True love is not love at first sight, but love that lasts for a long time; true fate is not God's arrangement, but your initiative; true inferiority is not that you are not good, but that you think she is too good; true concern is not that you ask her to change if you think she is good, but that you are the first to notice her changes; the real contradiction is not that she does not understand you, but that you will not tolerate her.