Four Months Since We Broke Up

In fact, I finished reading this article a long time ago. Today, I suddenly saw another article and thought of this article. I came to review it again. I didn't expect that the author had already closed the book (I felt so uncomfortable that I wanted to cry) I hope you are living well now. I will be happy if you can come back. Even if you don't come back, you can be healthy and happy. After re-reading this article, I found that everyone in the comment area has their own opinions. By the way, let me tell you what I think. Some friends feel that they have made the wrong move, failed to live up to their original promise of always being tolerant and accepting, and break up lightly. In fact, this is not the case. Q originally pursues someone and is in a different state when they are truly together. Pursue someone, show your good side, and most likely treat the other person's shortcomings as fun. You think he is clumsy and cute because he doesn't know how to cook. You think he is arrogant and cute when he is willful, and you think he is informal, straightforward and naive when he is heartless. So I didn't think of it as a shortcoming or obstacle at first. And during the pursuit, they basically won't live together. The less together and the more separation, the more beautiful it will be. But together it's different. Look at Gong in the article. He cleans, cooks and washes clothes and urges Shou to pay attention to his health. Then Shou carelessly says he understands and lets Gong take care of whatever he wants to eat regardless of his situation. He does his own thing. He doesn't know if Gong is sick, and most likely he doesn't even know what Gong likes to eat or wear. What can you relate to? Yes, that is the lifestyle of parents and children. We always say that parents are the people who love us the most unconditionally in the world. This is true to a large extent (except for those scumbags), but even parents hope that you know their hobbies, care about them, take care of them when they are uncomfortable or sick, help with cooking, and chat with others about housework. Why do you think that Gong will not be tired, sad or disappointed when his unilateral efforts have not been rewarded (seriously, I only saw this in the article)? In the early stage, I really didn't see where Shou showed his love for Gong. His behavior was just like Gong thought, and he only regarded Gong as a cook, cleaner, and housekeeper. Those who think that feeling is love is hard to say in their hearts, yes, there are indeed such people in the world, but you wouldn't say that love should at least be expressed in actions, right? There is a sentence that impressed me deeply in other articles I read before: You love someone, you love him very much, but if you never express it through words and actions, he will still think that you don't love him at all. So Gong's disappointment is understandable. Not to mention other things, on the day we broke up, Gong felt so uncomfortable and had a fever, his face was red, and he even bought cakes for Shou and did housework. Did Shou notice and ask? If a relationship is a feeling of hopelessness, how many people can persevere in it if their efforts are not rewarded with consideration and consideration? Let's replace it. If we are a couple, the wife does housework and takes care of her husband every day, and does not receive a single word of consideration. Even when the husband is sick, she does not notice and only thinks about eating this and that. She never cares about her and only makes endless demands. How many wives can persist in such a life? Some people may say that the relationship analogy is inappropriate. Then if you put the behavior of the attack on a sufferer in the article, and the performance of the sufferer on a slave, who wouldn't say that the slave is a scumbag who persuades the slave to leave the slave? Why are there so many people who feel aggrieved by Wenli when their identities are changed? Not understand. No matter what kind of relationship, it can only last if you and I both have to pay for it. The ancients also knew that "give me a peach, and give me a jade in return." How come many people today can't even compare with their thoughts before?

I watched it again and again, and cried every time I watched it. Not everyone can keep giving silently without asking for anything in return. .

I reblogged it n years later, and there was even a quarrel in the comment area. Although I was in control, I felt that Gong was not wrong. How should I put it? The article made it very clear. Gong was sick that day, and then after he came, his lover only cared about the cake and didn't care about himself at all. , When he was sick and was already more fragile than usual, he was frustrated for a moment and broke up with him impulsively. The reaction that followed was a critical blow to him. He was almost unrepentant. He was spoiled. Relationships have to be adjusted.

In fact, I finished reading this article a long time ago. Today, I suddenly saw another article and thought of this article. I came to review it again. I didn't expect that the author had already closed the book (I felt so uncomfortable that I wanted to cry) I hope you are living well now. I will be happy if you can come back. Even if you don't come back, you can be healthy and happy. After re-reading this article, I found that everyone in the comment area has their own opinions. By the way, let me tell you what I think. Some friends feel that they have made the wrong move, failed to live up to their original promise of always being tolerant and accepting, and break up lightly. In fact, this is not the case. Q originally pursues someone and is in a different state when they are truly together. Pursue someone, show your good side, and most likely treat the other person's shortcomings as fun. You think he is clumsy and cute because he doesn't know how to cook. You think he is arrogant and cute when he is willful, and you think he is informal, straightforward and naive when he is heartless. So I didn't think of it as a shortcoming or obstacle at first. And during the pursuit, they basically won't live together. The less together and the more separation, the more beautiful it will be. But together it's different. Look at Gong in the article. He cleans, cooks and washes clothes and urges Shou to pay attention to his health. Then Shou carelessly says he understands and lets Gong take care of whatever he wants to eat regardless of his situation. He does his own thing. He doesn't know if Gong is sick, and most likely he doesn't even know what Gong likes to eat or wear. What can you relate to? Yes, that is the lifestyle of parents and children. We always say that parents are the people who love us the most unconditionally in the world. This is true to a large extent (except for those scumbags), but even parents hope that you know their hobbies, care about them, take care of them when they are uncomfortable or sick, help with cooking, and chat with others about housework. Why do you think that Gong will not be tired, sad or disappointed when his unilateral efforts have not been rewarded (seriously, I only saw this in the article)? In the early stage, I really didn't see where Shou showed his love for Gong. His behavior was just like Gong thought, and he only regarded Gong as a cook, cleaner, and housekeeper. Those who think that feeling is love is hard to say in their hearts, yes, there are indeed such people in the world, but you wouldn't say that love should at least be expressed in actions, right? There is a sentence that impressed me deeply in other articles I read before: You love someone, you love him very much, but if you never express it through words and actions, he will still think that you don't love him at all. So Gong's disappointment is understandable. Not to mention other things, on the day we broke up, Gong felt so uncomfortable and had a fever, his face was red, and he even bought cakes for Shou and did housework. Did Shou notice and ask? If a relationship is a feeling of hopelessness, how many people can persevere in it if their efforts are not rewarded with consideration and consideration? Let's replace it. If we are a couple, the wife does housework and takes care of her husband every day, and does not receive a single word of consideration. Even when the husband is sick, she does not notice and only thinks about eating this and that. She never cares about her and only makes endless demands. How many wives can persist in such a life? Some people may say that the relationship analogy is inappropriate. Then if you put the behavior of the attack on a sufferer in the article, and the performance of the sufferer on a slave, who wouldn't say that the slave is a scumbag who persuades the slave to leave the slave? Why are there so many people who feel aggrieved by Wenli when their identities are changed? Not understand. No matter what kind of relationship, it can only last if you and I both have to pay for it. The ancients also knew that "give me a peach, and give me a jade in return." How come many people today can't even compare with their thoughts before?

People who don't know how to love learn to love, relive, and like people.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh from from replaying so many times! ! Still like it very much! ! !

I have always loved the radio drama of this novel, and I still cry silently along with Xu Chong even if I listen to it over and over again. . .

I feel like there are a lot of favored and ignorant little public servants under this article who think that communication can solve the problem. I really envy their stupidity. In fact, it is good to be stupid and sweet for the rest of my life. But sometimes I feel that they are not reading the same article as me. That may not be the case anymore. Silly Baitian's problem is a matter of reading comprehension, so that the articles they see are different from what I see -_-||. Silly, it's okay to hold it back secretly, and I have to sneak out and let others read it. As expected, reading comments affects my mood. It's better not to read the comments now.

I really want to cry(┯_┯)

I'm a bitch who doesn't like to be aggressive, but I'm the one who is pampered at home. It's impossible for me to watch what I'm saying. Sorry, it's impossible. When I was with my boyfriend, I said if something happens, just say it. My environment has taught me for so many years that I should be like this. You can express what you want. I want to accompany you for the rest of my life. I don't ask for anything else, but you can't guard me about every little thing. So now we have many times because we said it's okay after we discuss it, let alone affect our relationship. So I think this is Lin Daiyu's reincarnation, so we can break up without explanation or discussion? The youngest doesn't know! Nervous