Apart in Appearance, United at Heart

Slight bitterness and sweetness in the ordinary

It's really well written, but a little short. Hehe

Contract marriage - love after marriage, the excitement after marriage can still be as exciting as the love before marriage, perhaps it only exists in this very human mode. An ideal marriage has no place in reality.

Men have affairs after marriage, and extramarital affairs are becoming more and more common. When I see those women who are grieving more than their hearts, I suddenly feel that there is no man in the world worth confiding in. As for men, they make a 180-degree turn when they get married, and then they calculate their property and get divorced. Maybe it's true that what you can't get is the best. From this point of view, "Looking Like a Love" is based on the insecurity of marriage and the fear of losing each other at any time. After reading through the vicissitudes of life, it is trying a new model that can sustain love for a long time - don't open your heart easily, betrayal will always be determined; Divorce, never give up your own space for someone, even if that space is not colorful, in this way, when the bloody "I don't love you anymore" comes, it won't be too painful, because you haven't taken root too deeply, and you are stuck in it, because you don't love much from the beginning to the end. Although I have a fearful and anxious attitude towards opposite-sex love, the second half of the story is based on the pursuit of pure love, but in fact I still have illusions about true love. This contradictory attitude, wanting love but questioning love, is rooted in the fact that society has progressed, but women are still a vulnerable group and cannot withstand being abandoned. This can be seen from the heroine's attitude towards having children. Sensitivity to the uncertainty of relationships between people in modern society has brought about an excessive sense of self-protection. Under the happy appearance of the story, the great sadness of women living in this society is revealed. Even couples get along with each other with all kinds of suspicions. Before making sure that the other person falls in love with you first, they put on a mask and pretend not to love. Who else can we trust wholeheartedly? I have read this story three or five times since I first met it, and I have different feelings every time. Today I saw in the gossip about the calculation of extramarital property before and after marriage, and I had this feeling. Quse's writing is very worthy of "close reading".

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Well... I don't know what to say... I just feel a little stuck... I don't know why...

Don't say anything, it's as if I'm sorry. It's quite good. Both the male and female protagonists are rational and calmly analyze what happened. They don't misunderstand each other for a while. I feel very comfortable after watching it~~

Qu Se is the only two people in Jinjiang who don't jump to read her articles.

Happiness is like thin flowing water, light but very sweet.

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