What Happened to Us?

Anyway, I think it is really admirable to be able to persist in love for ten years, and it is even more admirable to be able to persist in marriage for ten years, because there are constant frictions in the middle. It depends on whether you take a step back, take a step forward, or stay where you are. No matter which one, the ending is completely opposite!

Ten years always makes me sigh. I remember reading an article on Sohu more than ten years ago about the ten years of two people. From childhood sweethearts to the end, they are a couple. I always remember the last sentence she wrote. She said, please, please the male protagonist. Even if they meet in the future, they hope to forget each other. I always didn't understand it at the time. Thinking about it now, it is actually a kind of helplessness. I like to read fresh and fresh articles, especially childhood sweethearts, and finally they spend a good time together.

After entering society, there are fewer women and fewer men remain unchanged, so it is better not to fall in love too early in school. I always hear men complaining that women have become too fat, sloppy... In fact, men have changed more. There are too many excuses for socializing and drinking, you know. Say no more.

My husband and I have been in love since the first semester of college. We broke up due to willfulness and got back together half a year later. Then he stayed in school and I took the postgraduate entrance examination of this school. It wasn't until we were in love for ten years that we got the certificate and had a simple wedding. I can't tell you what I'm feeling right now, maybe I'm in a similar mood to the heroine. In fact, after we took the wedding photos but Hai didn't get the certificate, we faced the test of breaking up again. Maybe women are all sensitive. When someone who is tired from a long-distance relationship suddenly realizes that the other person is not nice to you, and it is completely different from before, I would like to ask you, have you done anything to feel sorry for me by suddenly being so nice to me? I said it jokingly, but the other person responded with silence and tears and then a confession. At that time, I felt it was hard to understand/my chest felt tight and painful, and I kept asking why over and over again. I thought about breaking up, but I saw something said by a high school classmate, saying whether a woman will cheat depends on her man, and whether a man will cheat only depends on whether there is a chance. I thought about it a lot after that, and finally got married amidst his tears and pleading. Alas, life feels like a butcher's knife.

One of my best friends and my husband were classmates in high school and have been together for more than ten years now. My second best friend is also a high school classmate of my husband, and we have been together for more than ten years now. My husband and I were classmates in college and have been together for more than ten years now. Although my husband doesn't speak sweet words, we have a lot to talk about together.

10 Years is not a long time

I feel that the heroine's mentality has not been adjusted well. After getting along for a long time, her personality problems will naturally be exposed. The male protagonist should also care about the female protagonist occasionally now. If he doesn't at all, what else will he do?

It is impossible to turn back time. Women must constantly adjust their mentality with time. Otherwise, they will always be held back by the old times, which will be very sad.

My expression skills are not strong and my writing is poor, but I still want to say it. My wife and I have known each other since the first year of high school, and then started falling in love. We were 16 years old when we were in high school, college, and then worked after graduation, and then lived together (haha). I am 32 years old now. I have been married for 14 years and have been married for two years. It can be considered a long-distance relationship. Many scenes in the article seem familiar, and I have experienced many. The author's thoughts in the article are very similar to my wife's, but from my perspective, it is not like this. Time The longer I fall in love with my wife, the more I feel like a child. I dote on her more and more, and I don't even want children. Some things are eternal. The key is that this society will make people lose their true feelings. Some things are more important than perseverance, understanding each other, and asking yourself what it is you want. I had a dream a few days ago, in which I recalled my wish in high school: As long as I can be with my wife, I can do anything. But now I am with her as I wished. I have no shortage of houses and cars, but I am working hard for houses, cars, and money, or in other words, for more houses, cars, and money. In the first 30 years, I exchanged money for my life, and in the next 3 It's nothing more than exchanging life for money in 20 years, but I believe this is just a process, and this process will be very short. If it succeeds, it will be successful, and if it doesn't, it will be abandoned. These two chapters touched me a lot. Wife, I'm sorry for ignoring you. It turns out that I am also lost.

Very real emotional state. . . When the sweetness fades, what else is left in love?