When her son Sensen was diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder, Su Qing's world collapsed. What was once a sweet vision for the future has been torn to pieces by endless confusion, frustration, and the harsh label of "abnormal." Sensen is like an asteroid running alone. He is immersed in the rhythm of numbers and is deaf to the noise of the world; a hug can make him panic, but the texture of a fallen leaf can make him stare for a long time. Su Qing struggled with tears and despair, feeling that there was an insurmountable deep sea gap between her and her biological son.
However, her motherly instinct made her refuse to sink. She clumsily learned ABA and floor time, interpreting Sensen's every subtle look and movement like a code-breaker. She resisted his strange gazes, built a fortress amidst the cries of supermarket collapse, and searched for a bridge of communication through countless sleepless nights. This road is full of thorns - her husband's avoidance, others' misunderstandings, and energy exhaustion push her to the edge time and time again. But the amazing talent that Sensen occasionally showed, his smile as pure as the first snow, and the piece of biscuit handed over clumsily but with great effort, all became the glimmer of light that penetrated the darkness.
This is not a miraculous healing story. This is the journey of a mother sinking into the deep silent sea and finally learning to listen to the unique "whale song frequency". Su Qing gradually understood that Sensen was not a defect that needed to be "repaired". He had a complete and unique inner universe that was as gorgeous as the aurora. Love, in the end, did not pull Sensen into the "normal" orbit, but Su Qing bravely boarded his planet, and in the endless starlight and silence, discovered the most original and tenacious form of love - accepting differences.
Reader comments
Children with autism are a growing group. Anyone who has ever been a mother or father, or a parent with a child with special needs, will definitely sympathize with, resonate with, and gain something from this novel. Those who have never been a mother or father can also learn about such children in advance. This kind of child is the embodiment of species diversity. In the past, people may have been prejudiced against such children, but with the progress of the times, more and more people have understood autism, and they will become more and more tolerant of such children. The writing of this book The purpose is just to let more people understand the autistic group, hope that everyone can be tolerant of this special group, and hope that society can tolerate them. They are a group of pitiful people, and hope that the world will have more warmth and less hurt. This topic itself is not a hot topic. There are definitely fewer families with special children than normal children. The author hopes that especially non-autistic families can also understand more and have more love for special children. Thank you all [blowing kiss][blowing kiss][blowing kiss]
Children with autism are a growing group. Anyone who has ever been a mother or father, or a parent with a child with special needs, will definitely sympathize with, resonate with, and gain something from this novel. Those who have never been a mother or father can also learn about such children in advance. This kind of child is the embodiment of species diversity. In the past, people may have been prejudiced against such children, but with the progress of the times, more and more people have understood autism, and they will become more and more tolerant of such children. The writing of this book The purpose is just to let more people understand the autistic group, hope that everyone can be tolerant of this special group, and hope that society can tolerate them. They are a group of pitiful people, and hope that the world will have more warmth and less hurt. This topic itself is not a hot topic. There are definitely fewer families with special children than normal children. The author hopes that especially non-autistic families can also understand more and have more love for special children. Thank you all [blowing kiss][blowing kiss][blowing kiss]