Separation of Projects | Self-Growth Everyone has their own piece of land to cultivate, so we must learn to distinguish our own projects from those of others. Stop looking for others, keep your head down and plant your own one-third of an acre of land, keep learning and exploring farming techniques, increase yields, and enjoy the fragrance of the soil in the field, the morning sun and dew, and you can still grow a field of flowers. This book talks about individuals, gender, and finally love and marriage. The language is concise and the thinking is advanced. Two major points surprised me: the author's definition and insights into loving oneself and enduring hardship. As she said, true "self-love" means that we know how to take responsibility for our own lives and understand that our destiny is led and determined by the choices we make in life, big and small. If we take the initiative to endure hardship, we will cry and move forward, and we will see the looming light ahead; if we passively endure hardship, what awaits us is more endless darkness and despair.