That Daughter of Hers, All Lies

I stayed up late to finish reading it. The writing is very good, and the writing style is also very good! But maybe I haven't watched this kind of realistic themes too much. After watching it, I felt a little depressed and had an indescribable feeling in my heart. Maybe a living person has appeared in front of me all my life, but I didn't expect that she would pass away so suddenly, and that her parents and friends could do so much for her. This society is very realistic and cruel, and it is not easy for ordinary people to defend their rights. Cyber ​​violence can easily destroy a person. The cyber violence in the article reminded me of Zheng Linghua. Until now, those who commit cyber violence have not received the punishment they deserve. Well! I feel too uncomfortable now, maybe I am still suitable for Shuangwen. Very well written! It's just that I have a glass heart [hugging thighs]

So well written. I am Song Rong's same age. Although my growth trajectory is different, I have the same feelings and resonance of the times. Song Rong is brave, sincere and loyal to herself. She is an outstanding woman worth writing about. Ms. Yao Youmei seems to be a camera character at the beginning, but the author carefully depicts her life, family, interpersonal relationships, her way of thinking, logic of actions, etc., Especially her regret for her daughter, which is her personal confession, but also her love and loyalty to Song Rong in the readers' eyes. Thank you to the author for writing such a good story. I wish you good health and new works often.

It is really a good story. I saw a mother really get to know and get closer to her daughter after her daughter died. They were so far apart when they were born, but after they died, the distance between them became closer. Song Rong had no regrets in her life. She had a good life and she persisted in herself.

After reading it, I felt a lot hahahahaha In fact, not long after I started watching it, I wanted to come over and leave a comment, but I couldn't write much. The more I look at it, the more bitter I feel, my chest feels tight, and I shed tears for no apparent reason as I look at it. Let me just read it here. I had just graduated not long ago and had not really entered the society. I had very little experience and had not experienced any big storms. I still had a little naivety about the adult world. When reading this book, the most intuitive feeling is that I see myself and the shadow of my elders in the family in Song Rong and Yao Youmei. It not only tells the tragedy of a mother and daughter, but also the real and secret relationship between countless Chinese-style families. When I first read the title of the book, I thought Song Rong was the kind of stubborn daughter who loves to lie and talk back. After reading it slowly, I realized that she had never told any malicious lies. Her "full of lies" in her mother's mouth and in the eyes of others are just the forbearance and dignity of adults who have no choice but to do so. When a person lives outside, in order to prevent his family from worrying and maintain family ties, he pretends that everything is fine. Even though he was suffering from chronic diseases, he told his mother that he was in good health and everything was going well. He kept all the dark pain in his heart and never mentioned it to others. He made a serious life choice of not getting married and having children, but in the eyes of his mother, he was just angry and rebellious. Arranging his own affairs early was misinterpreted as having some shady feelings. These silences, concealments and ambiguities are not deceptions, they just don't want the elderly mother to be anxious and sad. When I was young and had simple ideas, I never understood the duplicity of my elders. I always feel that family members should be honest with each other and speak out when they are wronged or encounter difficulties. There is no need to hide everything. But looking at Song Rong, I seemed to suddenly understand the "lies" that the elders in my family had hidden for most of their lives. My parents and elders in the family are all like this. Always say "I'm fine" or "It's fine, don't worry about it" when calling. The exhaustion from work, physical ailments, pressure of life, and inner grievances are rarely discussed in detail with us. In the past, I foolishly thought that they were indestructible and could withstand anything. Only when I grew up did I realize that they just kept the embarrassment and difficulties to themselves, leaving only the stable and relaxed side to their families. The same is true for Song Rong, who is alone in a foreign land carrying her illness, loneliness and scars from the past. She is still gentle and calm in the face of her mother, swallowing all the pain in her heart. What pricks me the most is the helpless two-way misunderstanding between mother and daughter. Yao Youmei truly loved her daughter and cared about her all the time, but in the end she couldn't really understand Song Rong. She used the inherent concepts of the older generation to define happiness, judged her daughter's life by secular standards, and speculated and restrained Song Rong based on what she thought was love. She couldn't understand how transparently her daughter enjoyed being alone, and couldn't accept the path her daughter had chosen, so she filled in all the unknowns with her own guesses, and concluded that her daughter loved to lie and had a rebellious personality. This is really similar to my elders. They sincerely contribute to their family and are all for your own good, but this love also has fixed opinions and invisible bindings. They always use their own experience to plan the lives of younger generations. It is difficult to understand young people's desire to be alone and not want to follow the crowd. They don't understand that many times we choose silence instead of confrontation, we just don't want to quarrel, and we don't want everyone to feel uncomfortable if we speak out. Song Rong's phrase "I am Song Rong first, and your daughter second" simply illuminates the crux of many Chinese-style family relationships. Elders often regard their children as the continuation of their own lives and try their best to give, but they often forget that we are independent people, with our own scars, personalities, and the life we ​​want to pursue. Song Rong lived a sober and gentle life. Choosing not to get married and have children is not a matter of anger with the family, but a decision made after careful consideration; I don't want to say more about many things, not only to protect myself, but also because I don't want to hurt my family; that indifference and transparency were developed after a lot of experience. Even though she had been misunderstood by her loved ones for most of her life, she never resented her, she was just quiet and tolerant. But this tenderness had to wait until her unexpected death for her mother to see it clearly. Behind those so-called lies were the loneliness and grievances she had hidden all her life, but it was too late, leaving only lingering regrets. I closed the book feeling depressed. This is probably the most embarrassing thing about Chinese family relationships: although we clearly love each other deeply, we still cannot truly understand each other. We young people are accustomed to expressing our emotions straightforwardly and do not understand the forbearance of adults; our elders have experienced the world and have long since learned to only report good news and not bad news. After reading this piece by piece, deleting, deleting, and revising it, I actually still have a lot to say. I am very grateful to the author for writing such a book. I don't really like this kind of subject matter, but the more I read it, the more real it becomes. The more I understand Song Rong, the more I can't let go of this story.

At the end, there is still suspense! ! ! Is there a side story? ? ? Ah, but having said that, I didn't expect the finale. I was very emotional. In the end, Rongrong's post saved everyone, or gave everyone a hope. I really got goosebumps [crying]. The teacher wrote it very well. I never expected that the story would unfold like this before I opened this book. It is so delicate that it seems like it is breaking up time. Every minute and every second has a story.

A very excellent book that has given me a lot of inspiration in life and is worth reading many times [Glasses][Glasses]

Thank you to the author for bringing us such an excellent work. It is a pity that such a good book has so few readers.

It's over. Full of emotions. First of all, this is of course a very good novel. Then when I read novels, I often substitute the friendship between the heroine and the dream girl. To put it simply, I feel that the heroine is my good friend. The process of reading the novel is that I am watching the fantasy adventure or love life of my good friend-hey, as a digression, is this the reason why I prefer Weixuanyou? I still don't have that much curiosity about my friend's love story. And this article is amazing. The heroine is dead at the beginning, she was killed by someone. Most of the text is told from the perspective of the heroine's mother, Sister Mei, so during the reading process, I sometimes felt like I was Big Cat's friend, and at other times I seemed to be able to take on the perspective of Sister Mei's friend. It was a bit contradictory, but sometimes I really thought in my mind, "I have reached the age where both parties can understand." There is no doubt that Song Rong is a very good person. She has had strong loves and hates, and she also enjoys the peace of life. I still want to say, I really hope that I live in this book and can see more of Da Mao's creations. Sister Mei is a very happy person. I actually feel a little envious of her along the way. She has a smart mother and daughter. Although she is a little confused, it is rare to be confused in life. The story ends here, which can be regarded as an ending in which good and evil are rewarded, but life will continue. I hope Sister Mei and Lao Song are in good health. I hope Ermao will become the chief engineer of Song as soon as possible. I also hope that the careers of 77 Lemon and other relatives and friends will go smoothly. Let's meet each other, thank you for this story, and also thank the author for not disapproving of my tendency to stray from my thoughts when commenting and sharing many comments that have little to do with the story. Looking forward to seeing you in the next story.

The finale is here. It feels so fast and such a long day. After watching Song Rong's life while waiting for the perpetrator to be judged, it seems that everyone has developed in a better direction, a kind of perfection where the moon waxes and wanes.

This plot of collective betrayal is a bit illogical. Even if the victims and their families want money, the suspect's family must be able to provide it, and the amount must be huge to bribe them. Everyone knows the suspect's family situation, and it's impossible for them to just pay it out if they say they can pay millions. So the question is, is the victim's collective wisdom and belief in this big pie, or can they really take the money in front of them?