Any Books About an Ordinary Person Who's Insecure as a Child and Slowly Grows More Confident? 有没有那种就普通人从小自卑慢慢变得自信的书吗

1. 1 十 Ten Socializing Techniques 十神社交术 Philosopher Cat哲学猫Urban130k WordsCompleted This is an unconventional guide to the art of social interaction, inspired by the author’s insights into “Daoist Eight Characters fortune-telling” and “Western pickup artistry.” It is completely different from the books on relationships you see in everyday life: not only is it easy to understand, it is also highly practical. Let’s look at the true nature of human beings in social interactions from a different perspective… 30Reads—Score—Shelves

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   Reconstruction of philosophy, psychology, social interaction, ideology, way of thinking, and personality. . . . . .

2. 2 三 The Principles of Ternary Consciousness and Memory Mapping 三元意识与记忆映射原理 Philosopher Cat哲学猫Sci-Fi & Apocalypse102k WordsCompleted This book deciphers the secrets of human longevity through philosophical reasoning. Tomato's number one original philosophical masterpiece, The Threefold Consciousness and Memory Mapping Principle, explores ideology, human nature, the secrets of human longevity, the truth behind ancient history, the origin of the moon, the mystery of the Great Flood, reasoning about past-life memories, an analysis of homosexuality, depression, multidimensional worlds, the differences in how men and women are att 1.3kReads9.2Score451Shelves
3. 3 雾 Mist-Shrouded Indulgence 雾色靡靡 Chen Ruozhou陈若舟Modern Romance539k WordsCompleted Aloof doctor × graceful beauty Rekindled love + a long road to winning her back + a powerful man lowering his head / both leads are each other’s only partners Ni Wu takes her daughter to the hospital, where the attending physician turns out to be her boyfriend from years ago. They’ve been apart for seven years. She changed her name long ago and has slimmed down from being very overweight. He doesn’t recognize her, and has no idea she secretly had his daughter. Her daughter holds her hand. “Mommy 26.3kReads8.5Score4.2kShelves

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   The heroine was fat and ordinary since she was a child, and had low self-esteem. Later, after giving birth, she became beautiful, tall, white and elegant, and gradually became more confident. Mine Clearance is an article about chasing your wife in the crematorium, and being able to get her back and reunite her, full of sourness.

4. 4 星 Visitor from the Stars 星际来客 Gu Xuying顾絮影Sci-Fi & Apocalypse151k WordsOngoing No CP, peerless beauty An ordinary chubby homebody is unexpectedly parasitized by an alien creature and forced to embark on a path of transformation. After the parasite takes hold, he undergoes inhuman training, gradually changing from a giant weighing over three hundred pounds into a handsome man with a well-proportioned physique. His personality shifts from that of a shut-in to something inhumanly cold-blooded, while his intelligence skyrockets through study. Before the alien race can captur 162Reads9.5Score—Shelves

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   What a great novel! I was so touched after seeing it! [Cover face][Cover face][Cover face][Cover face][Cover face][Ask for attention][Ask for attention][Ask for attention][Ask for attention]

5. 5 祭 Refining the Mountains and Rivers 祭炼山河 Dining Hall Bun食堂包子Eastern Fantasy6.9M WordsCompleted He rose from humble beginnings, grasping tightly at the turning point that could change his fate. Through mist and shadow, he pursued both night and light, until at last he became a figure who illuminated heaven and earth! 21Reads7.3Score—Shelves
6. 6 呆 The Adorable Princess Consort: Her Husband's Mind Is Impossible to Read 呆萌王妃：夫君心思太难猜 Golden Hairpin, Ah金步摇啊Ancient Romance157k WordsCompleted A sweet but slow-witted little princess consort VS a cold-on-the-outside, warm-on-the-inside, jealous prince Chu Guier hit her head as a child and was left with an intellectual disability. Naive and slow to catch on, she unexpectedly married a prince who wielded great power at court! Guier was insecure and afraid, but her princely husband not only accepted her despite her foolishness and dazed manner, he treated her with tenderness and affection. Little by little, she opened her heart and emerge 467Reads8.8Score—Shelves
7. 7 心 A Heartfelt Deal 心动交易 Qi Bu柒部Modern Romance142k WordsCompleted [Sweet romance with angst + healing] [Exclusive devotion, a polished but depraved top lawyer × a money-loving junior lawyer] Jiang Ran met Gu Shencheng because he casually pointed her out from a line of beauties. She wanted his money; he wanted her body. Once she was through her rough patch, Jiang Ran pulled up her pants and acted like nothing had happened. “Attorney Gu, let’s not keep in touch from now on.” Gu Shencheng gripped her chin. “Jiang Ran, you used me and now you’re tossing me aside?” 174Reads7.1Score—Shelves
8. 8 一 Everything Is for the Best 一切都是最好的安排 Extroverted Loneliness外向孤独症Modern Romance10k WordsCompleted I happened to come across a short video posted by Xu Yisen. I knew the background in the video all too well. It was the hotel where I always stayed whenever I went to City A to see him. My heart suddenly started pounding out of control. Just ten minutes earlier, he had called me and said he was getting off work and going to have barbecue with friends. But why was he at that hotel? My instincts told me Xu Yisen was cheating on me! —Reads—Score—Shelves
9. 9 重 Back to My Sophomore Year: Living Life to the Fullest 重回高二活出精彩 Qing Muli倾霂黎Modern Romance367k WordsCompleted [Reborn + System + Strong Female Lead] In her previous life, family problems left Lin Minzhi sensitive and insecure. She drifted through life, never knowing what she really wanted. Just as she was slowly starting to get better, she fell asleep on a high-speed train and somehow went back to her second year of high school, with a System bound to her! She swore to change her sensitive, insecure nature and make one of her dreams come true! 104Reads6.8Score—Shelves
10. 10 云 Light Between the Clouds 云隙里的光 Blood-Colored Spirit Page血色灵页7k WordsCompleted Light Through the Clouds —Reads—Score—Shelves

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    It is relatively short, but the inner description of the protagonist is delicate, the transformation is natural, the text is delicate, and the fine grain [send heart] [send heart] is also very consistent with the process of being saved from low self-esteem [send heart] [send heart]

11. 11 老 Old Liu and His Daughter 老刘和他的女儿 Old Du Soup老杜汤Modern Romance108k WordsCompleted Lao Liu is an ordinary, down-and-out farmer with nothing to be proud of. But his ideas about raising his children are completely at odds with the mainstream. After 18 years of perseverance, his daughter has given him his proudest reason of all. Is he happy or unfortunate? Everyone probably has their own answer. 343Reads—Score—Shelves

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    A dull story about farmers subverting their three views to educate their children. It takes a long time to develop from low self-esteem to self-confidence.

12. 12 姻 A Dream of Marriage 姻梦 Yun Hezhen云禾桢Modern Romance515k WordsCompleted [Two Female Leads + Double Lives + School Life + Regretful Pursuit + Redemption + Dreams] [Headstrong Fighting Champion + Gentle, Frail Student Council President] [Poor, Insecure Sweetheart + Handsome, Wealthy Abuser] Have you ever had a lucid dream, where you could do whatever you wanted? Zi He was abandoned in a snowy wilderness as a newborn. Luckily, she met Nai Meng, another orphan. She learned martial arts and wandered the world with Nai Meng. After Nai Meng died, Zi He became the new Dream 15Reads—Score—Shelves

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    Ordinary people live a life of poverty and low self-esteem. They work part-time in college, hand out flyers at traffic lights, clean thousands of dishes a day to earn a hundred yuan, and are harassed as waiters. It's so realistic. They only have 300 yuan of living expenses a month. It's so heartbreaking!

13. 13 许 All the Years You Have Left 许尔余生 Hai Yun Xi海云夕Modern Romance170k WordsCompleted [Pure hatred couple] [An insecure, resentful woman × a considerate male doctor] [Both sexually inexperienced] Eight years ago, Yu Shi mistakenly believed that Xu Erqing had caused his first love to die. After they unexpectedly spent a night together, he deliberately tossed her a bank card and sneered: “Trying to use me to climb the ladder? Take this. Eight thousand should be enough.” From then on, Yu Shi became Xu Erqing's nightmare. His words had kept her awake with anger for eight years. Eight 907Reads—Score—Shelves

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    This book is really good. The heroine had low self-esteem because of her poor family background when she was in school, but she gradually became more and more powerful and confident, becoming an outstanding lawyer who always upholds justice. In terms of relationship, it was quite tortuous at the beginning, because her crush gave her a heavy blow during her first night, and even said some words that made her suffer for eight years, but fortunately, the misunderstanding was explained clearly.

14. 14 憨 Simple-Minded Ni 憨妮 Zhang Dalei张大磊Modern Romance226k WordsCompleted Hanni is a woman who seems a little dim-witted to outsiders. She marries three men: the first is an ordinary man, the second a tycoon, and the third a young hoodlum. This is the story of her and the people around her, and how Hanni changes her fate... 107Reads7.0Score—Shelves

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    Please read this book

15. 15 架 A Fictional Immortal Realm 架空仙界 The Child Matriarch's Cozy Retreat童姥的养心小筑Ancient Romance1.7M WordsOngoing “Letian” is an NPC in an online game, assigned the role of a monster beast kept by an immortal sect. His original fate was to be enslaved by the “immortals” for the rest of his life, but he’s determined to change his destiny through sheer wit... “Bai Qi” is the top disciple of an immortal sect in the game. His real name is Bai Qilin, and in real life he’s a brilliant student who can’t catch a break. He hoped the game would help him regain his “confidence,” but even “Letian,” an NPC, refuses to h 28Reads9.0Score—Shelves

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    "Lotte" is an NPC in the online game, and his identity is arranged as a monster raised in the fairy gate. Originally, this was the fate of being enslaved by the "gods" for a lifetime, but he decided to change his fate with his mind... "Bai Qi" is the chief of the immortal sect in the online game. His real name is Bai Qilin, and he is a frustrated "student master" in reality. He originally wanted to find his "confidence" in the game, but he didn't expect that even the NPC "Lotte" would not listen to his "lessons" and dared to fall in love with the same female player as him... Due to jealousy and hatred, Bai Qi finally convinced himself that he was "just an NPC and a monster" and sacrificed "Lotte"'s younger brother "Le Shui" to practice the forbidden secrets of the immortal sect... The feud between the two and "Lotte"'s adventure began...

16. 16 从 From a Rural School Dropout to a Dream-Chasing Writer 从农村辍学青年到写作逐梦人 Setting Out at Dawn朝光启程Urban111k WordsCompleted An autobiographical story of humble beginnings, dropping out of school in the countryside, working one’s way up, and the ordinary lives of people at the bottom of society. A story of everyday people and the coming of age of those born in the 1980s and 1990s. This is the true account of a young man born in the 1990s who left school after junior high and fought to make something of himself. From the wounds inflicted by his family in childhood to the rough, thorny road he traveled, his life from th 31Reads—Score—Shelves

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    Yes, I am. Just read it all in the text.

17. 17 丢 The Love That Lost Its Future 丢了未来的爱 Little Monster in the Candy House糖果屋里的小怪物Modern Romance389k WordsCompleted Some people say that promises and oaths are both spoken without meaning. Some words are best taken with a grain of salt, and some people are best left as past loves. If you take things too seriously, you’re the only one who gets hurt. “In this life, the next, and every life after that, I will love only Lin Xi. If I ever marry, I’ll marry only Lin Xi.” “In this life, the next, and every life after that, I will marry only Brother Yu.” Their vows still rang in their ears, yet he had gone to another 3Reads—Score—Shelves

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    Are there any people who have been lonely since childhood? Do you want to take a look?

18. 18 乐 King of the Promised Land 乐土之王 Da Da大耷Historical400k WordsOngoing An ordinary farm boy is drafted to fight the Hu people on the northern grasslands. Later, he is forced to shoulder the responsibility of protecting the people of the world. After countless trials, he leads them in building a free, equal, harmonious, and prosperous homeland. 1Reads—Score—Shelves

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    "The King of Paradise" is a great book

19. 19 今 Today I Want to Speak About Some Issues 今天我想表达一些问题 Xiujian琇剑Urban156k WordsCompleted Adjectives can only express an individual's feelings in a particular moment. Even when we see the same scene, we may not feel the same way. And even if we do, we might describe it differently. Some of life's pain cannot be put into words. No adjective can express or convey it. Only you can truly experience it for yourself. 4Reads—Score—Shelves

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    When you are in school, good grades make you confident. When working, working hard and creating results makes you confident. Ha ha. But true confidence is not these external vanities. It is a comprehensive psychological experience process.

20. 20 落 Taking the Stage After the Curtain Falls 落幕登场 Liu Haifeng刘海峰Urban148k WordsOngoing Liu Mingming heads to Beijing alone, carrying his dream of making music, only to be swindled out of every penny. Doused in the cold reality of life, he grits his teeth, sets aside his passion, and bows his head to make a living. In the end, he finds success in both love and career. 13Reads—Score—Shelves

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    Just don't meet your requirements too much, just follow your counterpart and take your time~

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