In the 1980s, the Commander Stopped Pursuing Me, and I Found Happiness Divorcing with My Child
八零，首长不追了，带崽离婚真香
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- Modern Romance
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- Period Fiction
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- 1y ago
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- Thirty Years Without Sharing a Bed: The General Regrets the Divorce to His Core三十年不同房，提离婚首长悔断肠Alternate title on Fanqie
- In the 1980s the Commander Stops Pursuing her Taking the Child and Getting Divorced is Surprisingly SatisfyingEnglish name
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It's a very good show. The female lead is the reincarnation of the Leshan Giant Buddha. Even though others have wronged her, she still feels heartache at the drop of a hat. She gets divorced and doesn't want anything, even taking her child with her, as if she's afraid her ex-husband won't have a good life.
It's pretty good. I don't read many stories like this where the protagonist is desperate to win back his wife, but this one didn't bother me at all. The author's writing is clear, and the main character is well-developed. It's definitely worth reading. The only downside is that the author updates so quickly, I can't keep up! 😢😢😢
I started watching it as a trial, but I couldn't stop. It's really good. The female lead is independent, straightforward, and not a saint. The romance is very engaging and full of human tension.
I quite like this kind of story. The female lead is good; she has unresolved issues from her past life, and given the death of her son, her reluctance to divorce for the sake of pride is very understandable and reasonable. It's also commendable that she doesn't wallow in self-pity and continues to study hard. 👍 She's been reborn, and she's decisive, resourceful, and able to reflect on her own problems—that's fantastic!
Jiang Yi: A belated passenger seat—I'll never sit in it again. Quite principled! It's a good read, worth following. Please update more chapters, author! I support you! Good job! Hurry up and let the second male lead get the top spot! Go for it! [Heart emoji] [super heart emoji]
It's good. I want to see what happens when the female lead and Boss Nie get together. Embracing a new life and not going back to an old flame is great.
The writing is good, the plot is good, and I like the maps. It has a feel of a Taiwanese drama. As a long-time bookworm from Guangdong, I rarely see stories with maps set in Guangdong. Tomato's books usually have maps of Beijing or Shanghai, which is visually tiring. Is the author from Guangdong? The local customs and habits of Guangdong are described very accurately and well. Keep up the good work, author!
It's so good!!! The romance between the male and female leads is developing, but it's not dragging at all. It's so good!!! It's not the kind where the female lead immediately starts dating someone new after a divorce; it's more deliberate and nuanced!!!
So far, the reading experience is quite good. As a historical fiction, the basic common sense is well-established, and the writing is smooth and concise. As a rebirth story, the female lead's character is believable; she wasn't killed by stupidity in her previous life, and in this new life, she only wants to protect her child. She's decisive and efficient, and very direct in dealing with scumbags and manipulative women. It's quite engaging, I support it! Keep up the good work, author! 💕
I couldn't help but watch it two or three times. It's really good. I identified with Zhao Liying's Xu Banxia as the female lead, Lin Gengxin as the male lead, and Feng Shaofeng as the second male lead. The plot is very exciting, and the male lead is really handsome. I love him. He silently protected her for 30 years. A good man like him only appears in novels.