*If you are underage, do not read the original. If you cannot handle explicit language and cannot screen it out in your own mind, do not read the original either.*
The author analyzes and interprets the plot based solely on the original work, using it as a point of reference to explore how we can learn and reflect, how we can live our own lives well, and how we can face the difficult problems that any of us might encounter.
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I have always felt that this novel has tremendous value. So far, I haven't found anything that surpasses it in my eyes.
Its value doesn't lie in the groveling-after-the-breakup trope, or in the heroine being so carefree that she can stop loving someone just like that. It's not because she plays around even more than the hero, making readers feel vindicated by having a heroine like her, and it's certainly not in its explicit content. Nor is it just a case of a cold-faced hero washing his underwear. Whether the leads are physically or emotionally pure, or which of them has the upper hand, are the least important things to focus on. What matters is whether you see the wounds and self-protective instincts of people in love, whether those wounds and defenses are just like your own, and whether you see how the protagonists deal with all of it. Have you come to any realizations? Have you learned how to handle things?
I don't know whether the author did this intentionally, but I think she portrays the insecurities, vulnerabilities, and self-protective instincts of people in love exceptionally well, and ultimately offers a solution. There is a cause behind it all. Fang Qingning's attitude toward love can be traced back to the self-protective habits she learned from the wounds of her family of origin. Chen Yize may seem like a deranged, controlling man, but isn't he also the unshakeable sense of security Fang Qingning secretly needs? I think the latter half of the story is the perfect finishing touch, because Fang Qingning is forced to face the issues she has always avoided. Chen Yize makes her confront the things that could hurt her and cause her pain. This isn't the
