Ten Years: I Finally Became My Own Rock

This article is an in-depth novel that makes girls empathize. Never be fooled by men's sweet words. They just want to deceive you, and then they treat you as their own private property and vassal. Then they live a good life of being cared for. When they are bullied by their in-laws, they fight back fiercely on the basis of ensuring that they are not subjected to domestic violence! ! ! Like the heroine, wake up! Be self-reliant and self-reliant! But how can the scars of the past be healed? This is a great article about female growth! I hope more girls will read this! I have already made a wish to adapt it and hope to see the adapted short drama soon.

This article has written about the silence and collapse of many women in marriage. After several years of marriage, she gave all her tenderness and dedication to her family, endured all grievances, hid all sadness, and lived like a shadow of herself. She thought that sincerity could be replaced by sincerity. It was not until a medical certificate and a cold instruction that she saw clearly: some dedication was always self-motivated, without hysteria or blame. People just turned around silently, spent five years to counterattack and turn around, and lived to become their own backers. The most sober truth in the world is just one sentence: After the heartache, we have made a self-transcendence and counterattacked from ordinary accountants to strong men in the workplace. It turns out that the most painful thing is not the injury, but finally understanding that the most solid backer for a woman in this life is always herself. When she became strong, her husband's family began to learn to respect her. It turns out that respect is never gained by tolerance, but by strength. When you are weak, you are surrounded by bad people; when you are strong, the whole world is kind to you.

After reading this book, I cried in bed for half an hour. I understand the heroine's suffocating feeling of "living as someone else's appendage" - when she got married, she believed her mother-in-law's words to "treat you as her own daughter", quit her job and handed over her salary for the sake of the family, cried silently in the bathroom late at night, endured and sacrificed without any bottom line, and finally Suffering from breast nodules due to depression, and being completely shattered by her mother-in-law's indifference, these tiny, pyrotechnic details accurately reproduce the self-sacrifice of countless married women, living their lives as "Chen Ming's wife" and "mother of their children", except that they are not themselves. The diagnosis of grade 3 breast nodules was like a slap in the face that woke her up. I instantly felt empathy and felt numb all over. How many women only wake up after their bodies turn on the red light and their hearts are completely broken by their husbands: It turns out that it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on anyone else. The heroine spent five years taking exams, working hard, and buying a house. She went from being an accountant with a monthly salary of 4,500 yuan to a director with an annual salary of 500,000 yuan. This was not a trick in a cool novel, but the result of countless late nights of gritted teeth and perseverance. What struck me the most was the sentence at the end, "The only one you can always rely on is yourself." This book does not teach us to hate marriage or our in-laws, but it teaches us never to lose ourselves for anyone. If you are also wronged in your marriage and suffering from internal strife in your family, you must read this book. It will give you the courage to stand up again.

The story is like a magnet, attracting attention from the first sentence. Every step of the protagonist's actions touches people's hearts. Crisis comes one after another but he is always able to avert danger. I hold my breath while reading, and my heart still beats faster when I close the book. I just want to read it again immediately to explore those neglected foreshadowings.

I particularly like the author's "It turns out that the only person you can rely on in this world is yourself." A particularly good urban emotional workplace article with a strong sense of immersion. The author suppresses it first and then develops it. From the patience in the early stage to the salary increase and promotion in the later stage, the writing feels full of excitement. The only thing that was hard to get over was that the bullying in the early stage was all held in my chest and I couldn't let go! Looking forward to the next one

Comes from life, from reality. How many fairy tale filters have been shattered by marriage. From the beginning, the heroine was forbearing and had no sense of existence, and gradually transformed into a high-paid white-collar worker. This is a good article about women's awakening. I support [smile][smile]

A very real masterpiece that captures the sadness of many girls. In order to cater to others or certain expectations, I have been forbearing and compromising. It also sounds a wake-up call to the real-life love brain. Don't look at others, live for yourself. Only when you live well can you be truly good. This book touched my heart with its delicate writing style. Thank you to the author for showing such a good work and support [smile][smile]

After ten years of marriage, how many married women has Jiayan become? I handed over my salary card, quit my job, and focused on my family. In the end, I almost forgot my own name. When I saw the part where she got the diagnosis for grade 3 breast nodules and her mother-in-law asked her to do the laundry without asking about her condition, I immediately broke my guard. Aren't these the countless of us who have been squeezed dry by our families? Fortunately she woke up. Taking exams, working hard for a job, saving money to buy a house, from a monthly salary of 4,500 to an annual salary of 500,000, there is no golden finger, it is all real hard work, there is no forced coolness, no bloodshed, it is the most authentic details of marriage and the most authentic female awakening. My biggest feeling after reading this is: A woman really only has herself as her supporter in this life. Don't lose yourself for anyone. Jiayan did it, and so can we. Five-star recommendation, all married and unmarried girls should watch it!

I finished reading it in one go. This book is really good. It is full of self-reliance and positive energy. I also hope that the author will publish a novel that focuses on describing the counterattack in the second half. The author's writing style is very good and the counterattack novel has a strong sense of substitution.

After reading this article, I burst into tears instantly. It was so real and heart-wrenching. How many women have lived like her in the article in their marriages? For the sake of so-called "family harmony", she put away her sharp edges, smoothed her edges, treated her mother-in-law as her biological mother, her husband as her support, and put her own needs infinitely behind. She thought that she would endure the calm for a while and take a step back to open up the world. Unexpectedly, her bottomless dedication would only be taken for granted. Fortunately, she cut her losses in time and took five years to make a comeback. She was not trying to take revenge on anyone, but to give herself an explanation. When she stood in the house she bought and looked at the lights of thousands of houses, the sober irony was the best farewell to the past ten years. The most touching thing about this article is that it describes the power of female awakening. Marriage is not everything in life, self-worth is. Never lose yourself in marriage, and always leave yourself a way out. You can give for love, but you cannot sacrifice yourself for love. You are yourself first, and then your wife, mother, and daughter-in-law. Marriage is the icing on the cake, not a timely help. Never place your hopes on others, you are your own backer! Even if life gives you a slap in the face, you should still make a fist with your backhand👊. Recommend! Recommend! Recommend!