Regarding "strong", I actually have a very ambivalent attitude towards strong women. On the one hand, they worship strong women as idols; on the other hand, most of the strong women they meet have troubles in their marriages and families, and they sympathize with them but also take warnings from them. It is a virtue for a woman to have no talent. In today's society, most of the strong women are talented and have high spirits. Ordinary men find it difficult to attract the attention of ordinary men. It is difficult for the boss to marry. On the contrary, they are not as good as ordinary women. They can find an ordinary man to marry, raise their husband and children, and enjoy some family happiness without any desire or desire.
Regarding "self", the heroine of this article, Li Ping, lost her mother when she was young and grew up among her father's concubines. She has witnessed the intrigues of the concubines since she was a child, which undoubtedly affected and shaped her character. As for his subsequent cruelty and ruthlessness, it is actually understandable to do whatever it takes to achieve his goals. She is not a good person, but she cannot be said to be a bad person. She can be said to be an ordinary person: great feelings are not held by ordinary people; a "rational man" or "economic man" - she just chooses to maximize her own interests from a personal perspective.
Regarding "love", I prefer the kind of childhood sweethearts, innocent and innocent, better than friends, and not even aware that it is love. Just like Parker and Hepburn's carnival in the streets of Rome - until they were separated, they realized that they were reluctant to separate. That is love.