The life you wish for never seems to belong to you.
From childhood to adulthood, she has been obedient, sensible, restrained, and considerate, habitually giving in, being tolerant, and keeping her emotions to a minimum.
Everyone praised her for being well-behaved, gentle and sensible, and they naturally asked for her consideration and concessions.
No one cared whether she liked it or not, no one asked her if she was willing, and no one heard her true wish.
She grew up in a small state of repression, and was sensitive, inferior, and extremely internally consumed.
He habitually pleases everyone around him, habitually digests all grievances, and lives his life to become the most perfect "good boy" in the eyes of others, but only loses himself.
The years are long, and the shackles are layer upon layer, trapping her year after year.
Until an ordinary moment, Xu Wan finally woke up.
She no longer wants to be everyone's appendage, no longer wants to trade grievances for stability, and no longer wants to repeatedly compromise other people's lives.
From then on, she broke free from her bonds, lost her cowardice, and bid farewell to the past where she was used to pleasing people.
She began to read, settle down, walk alone, and heal herself, peeling off her shackles bit by bit, and rebuilding her broken self bit by bit.
She no longer expects to be favored, and no longer waits for someone to save her.
Don't fall in love, don't depend on anyone, don't place your hope on others' tenderness and perfection.
You can block the wind and rain by yourself, walk the road ahead by yourself, and return all the choices in life to yourself.
From a repressed and timid youth to a sober and independent adult, she spent a long time healing the scars of her youth.
It turns out that the best wish in this life is never to expect others to treat you well, but to one day live the way you want.
Crossing mountains and rivers alone, you will be self-sufficient and safe every year.
Intention: Abandon internal friction to please, and live passionately only for yourself for the rest of your life
