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I hope more people can read this book. It is really well written. She is not the extreme remarks quoted out of context on the Internet, nor is she inciting antagonism between men and women. You have to read and understand the specific content by yourself. It is not only suitable for women, but it is also very helpful for boys to improve themselves.
The author provides pertinent, objective and practical advice to grassroots women and even grassroots men from multiple angles. It is very real. Although the output of his views on the truth has touched the cakes of many people, it has also pointed out many ways for grassroots women to survive. The author can be called a great author.
It is very suitable for confused women in their early twenties to watch and think about. For those who have already thought about their own lives and worldview, it is helpful to refresh their own values. There are also girls who lack inner strength and are confused. It is also a good book for ideological awakening.
Update your concepts and benefit a lot. It is a good book that all women should read.
First of all, the writing is very true. Some things in the book are sporadic insights from my life. Secondly, this book gave me the motivation to move forward, allowing me to no longer be immersed in confusion, but to learn to go out and achieve financial independence first, and then achieve true spiritual independence. It also made me understand some of the essence of talking about marriage. Our goal is happiness, not the car and house that are external things. Finally, I will seriously think about what kind of life I want to live in the future, how to achieve it, and bravely take the first step.
It is a very objective and comprehensive analysis of the current situation of grassroots women in China. It is recommended that women who have just come of age should watch it several times to avoid falling in love, understand the social reality, and try not to be too hot-headed for future love and marriage. People should always love themselves first, love others first, love themselves first, and seek love first before making a living! Women are even more so!
It is simply a life-saving guide for grassroots women. It is a very clear-cut suggestion and education on the social rules faced by women! Schools don't teach us, and parents rarely teach us. If you recommend a book to a 20-year-old girl, this would be the first one she must read. Self-respect and self-love, self-reliance and self-improvement, there is no shortcut to success, happiness cannot rely on dependence, everything starts with your own struggle!
The writing is very real. If you want to transform from your ideal world to the real world, this book can avoid you from taking many detours. For example, if you encounter difficulties, you want to find a man to escape. After reading this book, you can clearly know that this is impossible. There will be no shortage of problems, and you have to face what you should face.
This is a very suitable book for young women, especially women living in rural towns. The book provides detailed explanations of self-growth, love, marriage, childbirth, etc. It gave me a lot of inspiration and was very helpful to me who was confused. Recommend!
This book is very well written. It points out that women's fundamental value will lead to many conflicts and oppression of women after marrying men at the grassroots level. It constantly reminds women to be independent and not rely on marriage to change themselves, so that women no longer rely on sexual value. It encourages women to stop internal friction in marriage and live bravely. The whole book is easy to understand. I was enlightened after reading it. Thank you for this book for letting me understand the thoughts of men at the grassroots level [Blowing kiss][Flowing kiss][Flowing kiss]
Highly Highly Highly Recommended! It is really worth reading again and again. This is the first time I have really read a book about safeguarding women's rights and teaching grassroots women how to respect themselves and love themselves. "Never pin your happiness on others." I have to remind myself of this sentence every day. Thank you, dear author, for guiding me in the right direction [blowing kiss]
After reading half of it, I couldn't help but praise this book. In the past year, in order to solve my inner dilemma, I read a lot of foreign books. Although it was effective, I always felt that it could not touch the core issue. After reading this book, I was deeply resonated with the background and problems faced in it, and then I suddenly realized the insight. In addition, the language in the book is very easy to understand, without deliberately piling up terminology for any reason, and it is very easy to read. It is like an elder in life speaking to you, putting yourself in the situation and being simple. I hope that more female writers will be born in China, and I would like to thank the author for his selfless sharing.
This book is very well written. Women who understand it can really avoid a lot of detours. A healthy body and having money are the most important things in life. Love is just the icing on the cake, and getting married and having children is not a necessity in life.
A must-read for women, it covers work, marriage, and having children. The author must have read a lot of books to discover the social truth. All of it is the naked truth. I dare to say that I support it. I am very lucky to have encountered this book in college. My mother told me before that I should get married after 25 years old and wait until I am financially independent before considering marriage. I have learned that I must learn to live independently. Don't be afraid of hardship while you are young. Learning is the key. You are your savior, husband and wife. Relationships are the first priority. Learn to have your own independent small family. I believe there will be less trouble. Giving birth is not something that comes naturally. Women learn to be spontaneous. Out of love, they want to accompany the husband and wife together to accompany the process of life and growth. Money is an external thing, and being ordinary is also a kind of happiness. Improving yourself is the most important thing, and then you will naturally get what you want. It is great to read in your twenties. People need to read more. I would like to ask the author if he has any recommended books, which will definitely be helpful. Thank you.
Girls can go read it. The content is very easy to understand and you can learn a lot. It may help you find some problems and confusions you encounter in life and help us grow up! Come on
A great five-star book. The book really talks a lot about the inequality caused by modern women's rights. Even though I am a boy, I feel the same too. I briefly read that the whole book is full of the need to be independent. Women in the new era are indispensable for personal independence, spiritual independence, and material independence. Only by letting their finances, marriage, and sexual choices be firmly in their own hands. I hope more people will realize the connotation of this book. It is highly recommended.
After reading it, it was quite well written, with a lot of resonance and some inspiration. There are some concepts and lifestyles that I practice but have not been sorted out into thoughts and words. This author has sorted them out. There are also some cases and opinions that are very good, objective and true, not one-sided, not cover-up, not extreme. I have always been grateful to my parents and grandparents. Although my parents were absent from my childhood for some reason, my grandparents gave me the same amount of love. Although my parents also caused harm and psychological shadow to me in adolescence, we are all learning and growing and working hard to improve the parent-child relationship. The current family atmosphere is freedom, equality, respect and love, without too much interference or control. I am grateful to my family for their dedication and self-growth. Now I can survive financially independently, think independently, not rely on anyone, and can survive well. Love is the icing on the cake. If you have it, it's better, if you don't have it, you can live alone. I look forward to meeting my soul mate and building a healthy marriage together. If one day I am willing to continue my life and raise the next generation, I also hope that she and he can grow up healthily and happily in love. [Love] [Love] [Love] Finally, I wish all women in the world to break out of the quagmire and chaos, become self-aware and independent, and have a wonderful life.
This book is worth reading by every grassroots woman. As a grassroots woman, reading it has made me more clear about my position in life and improved my understanding. It mainly allows grassroots women, especially rural women, to transform from independence in life to spiritual prosperity. In particular, the author's different perspectives on love, marriage, and childbirth have given me a deeper understanding of these three things. The progress and relationships of things enable grassroots women to become stronger from within. From the journey of personal growth, they understand that they need to learn to be independent, brave, contented, grateful, etc. From the long-term plan of life, they encourage women to create their own life value and live out their own life script. Life is only 30,000 days long. They must be brave, accumulate experience, and learn to try and make mistakes in order to grow.
Although this book is called Grassroots Women, middle- and high-level women will be very enlightened after reading it. First of all, she talks about how women should be self-reliant and responsible for themselves no matter when, where, or what age. They should be their own parents. Every choice they make should be based on knowing the causes, consequences and impact. They should be responsible for their own lives. They should not rely on their parents, husbands, etc., Whether it is spiritual or financial dependence. Then the second point is that the love she said is encountered on the way to pursue what you want and be brave enough to be yourself on the basis of a material foundation, rather than deliberately looking for it. Sister Ling is really a person with great love. She relies on her own strength to awaken Chinese women, so that women can have a better understanding and choose the life they want more calmly and orderly. I really like her and she is also a great inspiration to me. My age anxiety, marriage panic, career direction, and financial anxiety have all been alleviated, and I have more determination and belief to face life calmly. I used to be afraid of failure, being fired in the workplace, being in a few relationships and not wanting to have another relationship, let alone get married, etc. I have the answer. Sister Ling deserves to be the light of women.
After reading it, the writing is very real and practical. Every sentence is sincere persuasion and the principle behind the serious expression. This is a very practical explanation of the various difficulties faced by women and how to deal with them. It has a great impact on women's growth, views on love, marriage, career, and family. Regarding some hot topics about women: domestic violence and fertility views, the author's views are worth thinking about. Worth a look! And the writing style is very concise and easy to understand.
Because of my persistence for at least one hour every day for the past year, I saw this book in my colleague's hand, and immediately asked and flipped through it. Then I found it in a tomato and started reading. I came across Teacher Wang through a video account before, and it was with some regret that I came across Teacher Wang's work. After reading the three chapters of this book "Family of Origin➕Self-Growth➕Gender Relationship", I basically saw the author explaining three clear contexts of each woman's past, present, and future. The article was penetrating and objectively analyzed. Many metaphors made me suddenly enlightened and frequently enlightened. The author does not hesitate to uncover the scars of his original family, and tells everyone about his confused and impetuous past without any idol baggage. Based on sympathy, understanding, and encouraging female friends to look inward, focus on self-growth, improve personal value through continuous learning and work practice, and become a person with a rich heart. Single people have the ability to love themselves, and when they have surplus wealth and spirit, they love to respect and understand themselves. At the same time, it made me understand not to carry any burden, including my family of origin. We are born as human beings and carry individual labels in the world. We should face life issues on our own. Only by handling our own life issues well can we bring happiness to our children, parents, family members and even our closest relatives and friends. Otherwise, we may not be kidnapped by morality, and we must not be kidnapped by family members and loved ones. There are only thirty thousand days in life. One day is spent complaining and blaming. It is also one day when you suddenly feel enlightened and happy. Reading more books will be beneficial and harmless. After reading Mr. Wang's works, I think—— 1. Named [grassroots women], in fact the audience is not just grassroots; 2. The audience is not limited to women. If men read it patiently without coloring eyes or emotions, your individual and family will also benefit greatly.
If there was such a book 20 years ago, and such a senior could guide me, I think my life might be very brilliant, with a career I like, friends who are on the same page, and maybe I would meet half the people who are on the same page. Unfortunately, there are no ifs and no way out. After staying in the warm water for a long time, I no longer have the strength to resist, and everything goes with the wind. This is a book about sobriety after living. It is worth reading for young sisters. Many words in the book are not in schools and have not been taught by parents. There may be a small number of sober parents who can guide you in life. However, this book contains cognitions you have never had before. Every paragraph and word in the book will make you think deeply and put yourself in your own shoes, so that you can transform yourself. Read slowly and read intensively, and you will gain valuable life experiences that are more expensive than luxury goods.
It is still a very good book that provides women at the grassroots level with some in-depth thoughts and suggestions on how to correctly view the influence of their original family, love, marriage, and childbirth. It can be regarded as a sober ideological edification and soul enlightenment in the world!
This book focuses on the three parts of female growth: family of origin, personal growth, and gender relations. In terms of language: the content of the article is very easy to understand, some metaphors are also very appropriate and vivid, and the reading threshold is not high. In terms of content: It was a great inspiration to me who had not yet left society, especially the last part, the relationship between the sexes. I was completely confused about falling in love, getting married, and having children before, but after reading this book, I have a clearer understanding. I am honored to read this book.
Grassroots women heard about this book two years ago but didn't have time to read it. I thought that based on the style of the online author, this book should also be sharp in words, full of irony, and revealing the explicit truth... But in reality, the tone of the book is soft and moderate, and it is really like a real sister. It patiently and carefully puts aside several points that young people are most likely to be confused about, such as family, love, and marriage, and analyzes them one by one. It uses the experience of past people to comfort, warn, and suggest. There is no condescending guidance, and it is more gentle and sincere like a best friend. I hope that the girls will have a good life. Regardless of the author's literary background or online reviews, this book deserves a big thumbs up for its purpose and the frankness and expectations between the lines. Wipe the faces of children who are lost in the family fog, and light up a light for adults who are stuck in the quagmire of the world... Merit and freedom. If life hurts you, don't be sad, don't be impatient, you need to be calm in the melancholy days, the days are coming soon. Summary: Seven steps for girls to grow up: 1️⃣Independent living 2️⃣Be brave enough to leave the wrong person 3️⃣Perseverance 4️⃣Do the things in front of you 5️⃣Be content and grateful 6️⃣Curiosity and desire for knowledge 7️⃣Stay kind
65,000 Words. Just 6 hours is enough for you to read any novel. Every sentence is vivid and thought-provoking. I bought the physical book and will read it again and again! Thanks to the author for the inspiration
It's very interesting. After reading the first chapter, I want to read the second chapter. It's very addictive and resonant, suitable for everyone. The article is easy to understand and divided into three chapters. The first chapter is about the family of origin, the second chapter is about personal growth, and the third chapter is about intimate relationships. It is very thorough and clear.
I understand: Don't be restricted by mainstream NPC routes, discover your own wireless possibilities, take root in reality, keep working hard, get the life you want, be spiritually independent, keep your spirit inward, I think, therefore I am.
Very nice, I think! It means that what it says makes sense and is very transparent. I hope everyone can read it. Of course, you should maintain your own independent thinking when reading it. Think for yourself.
It is indeed written in a very realistic way. Young girls, especially those with low education levels and average family conditions, really need to read this book. It will give people a very thorough and clear understanding of marriage relationships, gender relationships, and family relationships in life. Marriage is not the only way out. Loving ourselves is the subject of our lives. Only when our own spirit is rich can we have the ability to love others. Worth a look