Sixty-two-year-old Lin Xiulan closed her eyes alone in the cold ward.
He spent his whole life revolving around his husband and two children. He lived frugally and emptied his family fortune. He sold his old house to help his children buy a house. When he was seriously ill and bedridden, his children blamed each other for the medical expenses, and no one wanted to stay by the bedside. As she lay dying, she only felt regret: In this life, she had never lived for herself.
When she opened her eyes again, she returned to 1998, exactly forty years old. The demolition money has just been transferred to the account, and the husband plans to use it to repair his mother-in-law's old house. A pair of children are eagerly waiting to ask for money to buy things. In her previous life, it was this money that started her life of endless blood-sucking.
In this life, Lin Xiulan clings to her principal and no longer works as a free nanny for the whole family. She increased her income by setting up a stall using her pickled sauce craft, saving money carefully, buying a small house, choosing insurance, and building up her own retirement foundation bit by bit.
The husband holds the relationship between husband and wife hostage because of morality, the husband's family takes turns coming to borrow money, and the children keep trying to get money. She is soft-hearted, but never compromises her bottom line. She is willing to bear the expenses of her children's education, but does not cover large subsidies such as marriage, buying a house, or starting a business.
There is no system, no cheating to get rich suddenly. She relied on her memories in her later years to avoid the traps of the times and slowly accumulated stability. As time goes by, the children who once resented her "cruelty" learned to be independent through the trials and tribulations of life.
By the time she was in her 60s, she had savings and rent income, was surrounded by close friends, and was in good health. You don't have to look at people's faces, and you don't have to spend the rest of your life trying to make others happy.
In this life, the first person a woman should treat kindly is always herself.
Purpose: Women break away from family ties, establish interpersonal boundaries, plan ahead, build up confidence for themselves for retirement, and treat themselves well.