When He Qingxuan was seven years old, she said: All men in the world are unreliable. I don't want to marry anyone except my brother.
When He Qingxuan was twelve years old, she said: If someone can be as good as my brother, even if it is only half, I am willing to marry him.
When He Qingxuan was seventeen, she said: Liu Yi may be the person I want. His literary talent, martial arts, appearance and height are not as good as those of my brother, but I like him.
When He Qingxuan was twenty-two years old, she said: I will not marry until my nephew can become independent. If you are willing to wait for me, I will marry you in the next life.
When He Qingxuan was twenty-seven, the person who was willing to wait for her was no longer there.