My mother, who is nearly 50 years old, relied on the wine shop to support her livelihood in the early years. Now she has employees to share the workload. She knows that red wine is harmful to the body, but she still loves to socialize and drink alone in her spare time. I tried to persuade her many times to no avail, but through the tug of the mother and daughter's ideas, I suddenly realized that life is inherently a dilemma, and it is difficult to have both care and freedom at the same time.
Purpose: There are dilemmas everywhere in life. It is normal to have to make a living without one's control, and it is normal for relatives to not be able to fully agree with each other. True love is not to forcefully change the other person, but to accept the unique spiritual sustenance of others and tolerate the inherent contradictions in life.