although in the end, she did not have the courage to go on again, it was precious to face herself honestly and accept herself. It should be said that Jiang Yao is heartbreaking and hateful - she has had many opportunities to choose. She can seriously think about her marriage to Wang Zhiwei before starting with Zhu Jiayi and make a choice; she can divorce Wang Zhiwei when she chooses to start with Zhu Jiayi; she can even leave with Zhu Jiayi when she discovers that Wang Zhiwei is ill - although it is indeed impossible for a woman like Jiang Yao to make such a decision, this is still a choice and an opportunity. However, she gave up. Zhu Jiayi allowed Zhu Jiayi to hook his heart and soul one lock after another, but he failed to maintain his courage in the end. It's a pity, it's a shame. The three locks captured Jiang Yao's heart, her love and her life. However, the lock itself was Zhu Jiayi's heart, transformed by his love, and he was trapped in it, unable to escape.

I wish you were still not mature enough. Since you have thought about it and cannot let down your fiancée, you shouldn't rebuild the old relationship with Jiang in Otaru.

I struggled with this book for a long time before I started reading it, because I knew the ending from someone else from the beginning. After reading it, I feel a little uncomfortable. In fact, the real Jiang would not be so fragile and seek death in such a passive way. He has experienced so much, love, apologies to Zhu, and regrets. These intertwined and chaotic emotions rushed out like sea water even after Zhu broke through the last layer of cover. But I believe that Jiang, a person who has experienced being betrayed by his lover, betrayed by himself, betrayed others and betrayed by others, there is actually nothing that he cannot digest and continue to live. There is no moral criticism at all about the characters in this story, about Jiang, Qin, and Wang. Perhaps because I am in the same age group as them, I can understand the self-restraint that is forced out of me by the increasingly cold days after loving myself for more than 30 years. Mistakes often only happen in an instant. No one can stand on the moral high ground forever. The heart God gave us is weak, making us easily moved and emotional, and prone to fall. It is weakness that makes us strong, and strength that makes us weak. On the contrary, for Zhu, a martyr in the name of love, a cunning masochist, an avenger who believed that his ability to love was wiped out by Chiang, and the final redeemer, no matter what appearance he looks like, he cannot be regarded as an ideal lover. Man, his warmth comes from his youthful love mixed with lust, which is not touching. If you have been hurt, you should heal your wounds and love well. Expressing anger and guilt will only make people limited to the past, so they never feel that he has matured or transformed. However, since this is a love song that does not require love, then well, love will always die. After removing the emotional hoarseness, a love song without love will only be filled with sadness.

Because Jiang did not deal with her feelings in time, she missed the person who loved her. Zhu lost Jiang because he didn't handle his feelings well again. What they regret is not the miss and loss, but also the mistakes they have made, there is no chance to look back... I was very sad, so I had to comfort myself that this was a novel, not a true story.

Although I felt panicked after reading it, this is indeed the more realistic ending. In reality, it is difficult to have people and things that are not changed by time. The status of Jiang Yao and Zhu was not equal at the beginning. In my opinion, there is no love without expectation of return. It is also difficult to say love without regrets. Xiao Zhu has always longed for Jiang Yao's response, just like a child who keeps asking for candy. In the end, he ate this candy, but it was not the original one he wanted, or he had already eaten all kinds of candy and could no longer be bound by the sweetness of candy. So this is also in reality. When people grow up, it is difficult for them to pursue someone they like as stupidly and shamelessly as they did when they were students. Everyone will want to protect themselves from harm. Sometimes they even get harmed themselves, and they also hope that others will be as "unfortunate" as themselves. This may be the evil in human beings. When they were in Xiaozun, Jiang Yao could actually feel that Zhu was different. Zhu already had a protective shell and he had a lot of defenses. He saw that Jiang Yao was far from being as pure as before, although he did love Jiang Yao very much. So Jiang Yao in Xiaozun is humble. She wants Zhu to become willing to believe in love, and she doesn't want him to be like her. She wants Zhu to forgive him and redeem herself and him. I feel that Zhu gets out of that predicament one step earlier than her, so in the end she wakes up from her dream. The huge gap between reality and dream makes Jiang Yao choose to return to the dream. The reality is so cruel. It is easy to fall in love but difficult to stay together. But love in life is not something that can cover the sky with one hand. After experiencing it in the future, when you think back, you will feel that you once had a distant dream.

After reading this ending, I don't like it anymore! Mingming Zhu came back, and he saw the heroine having an asthma attack with him in the elevator. He should have known how much influence he had on the heroine, and he was killing her! ! Now I say that my return, my reconciliation with you, and my forgiveness are all illusions and just deceptions on my part. . . Zhu left again, taking his fiancée with him. . Without that letter, Zhu leaving directly would not have caused the heroine to get sick at all, or in other words, she would not have died without telling others that she had the medicine after getting sick. Compared with the appearance of Zhu, he should know what his leaving will bring and what he will take away, so I hate him. The male protagonist who loved almost a book became too hateful in the end →_→ In the end, his revenge harmed the female protagonist. Even if you are a mute chef for the rest of your life, you can't make up for it~_~

A really great novel, Russian Doll. The previous authors are really wise, love you all